After the breakup, the abstinent president got married and had three babies

"Don't worry about that! Your adorable triplets are going together, so they can play together. There won't be any problems with adaptation."

After thinking for a moment, Mother Lu comforted softly.

After hearing this, Xia Ruoan felt much more relieved, and the image of his three little ones jumping around in his mind appeared.

Speaking of which, the adaptability of her three little ones is indeed quite remarkable.

These three children are just over one year old, and are at the age when they can run and jump and are full of curiosity about the world around them.

At that time, whenever her brothers had free time, they would take the initiative to come and take the children out to play.

Because of this, the little ones often come into contact with different people and environments. Over time, their ability to adapt to unfamiliar environments naturally becomes stronger and stronger.

Take the matter of sending the children back to their parents' home this time. More than a month has passed without us noticing, but we have never heard of them crying and wanting to go home.

On the one hand, Xia Ruoan is happy and pleased with the growth of the children from the bottom of her heart.

But on the other hand, I can't help but feel a little reluctant - after all, as the children grow up day by day, the time I can spend with them will gradually decrease.

"They are only two years old now. I want to send them to kindergarten for a few days to see how things go."

"If you really can't adapt to life there, then consider it next year." Xia Ruoan turned his gaze to Mother Lu and spoke slowly.

"Well... that's fine."

"But if someone needs to take care of the child, do you plan to hire a nanny? Or send the child to your parents-in-law to help?" Mother Lu asked immediately.

"Ruoan, I really think it would be better for you to have a relative to help take care of you."

"Even if we hire a nanny, they can take care of us more attentively!"

"Otherwise, you will definitely not be able to let it go after you go to school." Mother Lu said earnestly.

It turned out that Xia Ruoan had already decided to report to school in September this year, and Mother Lu was naturally very aware of this.

Hearing what Mother Lu said, Xia Ruoan smiled and nodded, expressing her agreement: "You are right, I will really need to trouble my family when the time comes."

"In fact, they have already suggested that if the babies don't adapt to kindergarten life at first, they can send them next year."

"And when I go to school, they come over to help look after the children."

After hearing this, Mother Lu's heart finally settled down. A relieved smile appeared on her face, and she said repeatedly, "Well, this arrangement is good."

Because her own little Binbin especially likes to play with Xia Ruoan's triplets, as the saying goes, love the house and love the dog, so Mother Lu also loves these three little guys from the bottom of her heart.

But to be honest, Mother Lu had never thought that Xia Ruoan actually planned to continue his studies.

After all, considering her current status, outstanding appearance and extraordinary abilities, she is already perfect.

In the eyes of others, academic qualifications are just icing on the cake for her, and it doesn't seem to be that important whether she has one or not.

But Xia Ruoan has his own unique pursuits and ideas, and his positive attitude is truly admirable.

"Come to think of it, I really admire and envy you at the same time!"

"Back then, I had just graduated from university and I followed my family's arrangements without hesitation and married my current husband through an arranged marriage."

"Since then, my life has basically revolved around taking care of my husband and children."

"In my free time, I just go shopping with the ladies I know, get beauty treatments, and so on. Sigh, to be honest, life like this is just utterly boring!"

Mother Lu smiled bitterly and shook her head, a self-deprecating look on her face.

Hearing this, Xia Ruoan couldn't help but look at her and asked softly, "Don't you have anything you really like to do?"

"Your son Binbin doesn't need you to take care of him all the time. Besides, as far as I know, your parents-in-law care about Binbin very much, so logically speaking, you should still have a lot of free time."

Then, Xia Ruoan seemed to have thought of something and asked again, "Is it because your husband doesn't allow you to develop your own interests and hobbies?"

After all, in the social circle they are in, in most cases it is the men who are responsible for making money to support the family, while the women only need to stay beautiful.

This is actually not difficult to understand. After all, when a family is financially well-off and has no shortage of money, as a husband, material needs are no longer the primary consideration. At this time, what he desires more is the emotional value given by his wife.

