Urban drama: Starting from rejecting Fan Shengmei on a blind date

Fan Shengmei's words can be said to be an attempt to sow discord, as she brought the conflict between Guan Juer and Qiu Yingying to the surface.

Although they seem to be at peace on the surface, there are some things they will have to face in the future.

As a rich second-generation, Zhou Chen will inevitably get married in the future, but who to marry becomes a problem. If a family marriage is arranged at that time, will Zhou Chen's wife really tolerate your existence?

If Zhou Chen chooses someone from among you to marry, what should the other person do?

There may even be more women in Zhou Chen's future. What will you be then?

These questions directly made Guan Juer and Qiu Yingying change their expressions. They had thought about some of the things, but they did not want to embarrass each other, so they adopted an evasive attitude.

But now that Zhou Chen's identity as a rich second-generation has been exposed, their hope of being together has become even slimmer. Who knows how many difficulties are waiting for them?

Fan Shengmei's words seemed to be saying that you might be abandoned by Zhou Chen at any time, so it's better for you to make plans for some things early.

In contrast to the silent Guan Juer, the unwilling Qiu Yingying immediately retorted: "Sister Fan, no, Zhou Chen is not that kind of person, and he has already decided to take Guan Guan and me to his home for the New Year.

This means we have met the parents, and I believe Zhou Chen will not abandon us."

It’s a pity that Fan Shengmei only gave Qiu Yingying a look of contempt. Are you too naive, girl?

"Yingying, are you thinking too simply about this? Even if you meet the parents, do you think you can get past Zhou Chen's parents?

Let’s not talk about your beauty and talent, but your noisy personality will not catch people’s eyes. A daughter-in-law in the upper class must be well-educated, beautiful and intelligent, and must have the proper manners.

To give a simple example, cocktail parties are inevitable in the upper class. At this time, other people's daughters-in-law are gentle and elegant, but you just keep eating and drinking. To be honest, your mother-in-law will think you are embarrassing.

With low emotional intelligence and IQ, how can you please others? Even if Zhou Chen likes you, sometimes he will be forced to do so because of his family, so you should not be too optimistic.

Fan Shengmei criticized Qiu Yingying to the point of being worthless. Such an evaluation seemed to have excluded Qiu Yingying from the possibility of being a daughter-in-law of a wealthy family, which immediately made Qiu Yingying cry out of grievance.

Guan Juer frowned. In name, Fan Shengmei was indeed doing this for their own good, but Guan Juer always felt something strange in her heart, as if she had missed something. She really couldn't figure out what went wrong.

Fan Shengmei was clearly about to go out when we came back, but now she stays to help us analyze the situation. Do you have so much free time?

Guan Juer, who couldn't figure it out, didn't say anything. Unfortunately, Qiu Yingying had been completely fooled by Fan Shengmei, and she could only follow Fan Shengmei's thoughts.

"Sister Fan, what should I do? Although Zhou Chen's sister seems strict, she is also very kind to us.

Will Zhou Chen's family really disagree with us being together, but I don't want to leave Zhou Chen?"

Seeing the anxious Qiu Yingying, Fan Shengmei began to teach her about love, and she tried to trick Qiu Yingying again.

"Yingying, judging from Sister Fan's many years of relationship experience, no matter who we fall in love with, we women are always the ones who suffer.

Sometimes we accompany people to eat, sleep and play, and when they are in a bad mood, they will say that we are not suitable and let's break up. In the end, we women get nothing except wasting several years of our youth.

Put yourself in their shoes and think about it. Don’t you think we women have it very hard? Why are we the ones who suffer the most?

Qiu Yingying, who was fooled, nodded. She felt that it made sense, so what should she do?

"Yingying, as someone who's been through this, Sister Fan is going to tell you today that women who are in love must have security. Only with security can we women avoid being left with nothing.

The first thing is financial security. As a rich second-generation, Zhou Chen can fully guarantee your life, but we also have to prepare for the worst.

If Zhou Chen abandons you one day, you can't be homeless, so you must have a house of your own.

Take these clothes in front of you for example, they are just consumables. Although they are expensive, you can't expect to wear them for ten or eight years.

