Fall in love with summer flamingos

Gu Shiye sat outside the clinic waiting. He took out his cell phone and checked. There was no message, so he sent a message to Su Yangxia.

【Y: Baby, are you awake? 】

After waiting for more than ten minutes, Su Yangxia still didn't reply to the message, so Gu Shiye took out his mobile phone and sent a message to Meng Zhao.

[Y: Meng Zhao, is Yang Xia awake? ]

Meng Zhao: Brother Ye isn't awake yet, he's still asleep. Why don't you send it to him later? I'm walking the dog downstairs.

【Y: Okay, let him sleep first. 】

After Gu Shiye sent messages to Meng Zhao, he put his phone in his pocket.

Didn't sleep well last night? Was it a dream again? Or was it just confusion again? Gu Shiye sat on the stool and thought, if Su Yangxia had any problems, Meng Zhao would have told him.

Gu Shiye was in there for about forty minutes before coming out. He opened the door of the clinic and said to Gu Shiye, "Brother, Doctor Wang asked you to come in."

Gu Shiye nodded, stood up and walked into the clinic: "Hello, Doctor Wang."

Doctor Wang sat at the consultation table and nodded: "Mr. Gu, please take a seat."

Gu Shiye pulled out a stool and sat opposite Dr. Wang, and Gu Shiye also pulled out a stool and sat next to Gu Shiye.

Doctor Wang squinted his eyes and looked at the computer for a while before slowly speaking, "Mr. Gu, your brother's preliminary diagnosis has come out."

Gu Shiye looked at Dr. Wang, who had a serious expression on his face. "You talk, we listen."

"Your brother suffers from 'paranoid disorder.'" Dr. Wang said, pushing his glasses.

Gu Shiye frowned and looked at Gu Shiye. Gu Shiye's brows were frowned even more than his, and his fists were tightly clenched and placed on his legs.

"Paranoid disorder? Please be more specific, Dr. Wang." Gu Shiye said.

Doctor Wang crossed his hands on the table and looked at Gu Shiye: "Paranoid disorder, also known as delusional disorder, is a group of mental disorders with systematic delusions as the main symptom, but the cause is unknown.

Most patients with this type of disease have personality defects, such as subjectivity, stubbornness, sensitivity, suspicion, strong self-esteem, self-centeredness, fantasy, irritability, refusal to accept criticism from others, and insecurity, etc.

On the basis of personality defects, social environment, such as family reasons, and emotional frustration, gradually develop into a disease, distorting facts and gradually forming delusions. Under the influence of delusions, conflicts with the surrounding environment increase, which further strengthens the content of the delusions.

Gu Shiye's face showed an unprecedented confusion. He looked at Dr. Wang and asked, "What kind of treatment is needed now?"

"We need to first identify the possible causes of the disease, such as the common ones: early loss of love, subsequent setbacks, self-critical thinking, or abnormal circumstances;

If all of these possibilities exist, it will be more troublesome and require a lot of time for psychological treatment, as well as drug treatment.

Doctor Wang looked at the two brothers' identical faces, their expressions were so ugly that it seemed as if they looked different. One was at a loss and the other was confused and melancholy.

He paused and continued, "Psychological therapies mainly include the following types. You can open your phone and record a conversation."

Gu Shiye took out his cell phone, turned on the recording and nodded to Dr. Wang.

Dr. Wang continued, "First, cognitive enhancement. Because patients are distrustful of others, sensitive and suspicious, and unwilling to accept any goodwill or advice, we must first establish a trusting relationship with them. Based on this trust, we communicate with them emotionally. We should fully explain to them the nature, characteristics, harmfulness, and correction methods of their personality disorder. This will help them gain a correct and objective understanding of themselves and consciously desire to change their personality defects. This is a prerequisite for further psychotherapy."

Second, friendship training encourages patients to actively engage in friendship activities, learn to trust others, eliminate insecurities, principles and essentials in making friends;

For example, be sincere with others, be honest with each other, make friends sincerely, believe that most people are friendly and good, and are trustworthy. You should not have prejudice or distrust towards friends.

When making friends, try to actively provide various kinds of help to your friends. This helps to exchange hearts with each other, gain their trust and consolidate friendships. Especially when your friends are in trouble, you should give them your all. In times of adversity, true friendship is known, which can help you gain your friends' trust and strengthen friendships.

Third, self-therapy; people with paranoid personality tend to go to extremes, which is related to irrational ideas in their minds, so they need to change their paranoid behavior;

For example: cannot tolerate the slightest bit of infidelity or harm from others;

You must fight back strongly against attacks from others to prove that you are better than them.

Failure to show gentleness will give others a sense of weakness;

Change the enemy-friend mentality, and the possessive mentality towards certain people and things;

These concepts mentioned above must be reformed to remove the extreme and radical elements within them."

Doctor Wang looked at Gu Shiye, pursed his lips and continued, "Mr. Gu, you need to listen to the following."

Gu Shiye looked at Dr. Wang's serious face and nodded: "Okay."

