Demon Lord 3

Zhou Chuyuan asked him what kind of ideas he had been instilled with when he was a child. He just mentioned that interests are the most important, but how important are interests? Is it more important than human life? Shao Yu said: "Yes, what was meant at the time was that one's own life is more important than interests, and interests are more important than other people's lives. No matter how you look at it, the family is like a small empire, a small kingdom. There is a king, a queen, and a prince in the family. Everyone has to serve us. As long as we don't leave the house, maybe we can do whatever we want and live the life of a local emperor. If his father goes out, it is considered diplomacy. No one wants to go out because they know that when they go out, they can't interact with the outside world. Only his father may be able to chat a few words, and we seem to have always been looked down upon and excluded. Later I found out that it was not what my parents said. In fact, I have been misled. , but I still thought what my parents said was right, so I had almost no friends since I was a child, and all I cared about was profit. But after my parents passed away, I slowly got used to the life afterwards. I had money in my hands, and my classmates were willing to play with me when I was in school. Later, when I found a job, many people would explain this to me. Later, I became a psychologist, and slowly I understood the rigidity of my parents' previous thinking. "After listening to this, Tian Jing sighed and said, "Is this a normal family? I feel that your parents are a little abnormal. Although your mother is young, she doesn't know nothing. How can she teach you that other people's lives are not fate? Profit Is benefit really that important? Maybe these things seem like nonsense to us, but in that environment, you must have suffered a lot. I really wanted to hug you at that time. In fact, you were able to develop your character like this in that environment. Sometimes you are as delicate as a girl in your heart, but you are also hard like a boy on the outside. Whether you are a boy or a girl, just be yourself. In fact, you don’t need to be respected by others. It’s enough for you to respect yourself. We all think you are very good, not like what you said before. Maybe you worked several times harder than ordinary people, so you changed yourself. , or perhaps it is through breaking out of the shell and being reborn, through Nirvana, that you get what you want today. If a child is like a blank sheet of paper, then whatever you are taught will be what you get. How hard you work depends on your age at the time. If you want to change your inherent thinking now, you must endure several times the effort of ordinary people. In this case, it is actually quite difficult. "Shao Yu nodded and said that although it is difficult, we must move forward courageously. Hearing what he just said about indoctrination, we all have some resentment in our hearts. Not only do we think about ourselves, but also whether we will be indoctrinated in this way if we have children in the future. We will also think about us. If we are indoctrinated in this way, how can we escape? In fact, when I think about this in my heart, if I am indoctrinated, I will not be able to escape this kind of thinking at all. After all, in this kind of family environment, there must be violence. Otherwise, there will be no deterrent and shock ability. Zhou Chuyuan asked: "Is it particularly violent in your family? For example, your father will hit you, or your mother will hit you. Do you often use force to solve problems at home, or do you fight endlessly and curse people casually?" After listening, Shao Yu also said that our analysis is correct. In their family, the father can beat the mother, and the mother will not fight back, so he will not fight back since he was a child. The first time he hit was when he met an old man who came to treat Alzheimer's disease after work. He saw the old man and then prescribed Some medicine, after he went back, actually only curbed the disease, not completely cured those people came to beat him, basically those relatives and friends came to the hospital to extort money. At that time, the mental hospital also pushed him out without protection, knowing that he was usually depressed and unwilling to communicate with everyone. He was beaten many times but he did not fight back until blood dripped from his head. Several colleagues who had a slightly better relationship with him also came to help, and finally persuaded him to stop, but those people were determined not to stop until he was disabled, and they rushed over again. Seeing that they could not stop him, his colleagues had to make way. He also understood that he had to do it himself. Later, he wrestled with those people, and finally won, and those people never dared to come again.