Having a house is the most important thing. Listen to Sister Fan's advice. If Zhou Chen and I ever break up, we must have a house of our own."

After hearing Fan Shengmei's words, Guan Juer frowned even deeper. Was she trying to trick Qiu Yingying into asking Zhou Chen for the house?

No wonder Zhou Chen said before that Fan Shengmei was rather vain. Although it sounds reasonable, it does not conform to Guan Juer’s values.

In Guan Juer's opinion, if there is love, then stay together, and if there is no love, then separate. She really can't take the initiative to ask someone for a house.

"The second point is emotional security. Feelings are the foundation of everything. If there is no affection between you, it is better to separate as soon as possible. This is called getting out early to reduce losses.

The third point is the protection of marriage. If a man cannot promise to marry you, it is better to separate.

Because no woman wants to be a mistress, and no woman wants to bear the social stigma."

Everyone understands the general principles, but Qiu Yingying and Guan Juer know that Zhou Chen cannot do the third point of guaranteeing marriage. Zhou Chen's view on love has explained everything, otherwise he would not have two girlfriends, Guan Juer and Qiu Yingying?

Anyway, the points listed by Fan Shengmei seemed to be persuading Qiu Yingying and Guan Juer to leave Zhou Chen, but this was also something Guan Juer and Qiu Yingying were unwilling to accept.

After all, in this society, having two girlfriends is no longer in line with public opinion. If they wanted to leave, they would have left Zhou Chen long ago. Why would they need Fan Shengmei to persuade them?

"Guan Guan, Ying Ying, please think carefully about what I'm saying. These are things you'll have to face in the future. I still have to go shopping, so I'll be leaving first."

After Fan Shengmei left, Qiu Yingying focused her attention on Guan Juer and asked, "Guan Guan, I think what Sister Fan said makes sense. What do you think?

I really don't want to leave Zhou Chen. Do you think he will abandon us?"

Guan Juer shook her head and said, "You decide for yourself how to choose, but I feel like what Sister Fan said is nonsense, because all the things she laid out in the beginning were just guesses.

We haven't met Zhou Chen's parents yet. How does Sister Fan know that they won't like us? How does Sister Fan know that they don't agree with us being together?

Do you think it is correct to draw conclusions based on things that haven't happened yet?

You also know that Sister Fan and Zhou Chen don't get along, and there are conflicts between them. Maybe Sister Fan is really doing this for my own good, but I have my own judgment and I choose to believe Zhou Chen.

To be honest, I really wanted to confront Sister Fan a little bit earlier. Was she trying to sow discord between us and Zhou Chen? In the end, I didn't say anything because, after all, she might just be well-intentioned.

Of course, there is one thing Guan Juer didn’t say. She was afraid that if she said it, the two sides would fall out. Your analysis of other people’s feelings, Fan Shengmei, makes sense, but why haven’t you gotten married yet?

Qiu Yingying didn't expect Guan Juer to say that. She immediately realized that Sister Fan could analyze something that hadn't happened yet so enthusiastically. Was she really caring about us, or was she trying to sow discord?

Not wanting to be outdone by Guan Juer, Qiu Yingying immediately expressed her opinion: "Guan Guan, you're right. We should trust Zhou Chen. He will definitely not abandon us."

Haha, if Fan Shengmei just wanted to fool Qiu Yingying, it might have some effect. Fortunately, Guan Juer is still relatively rational.

Fan Shengmei’s analysis makes sense, but this thing may not necessarily happen. Guan Juer really can’t do it by using something that hasn’t happened yet to plot against Zhou Chen’s house.

Fan Shengmei is imposing her own views on love on us. Guan Juer believes that if they take the initiative to ask for a house, Zhou Chen will most likely draw a clear line between them.

With Zhou Chen's family background, it's not that he can't afford it, but he doesn't want to be taken advantage of. Why is Zhou Chen with them? Isn't it because they are simple-minded?

Why does Zhou Chen hate Fan Shengmei? Isn’t it because her feelings are full of vanity and calculation?

Guan Juer would certainly not follow Fan Shengmei's advice, so Fan Shengmei's plan was doomed to fail.