Doctor Wang nodded and said, "You should always remind yourself not to get caught up in an enemy mentality. You should remind yourself and warn yourself in advance, and pay attention to correcting yourself when dealing with people. This will significantly reduce hostility and strong emotional reactions.

You must understand the basic principle that only by learning to respect others can you gain the respect of others. You must learn to say thank you to those who have helped you. Don't just say thank you perfunctorily or ignore them.

Learn to smile at everyone you know. You may not be used to it at first, and it may seem a little unnatural, but you must do it and try hard to do it well. Practice smiling in front of the mirror often.

You have to learn to be tolerant and patient in life, and be more tolerant and patient with everyone around you, okay?"

Gu Shiye nodded blankly. He had never thought that he would be sick, or even mentally ill. At this moment, Gu Shiye's mind was blank. He sat here and listened to the doctor's words. Every sentence was talking about a type of patient, but Gu Shiye felt that every sentence was talking about himself.

He had never thought before that his abnormal living and mental state were all because his brother ignored him and did not love him, which led to his jealousy and made him like this. It turned out that he had been sick for a long time but did not know it, and he himself did not know it.

Gu Shiye politely said to Doctor Wang, "I understand, Doctor Wang. Please prescribe the medicine. I will take him back and let him take the medicine first and then start the treatment according to what you said today."

"Okay, you should communicate more with your brother. I think he will listen to you more, and it will be much easier." Doctor Wang quickly prescribed medicine on the computer and explained to Gu Shiye.

Gu Shiye took the list and stood up, looking at Gu Shiye: "What should I say to Doctor Wang?"

Gu Shiye raised his eyes to see Gu Shiye come back to his senses, and said awkwardly: "Doctor Wang, thank you."

"Okay, the fact that you can say this is a big breakthrough." Doctor Wang patted Gu Shiye's shoulder and said with a smile.

Gu Shiye gave Dr. Wang an awkward smile and followed Gu Shiye out of the clinic.

Gu Shiye was holding the medicine he had just picked up in his hand, pushing the dazed Gu Shiye with one hand, opened the car door, stuffed him into the back seat, and sat in himself.

Shen Yu turned around and looked at the two brothers in the back seat: "Mr. Gu, where are we going now?"

Gu Shiye pinched his forehead and put the medicine in the bag in Gu Shiye's hand: "Let's send him back to the company first."

Gu Shiye frowned and looked at Gu Shiye: "Brother, can I follow you?"

"No, not now. I have to go home today. You can't see Su Yangxia now." Gu Shiye looked at Gu Shiye seriously and said.

"But I just found out that I'm sick. Brother, please let me go back to the company." Gu Shiye said aggrievedly as he lowered his head and looked at the medicine in his hand.

Gu Shiye shrugged, feeling extremely annoyed. He patiently said to Gu Shiye, "Wait a few days. I need to go back and talk to him. He's been irritated by what you said, you know?"

"I'm sorry, brother. I didn't expect this. I just wanted to make him feel guilty."

Gu Shiye looked into Gu Shiye's eyes and his voice trembled a little. He seemed afraid that Gu Shiye would ignore him and hate him again.

"So, you have to wait for me to communicate with him, okay?" Gu Shiye's tone was soft but his attitude was firm.

Gu Shiye nodded slightly, and Gu Shiye nodded to Shen Yu. Shen Yu then drove Gu Shiye to the downstairs of Yuanhang Group.

When Gu Shiye got off the car, he was still looking at Gu Shiye with eager eyes, and begged Gu Shiye to reply to his message in a pleading voice.

Gu Shiye pinched his temples, looked at the back figure and let out a heavy breath. He sat in the back seat with his head tilted back, looking extremely tired.

"Mr. Gu, let me take you home." Shen Yu said to Gu Shiye in the rearview mirror.

"Yeah." Gu Shiye responded to Shen Yu and didn't want to talk anymore.

Gu Shiye felt that things were getting more and more outrageous. He leaned weakly against the back of his chair, closed his eyes, and felt extremely heavy inside.

He suddenly felt that life was really wonderful. One wave after another came, as if life had been constantly challenging and tempering Gu Shiye, making him accept all kinds of inhumane life tests for more than ten years.

A man who has been suffering from depression for a short time, has a lover with schizophrenia, and now has a younger brother with paranoid disorder.

It is really unpredictable. Gu Shiye has no idea what will happen when he opens his eyes tomorrow.

Now both Su Yangxia and Gu Shiye need my company and treatment.

But Su Yangxia doesn't remember what happened that day at all. If he were to meet Gu Shiye, would it stimulate Su Yangxia even more? Would it cause Su Yangxia's condition to worsen? Gu Shiye was extremely scared now, afraid that Su Yangxia would be hurt in the slightest.

In Gu Shiye's heart, no matter in the past or now, Su Yangxia will always be the first, but he cannot ignore Gu Shiye, because Gu Shiye is his biological brother.

Gu Shiye felt that he was also responsible for the situation today. Gu Shiye had now realized that he was ill and had agreed to seek treatment. How could he possibly just leave him alone?