Why didn't you tell me earlier that my little sister is still waiting for me?

Lin Bufan took a sip of wine, straightened his body, and the Little Swindler Class began!

"The Zhang Anren you found is the exact opposite of your father's shortcomings. Do you really understand this Zhang Anren? Can you tolerate his other shortcomings? Do you agree with his way of doing things? Are your three views contradictory?

Then there is Zhang Anren. Just listening to your description, I feel that his love is too humble, or he has other purposes for such humble love.

The most likely possibility is that he sees marriage as a stepping stone to move up the social ladder."

Seeing Jiang Nansun about to retort again, Lin Bufan glared at her and shouted, "Shut up and listen to the class carefully."

After Jiang Nansun shut up in grievance, Lin Bufan continued, "A man like this, as his status improves, can be on par with you, or even surpass you.

You will find that he has become a completely different person, and may even beat or scold you, because he wants to regain the face and dignity he has lost from you over the years, bit by bit.

It's just like the relationship between farmers and slaves. No matter how good the farmers are to the slaves, when the slaves are able to turn things around, most of them will take revenge on the farmers first.

Of course, I haven't met your boyfriend yet, so these are just my guesses. You can verify it yourself."

Regardless of whether it is useful or not, it is always a good idea to plant a nail first. When Jiang Nansun discovers some shortcomings of Zhang Anren one day, she may think of today's words. At that time, Jiang Nansun will definitely magnify Zhang Anren's shortcomings in her mind.

Lin Bufan paused, letting Jiang Nansun deepen her memory, and then continued, "What you just said, your troubles and sad experiences, in my opinion, are ultimately due to your own weakness.

What you should do most now is to use all your current conditions to improve yourself. When you become stronger, you will find that your troubles are not troubles at all.

Don't rush to refute, listen to my analysis."

After stopping Jiang Nansun from speaking again, Lin Bufan continued to deceive... Ugh, he continued to analyze: "Based on the speed at which your father squanders his money, how much money does your family have to pay him back?

If you can become strong and become the pillar of this family, they will point their fingers at you.

Does your grandmother dare to tell you that she doesn't like girls and wants to marry you off?

After she gets married, who will take care of her in her old age and give her a comfortable life? Will it depend on her eldest son?

Then there is your father. Your father wants you to marry a rich man. In the final analysis, isn’t it just because he wants to marry into a wealthy family and maintain wealth?

If you become powerful and become a wealthy family yourself, will your father still let you try to marry into a wealthy family?

I'm sure that by then you will have a good-looking son, and he will please you in the same way he pleased your grandmother!

And there is your mother. You said that your mother endures humiliation every day and has a hard life in this family.

As I said, when you become strong, she will naturally live a good life, and the people at home will not give her a hard time for your sake.

So, what you need to do now is to constantly improve yourself. When you become truly strong, you will find that the people and things around you are so beautiful."

Seeing that Lin Bufan had finally finished speaking, Jiang Nansun hurriedly said, "Don't you think you're being too utilitarian? How can family affection be measured by money?"

Lin Bufan spread his hands: "But the reality is so helpless, some family affections cannot be measured by money, but the vast majority of family affections can be measured by money.

To put it bluntly, having a child is an investment, but most people don't say it that way.

Of course, this investment requires not only money, but also a certain amount of emotion. As for how much to invest, it depends on the individual.

Since it is an investment, one must expect a return. Without a return, who would invest?

It's just that some parents want affection in return, some want money in return, and some want a combination of affection and money. There is no parent who doesn't want something in return."

Jiang Nansun scoffed at Lin Bufan's twisted logic and said sarcastically, "If children knew that giving birth to them was an investment, I believe no child would be willing to be the child of such parents."

Lin Bufan was amused by what Jiang Nansun said: "Aren't you talking nonsense? Who doesn't want to find a pair of parents who truly love them and are willing to give their life to them without asking for anything in return?

But, when children with such parents grow up, can they still become such parents? Or, in other words, are you willing to be such a parent? "

When Jiang Nansun was about to say "I can", Lin Bufan interrupted her.

"Stop, stop, stop, listen to me. Everyone can talk big and empty words. Let me give you an example.

If you look at the future of yourself and your child before you have a child, you can do so.

When they see that their future children are living very well, or even becoming billionaires, but they don’t recognize them.

Will those who shout slogans saying that having children without expecting any reward still have children?

It’s like a stock. You already know that it will never bottom out and will keep falling. Will you still buy it?

They are just parents, ordinary people, not saints. You cannot hold them to the same standards as saints."

As he was talking, Lin Bufan suddenly laughed. Jiang Nansun asked in confusion, "What are you laughing at?"

"I thought, if all parents devoted themselves to their children without expecting anything in return, that scene would be so funny."

Jiang Nansun was even more confused: "What's so funny about this?"

“There is a saying that there are no bad parents in the world.

I guess by then it will have to be changed to: There are no perfect children in the world.

At that time, children will be able to order their parents around at will. Parents who don't obey cannot be fully committed, and parents who make demands cannot be selfless."

In Lin Bufan's view, seeking returns is a rule of social operation.

Just like if you call someone a handsome guy, you also have to ask him to call you a pretty boy. If you call him a handsome guy every day and he calls you an ugly bitch every day, would you be willing to call him that every day?

If all parents truly devote themselves to their children without expecting anything in return, then those who donate a kidney to buy an apple are no longer children, but their parents.

Jiang Nansun retorted: "Your logic is twisted. Being wholeheartedly devoted and not expecting anything in return doesn't mean you have to listen to your child or have any demands on him."

Lin Bufan looked at Jiang Nansun in confusion: "If they are disobedient and still have expectations of their children, and they are still good parents, then doesn't that go against your original intention?

What you are worried about now is that your parents don't listen to you and your grandmother has some expectations of you, right? "

Jiang Nansun blurted out without thinking: "How can it be the same? This request is too much!"

Lin Bufan stretched out his thumb and index finger, making a gap of less than one centimeter, and said in an exaggerated tone: "It's just a small request, how is it too much? Can you please stop talking nonsense? It has been like this for so many years, why don't you look for the reason from yourself?"

If it were me, I would have completed this small request long ago!

I'm a boy, so your grandma is fine. Your dad likes to trade stocks and loves money, which is fine with me. I can satisfy all of them. And then there's your mom. If I have the same conditions as you, can your mom endure it?"

"But everyone's situation is different!" Jiang Nansun excitedly got up from her chair, put her hands on the table, leaned over and stared at Lin Bufan.

Lin Bufan remained unmoved. He looked up at Jiang Nansun with a smile and said, "Since everyone's situation is different, we shouldn't have any requirements. Otherwise, if the child can't complete the requirements, wouldn't that be putting them in a difficult position?"

"I...I...I can't argue with you. I won't talk to you. What you said is all nonsense anyway." Jiang Nansun sat back angrily.

"Ha ha ha ha......"

Looking at Jiang Nansun's angry expression, Lin Bufan couldn't help but laughed again.

After laughing, Lin Bufan looked at Jiang Nansun seriously: "As for the rest, you can just forget it after hearing it, but you must remember this point about making yourself stronger."

Lin Bufan looked at the time again and felt that Zhu Suosuo should be here soon, so he had no intention of continuing the conversation.

When Zhu Suosuo arrived, Lin Bufan said to Jiang Nansun as he left: "When my bar opens in a few days, come and support me. I'll sing you a song then."

(The data of the book has been good in the past two days. I am very happy. I am very grateful for your support. I can’t repay you enough, so I will add another chapter.)