Reborn in 1994, escaping from marriage and going sea fishing, I won!
Chapter 548 If possible, there is no need to "sacrifice"
Hearing Aunt Yu say this, Liu Meilan smiled and said, "Aunt Yu, I'm glad you think so."
Aunt Yu sighed, "At my age, if I still can't figure it out, my later years will be miserable. I became a widow at an early age and raised them. I have fulfilled my obligations and am worthy of the old man who died early. From now on, I will live for myself."
Liu Meilan nodded. "You are right to think so. Don't worry, if they are in danger or hurt, I will not sit idly by."
Aunt Yu smiled, "Meilan, let me remind you. If it's not their fault, I'll risk my reputation to ask you to help them. If it's their fault, don't worry about it. I can't control them, so let society and the country take care of them. Teach them a lesson if they deserve it, and detain them if they deserve it. I've figured it out anyway."
"Okay!" Liu Meilan smiled, exchanged a few words with Aunt Yu, and hung up the phone.
Zhang Xiufang and Mr. Liu were both on the phone, and now they were relieved. "That's good, we don't have to worry about it. Aunt Yu is very thoughtful. As long as it doesn't harm their bodies and health, we don't have to worry about other things."
"That's right. A person must have a job to have the confidence to fight against everything." Old Master Liu smiled and nodded, "Xiufang, you are still young, you should look forward."
Zhang Xiufang shook her head quickly, "Grandpa Liu, please don't rush me. You also said that having a job can overcome everything, and I am doing well now. I have a good monthly salary now, and I don't have to pay for the living expenses of the family. I have saved all the money. I just want to raise Chongyang, and then he can get married and have children. Then my mission will be completed, and I will be worthy of Chongyang's father."
Old Master Liu smiled and said, "Xiufang, if you want to get married, you can get married. If you don't want to get married, you don't have to get married. It's all your freedom. But you also saw that Aunt Yu was a widow and raised the child with great difficulty, but the child may not understand the mother's hard work."
Xu Chongyang quickly raised his watch to express his loyalty, "Grandpa Liu, I understand my mother's hard work, and I will definitely honor my mother in the future."
Mr. Liu asked back, "Don't you want your mother to remarry? You saw your grandmother Yu raising children with great difficulty, and ended up alone. Don't you want your mother to have a companion?"
Xu Chongyang blinked his eyes. "Grandpa Liu, it's not that I don't want my mother to remarry. I just think that if my mother meets someone she likes, she wants to spend her life with him/her, support each other when they are young, and accompany each other when they are old, instead of remarrying just for the sake of remarrying. That would be meaningless."
Hearing this, Liu Meilan was surprised and rubbed Xu Chongyang's head, "Chongyang, your mother's love for you is not in vain."
"Of course, my mother is still young and pretty, and there are many people who like her." Xu Chongyang was proud, "My mother rejected them for me, but it's not necessary. Mom, you don't have to. As long as we are in Shenzhen, with Grandpa Liu backing us up, no one dares to bully us, so if you meet someone with good character and you like him, you can remarry."
Liu Meilan asked: "Aren't you afraid that your mother will remarry and have another child, taking away my love for you?"
Xu Chongyang shook his head, "No! They are my brother and sister, who are connected to me by blood and are my closest relatives. They may take away my mother's love for me, but I am a good brother and can get the love of my brothers and sisters."
Liu Meilan was shocked. "Where did you learn all this? It sounds reasonable!"
Xu Chongyang held his head high, feeling particularly proud. "I learned this from Sister Nuannuan! Aunt Wang's first marriage was not happy. After careful consideration, she decided to remarry and marry someone she knew well and liked. Aunt Wang is so happy!"
"I think she has become beautiful and young now, and she is very happy every day. Sister Nannan also said all day that she has a lot of family members and relatives, who often buy her clothes and gifts, and she is very happy. Sister Nuannuan said the happiest thing is that she has a younger brother who can love and bully her!"
In the past, Wang Nuannuan was actually very nervous and worried before Wang Liwen remarried, but after her mother remarried, she was not only loved by her grandmother, but also by her stepfather and his family.
What makes Wang Nuannuan happy the most is that her mother is happy every day, with such a sweet and beautiful smile. She also has a lovely brother who never stays outside after school and goes home with her.
Xu Chongyang was also thinking about this problem. His mother was so young, not even 30 years old, with fair skin, beautiful looks, and very tall.
Xu Chongyang felt that his mother was the most beautiful person in the world, like a beautiful flower, and he didn't want her beauty to slowly wither over the long years.
Liu Meilan laughed out loud, "So that's how it is! Sister Xiufang, did you see that? Children nowadays are very sensible, and our Chongyang is especially caring. Although he is young, he has an independent personality and can think independently."
"In fact, you have done your best in your first marriage! Now you are able to control your own life, so you deserve happiness. You don't need to sacrifice your life to fulfill your child's wishes."
Zhang Xiufang rubbed her son's head, her heart soft and happy, "Back home, even if I hadn't died, I would probably be like an ordinary widow, raising a child with great difficulty, putting the child at the center of my life, and losing myself."
"Even after my son gets married and has children, because I care too much about him and get too involved in his life, I might not be a loving mother at that time, but a nasty mother-in-law."
"After coming here, I have a worry-free life. I have been influenced by the new ideas and new life here, actively participated in the work, and kept learning and improving. My horizons have been greatly broadened. I understand what you are saying."
"Actually, I'm not opposed to remarriage. Just like you said, I want to find someone I like and who likes me, and who is good to my son! If I can meet that person, that would be the best. If not, I won't force it."
Liu Meilan smiled happily. No matter whether Zhang Xiufang could find a satisfactory person or remarry, at least she saw a woman with independent thoughts instead of sacrificing herself for others.
In such a harsh environment, people have no choice but to do this in order to survive.
But when conditions are good, there is no need to fall into the trap of self-admiration and self-sacrifice, which will not only constrain the child's life, but also your own life.
Liu Meilan is very happy herself, and she also hopes that the people around her can be happy.
While Zhang Xiufang was cooking and Grandpa Liu was taking a walk, Xu Chongyang sneaked up to Liu Meilan and said, "Aunt Meilan, I have something I want to ask you for help with."
Liu Meilan was surprised. "We were just chatting. Why didn't you tell me what you had to say?"
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