Demon Lord 3

When I was a psychologist before, I also knew one thing, that is, lack of love has manifestations. The kind of people I just mentioned are actually not wrong at all. They are not sinners, nor are they people who have made mistakes. They are just people who lack love. There may be no love in these people's world. There are calculations and suspicions, insults, beatings, and bullying in these people's world. It is a darkness in these people's minds, but these people do not want to hold an umbrella for the people below after getting wet in the rain. Instead, they want to tear the umbrella into pieces and let those people get wet in more rain. This is a revengeful mentality, a revenge against society, and a revenge against the entire development. They think that they have gained these pains and don't want anyone to be happy again. This itself is a lack of love. If someone is willing to hug them, they will never treat others coldly, because they have felt warmth in their hearts. There are also many people who have this mentality because they have been over-indulged and felt too much warmth. This is also a perverted mentality, a mentality of forced oppression. So any excessive mentality is wrong. Don't be extreme. , so let's talk about the lack of love in response to the question just now. I did know a person before who was very lacking in love. Since childhood, I have asked him about it. There was no preference for boys over girls, no pressure to get married, no pressure to have children, and no adverse effects. I used to think that the so-called Chinese education was everything I imagined, but there was none at all. It seemed that this person was not lacking in love at all. I thought that person was lying to me, but after listening to the whole story, I thought that this person was the most lacking in love. Although there were no such things that bound him since childhood, in fact, it can be seen from birth that some people are not destined to be with others. A person's fate is limited. The fate you have with him is destined to have no fate with him. Fate is a very wonderful thing. More or less, or near or possible, it is likely that fate is concentrated in the days to come. In this way, the fate of people and good things during this period will be much less. It is for this reason that some people are not liked since birth, because their fate is at the end, so it is still difficult to have a good fate so far. That person said he hadn't been treated well since birth, and his mother didn't love him because she suffered so much giving birth to him. He had previously thought that he would just be filial to his mother, but later found that things were getting worse. His mother often used cold violence and looked at his father with hatred. If it weren't for him, his parents wouldn't have gotten married, and his father could have found someone else. But he didn't expect his mother to get pregnant before marriage, which not only delayed his mother, but also his father. In addition to this, the elders and elderly in the family also played a role in the child's dislike of his parents. This is the majority of reasons. Because these relatives can't treat the child better than the parents, it's definitely a matter of reciprocity. Seeing that their own parents are not good, and this child is good, they will definitely think that the child has problems too. It's not that there are inherent parents who are unwilling to treat their children well. Although it's a minority, it doesn't mean that there aren't any. The world is big and there are all kinds of things. Some parents strangle their children to death at birth. If you look at it that way, this is not a lack of love. But on second thought, what is lack of love? Is it the people who need the most love in the world who are lacking love? Don't those children who lack love also feel the same? Is working for others the only way to truly live your life? Is it so difficult to live a good life yourself? Thinking of this, perhaps I understand the principles of development, perhaps I understand how those who lack love should be treated. Perhaps a hug is all it takes, but does a belated hug still count? Do hugs from others count? If parents don't treat their children well, they will look for the reflections of their former parents in their partners, but this isn't love, it's a lack of love. It's not the current self who longs to be loved, but the former self who keeps hugging the current self. This can lead to boredom and irritation. It would be better to think about hugging the child inside him, the little one in his heart. If he hugged that child, perhaps the lack of love would disappear long ago, and the desire for love would disappear long ago. It would be the kind of love that comes from the heart, not just words or a shadow. Shadows are shadows, and they can't replace reality. The former parents are just the former parents, unable to be here now.