Rather than returning home to a wife who is also tired and has just returned from get off work, they may be more looking forward to seeing a wife who is beautiful and in a good mood, waiting for them to come home with joy.

However, there are all kinds of men in the world, and naturally there are a few who hold patriarchal ideas.

This type of people are often unwilling to let their wives go out and show themselves in public, and even think that their wives going out to work and earn money is a shameful thing for them, as if it is a direct blow to their male dignity.

Recalling when she was selling vegetables, there were inevitably people talking about her behind her, but she did not care because of her identity and status.

Even if those people harbored all kinds of thoughts, contempt and disdain, they would never dare to express them in front of her, let alone say a single unpleasant word.

Even Mother Lu was slightly stunned when she heard this.

As for the things she likes, she has always followed the rules since she was a child.

From her life plans to her academic choices, her parents had complete control over everything. Even her university major was decided by her parents.

Mother Lu recalled that when she had just graduated, she obeyed her parents' orders and married the blind date they had carefully selected.

At first, she was inevitably a little nervous and unwilling, but as time went on, she found that she was so lucky.

Her husband not only cares for her and protects her, but also takes good care of the family.

Unlike other men, he does not become promiscuous and dissolute once he has money.

In all the years I've been married to him, I've never heard of him having an affair.

What’s even more rare is that her parents-in-law are both kind-hearted and amiable people, and they treat her like their own daughter.

In contrast, her former friends were not so lucky. Although some of them married into wealthy families and seemed to enjoy a glorious life, most of these marriages were based on profit and had no emotional basis at all.

After marriage, conflicts between husband and wife frequently arise and the relationship is difficult to maintain.

Some people simply pursue their own pleasures and do not interfere with each other; while others want to leave but cannot, and eventually torture themselves to insanity.

When talking about her personal hobbies, Mother Lu couldn't help but smile bitterly: "If I had to say what I like, it would have to be painting."

"I studied painting for a while in high school and thought I could make some progress in this field. But my mom said painting was useless and that I couldn't possibly become a famous painter. It was unrealistic and she pushed me to learn piano instead."

"But I really have no interest in playing the piano."

"Ruoan, please help me analyze this. Do you think it would be feasible for me to pick up painting again now?"

"I guess my husband wouldn't have any objections to this, but the problem is, I'm almost 30 years old now. If I go and learn painting, won't others think it's ridiculous?"

Mother Lu said with a worried look on her face.

Ruoan smiled and comforted her: "Binbin's mother, if it were me, I would definitely not laugh at you!"

"You're just doing something that makes you happy. As for those who might laugh at you, they might actually be secretly envious of you because you have the courage to pursue what you love."

Ruoan then used his own example to continue counseling Mother Lu: "Take me for example. I usually grow vegetables and flowers. At first, some people laughed at me, saying how could the wife of a wealthy man be doing vegetable farming work."

"But I don't care what they say, because I am so happy doing it!"

"We really don't need to care too much about other people's views and opinions. As long as you really want to do it, it's never too late to start!"

"Didn't you tell me before that you really liked the peony in our yard? We planted it ten years ago."

"So, if you also want to appreciate such beautiful and charming peonies at this moment, it is still not too late to plant them yourself from now on." Xia Ruoan made an analogy with a smile.

Then she continued, "Although I dare not guarantee that you will become a respected master of painting in the future and fight back against those who have laughed at you."

"But I firmly believe that as long as you always hold on to your ardent love for painting and persevere in practicing, your painting skills will definitely surpass those of most ordinary people."

"After all, the most important thing for you should be to find joy and satisfy your true inner desires and pursuits through painting, rather than simply pleasing others or achieving great success."

After saying these words, a warm smile appeared on Xia Ruoan's face again.

Mother Lu listened quietly to Xia Ruoan's words, and suddenly she had an epiphany. Maybe she had been thinking too much and worrying too much all along?

"Thank you so much! After listening to what you just said, I suddenly feel that if I don't even have the courage to give it a try and just give up so easily, I'm afraid I will regret it in the future."

Mother Lu couldn't help but respond with deep emotion.