Urban drama: Starting from rejecting Fan Shengmei on a blind date

Fan Shengmei decided to quit her HR job at a foreign company after the Chinese New Year. She wants to start a new life, so she is now ready to look for recruitment information from various companies.

Guan Juer and Qiu Yingying expressed their support for this. In their opinion, Fan Shengmei's decision to be proactive and progressive is a good thing.

On the way to work the next day, Zhou Chen was a little surprised when he learned the news. He was not surprised that Fan Shengmei wanted to change jobs, but the reason why Fan Shengmei wanted to change jobs.

Fan Shengmei actually thinks that men are unreliable and she has to rely on her own efforts to support herself. Is the sun rising from the west?

Fan Shengmei said that she does not rely on men. Does that mean that Fan Shengmei is not going to be the best? Doesn’t she want to be a rich wife anymore?

In the plot, Fan Shengmei did change her job to a financial management company after the Chinese New Year. Even so, didn't she give up her plan to be the best?

With the help of the financial management company's platform, Fan Shengmei had the opportunity to come into contact with wealthy people, because only rich people need financial management. This job gives her more opportunities to come into contact with wealthy people than working as an HR in a foreign company.

"Haha, not relying on men, Fan Shengmei's boast is a bit exaggerated. If Fan Shengmei can do it, then I will look at her with new eyes.

In my opinion, what Fan Shengmei said is a joke. One of the reasons why I disliked Fan Shengmei before was that she was too vain and always wanted to rely on men to achieve class crossing.

If Fan Shengmei can really change her attitude, then she is not hopeless. Let's wait and see. I hope she can really make changes."

As for Fan Shengmei not relying on men, Zhou Chen thought it was absolutely impossible for her to do so. Maybe she just said it casually on a whim.

The habit has been formed over the years, how can it be changed by just a few words from Fan Shengmei? Without relying on men, how can Fan Shengmei support her family and fill the holes in her family?

Before she draws a clear line with her family, it's useless for Fan Shengmei to change jobs. The more she earns, the more her family will suck money from her. This bottomless pit can never be filled.

As long as her family morally blackmails Fan Shengmei, her future life will most likely consist of helping her son and grandson, which is beyond her ability to support.

"Zhou Chen, you're being a bit disrespectful. Since Sister Fan has decided to make a change, I believe she will succeed. Let's just wait and see."

Qiu Yingying felt that Zhou Chen underestimated Fan Shengmei, so she immediately refuted him. It seemed that she had great confidence in Fan Shengmei.

Zhou Chen looked at Guan Juer, as if asking for her opinion. Guan Juer was relatively rational and she also expressed her views.

"If Sister Fan can change herself, it would be a good thing in my opinion, but I'm afraid it will be difficult.

Anyone can express determination and make big promises, but the key lies in what she will do and whether she can stick to it.

Sister Fan used to be such an arrogant person, and we all know how much she hated Zhou Chen.

But Fan Shengmei knelt down and begged Zhou Chen for money for her father's surgery, which was simply unimaginable in the past.

If Sister Fan can demonstrate this kind of conviction, then I believe she can make changes. My biggest fear is that with just a little pressure, Sister Fan's modest ambition will crumble, and she'll likely compromise."

Guan Juer's words were recognized by Zhou Chen, who then explained, "In fact, in my opinion, as long as Fan Shengmei can achieve these two points, it will be a huge change for her, and only then will she have hope of success.

The first point is to draw a clear line with family members. You can help your parents in a limited way, but you cannot help your brother and sister-in-law because they have hands and feet and you cannot turn them into parasites.

Everything has a limit. It is the most foolish thing for Fan Shengmei to support the entire family alone. This will not change the fact that Fan Shengmei will never be able to make a name for herself.

Haha, I can only say that Fan Shengmei is really too stupid to see through this point. Her so-called not relying on men is a joke. "

This view was shared by Guan Juer and Qiu Yingying. As people who have come into contact with Fan Shengmei's parents, they can see very clearly what kind of people the old couple are like. Their preference for boys over girls and favoring the older brother is really a headache.

If Fan Shengmei doesn't help her parents, it means she is unfilial. If she helps them, it will be a moral blackmail and she will be asked to suck her daughter's blood to subsidize her son. Fan Shengmei obviously cannot grasp this balance, and she will not choose to draw a clear line with her family.

"The second point is that we must change Fan Shengmei's idea of ​​buying a house in Shanghai, because it is a bit unrealistic for her.

It is said that one should do things within one's ability. If Fan Shengmei can share the joys and sorrows with her man to buy a house, I will admire her very much.

The fear is that Fan Shengmei will exploit men under the pretext of marriage. She doesn't want to rely on men, but also wants to buy a house in Shanghai, which is impossible with her salary.

The reason why Fan Shengmei broke up with Wang Bochuan wasn’t because Wang Bochuan didn’t have a house or a car in Shanghai?

When Fan Shengmei feels that she has unlimited pressure to buy a house, she will eventually rely on a man to buy a house. This is not what Fan Shengmei means by not relying on men, right?

Just listen to Fan Shengmei's words, don't take them seriously, because you'll be embarrassed if you get slapped in the face later."

Zhou Chen knew that Fan Shengmei was ambitious, but Fan Shengmei's ability did not match her ambition, so she would become a joke.

Fan Shengmei is not as easily contented as Guan Juer and Qiu Yingying. Sometimes being content is a kind of happiness, and that way people won't be too ambitious.

After hearing Zhou Chen's words, Guan Juer and Qiu Yingying didn't know how to refute.

As good sisters living in a rented house, they certainly know how persistent Fan Shengmei is in her pursuit of a house.

If Fan Shengmei really had to rely on herself, with her annual salary of more than 10,000 yuan and the high housing prices in Shanghai, she would not be able to buy a house even if she worked for 50 years.

What's more, Fan Shengmei has wasted 30 years now. If she doesn't rely on a man, how can she buy a house?

Alas, whether it is staying away from family or buying a house, for Fan Shengmei, these are feelings that are hard to let go. In this way, Fan Shengmei's words about not relying on men seem to be a joke.

It can only be said that Fan Shengmei is a little too blindly confident. What's more, their family's troubles have just begun. After all, Fan Shengmei sold her brother's house.

He might be afraid to let his brother Fan Shengying bully those debt collectors, but wouldn't it be easy for Fan Shengying to bully Fan Shengmei?

In this family where boys are favored over girls, Fan Shengmei has always been the lowest in the family and the one who is bullied.

Fan Shengmei jumped from the oppressed bottom of the family to become the pillar of the family. This elevated status and the recognition from her family made the vain Fan Shengmei psychologically satisfied, so for this vain sense of recognition, she was willing to be sucked dry by her family.

In Zhou Chen's opinion, everything that happened in the Fan family was Fan Shengmei's own fault. It was because she didn't know how to resist and spoiled her family little by little.

On the other side, Wei Wei found out that Andy had a relationship with Wei Guoqiang, and he had already started contacting Wei Guoqiang.

Perhaps Wei Wei thought that helping Andy find her father would allow him to stand up straight in front of Andy and win her favor. Unfortunately, Wei Wei didn't know that he would be self-defeating.