The cannon fodder female supporting role in the misplaced life

Qin Shu knew the pain and difficulties Xu Yingying had experienced, and could understand why Xu Yingying had such thoughts. Qin Shu gently patted Xu Yingying's hand and said, "Yingying, thank you for telling me this."

Qin Shu didn't expect that her niece Xu Yingying could say such words because of what she had experienced. She was also very grateful that Xu Yingying chose to tell her immediately when she found out that her aunt was doing something wrong, instead of standing by and watching. Maybe the situation in her family was not that serious, but she also understood that Xu Yingying told her to pay attention because she saw the problem in her family. Maybe many people don't want others to interfere in their family affairs, but Qin Shu knew that Xu Yingying told her in time because she was afraid that their family would suffer the same misfortune as hers.

Qin Shu secretly made up her mind to reflect on her behavior, care more about her family, communicate more, and work together to create a harmonious and warm family atmosphere. She believed that as long as the family worked together, they would be able to overcome any difficulties and embrace a bright future.

After Xu Yingying spoke, she worried that Aunt Qin would think she was meddling too much. She knew that every family has its own problems, and that every family has its own problems. But facing this aunt who had always cared for her, and indeed the original heroine, Xu Yingying felt obligated to speak to her. She knew very well that often overlooked details complicated the entire situation. And then, relationships drifted further and further apart. Whether it was friends, partners, or family, if you didn't speak up at the right time, you might never have the chance again.

"Aunt, this is what I should do. Haven't you been caring about me after my parents divorced? I know all this. I also don't want my cousin Tongxin to go through the same bad things as me. That's why I said too much. I hope you won't be angry with me for this." Xu Yingying looked at Qin Shu with an uneasy look on her face.

"Auntie can't thank you enough, how could she be angry with you? You are too distant. You must tell your auntie if you have any problems in the future, okay?" Qin Shu's words comforted Xu Yingying.

"Aunt, there is actually something else I want to talk to you about. I'm just worried that you will be unhappy after hearing it." Xu Yingying felt that since Qin Shu had said so much, it might be better for her to say it now.

"Yingying, if you have anything else to say to Auntie, Auntie will definitely listen carefully." Qin Shu really didn't know how long Xu Yingying had been hiding these words in her heart. She decided that no matter whether Xu Yingying's words were good or not, she would encourage her child to speak out first.

"It's like this, Auntie, I've noticed that cousin Tongxin isn't very good at expressing herself." Xu Yingying told Auntie Qin about the problems she discovered while interacting with Li Tongxin last week. The reason she chose to tell Auntie Qin instead of directly telling Li Tongxin was because she also realized that the cause of Li Tongxin's current situation was most likely because her parents were Auntie Qin and Uncle Qin.

"Yingying, what do you mean? Auntie doesn't quite understand you." Qin Shu felt that after hearing Xu Yingying's words, she didn't know what Xu Yingying wanted to tell her. She didn't think her daughter couldn't express herself. On the contrary, she felt that her daughter had a lot of tricks when arguing with her.

"Maybe I'm overly sensitive, but I feel like cousin Tongxin always puts other people's thoughts first. It feels like, how should I put it? She's consciously hiding her own feelings." Xu Yingying tried to explain to Qin Shu in words she could understand. Unknowingly, her daughter was closing herself off. The Li Tongxin she saw now wasn't the real Li Tongxin. She was wearing a mask, sometimes thin, sometimes thick.

This time, Qin Shu understood what Xu Yingying meant, but she didn't know how her daughter could become the way Xu Yingying said. How could she not notice it?

She also doesn't know who made her child become like this?

Seeing that Aunt Qin didn't reply, Xu Yingying continued to express her opinion, "I know you all hope that we are good children, obedient and sensible. But I think that so-called good children mean that we have no opinions or ideas of our own. Good children just do what their parents say and eventually become that child."

For the first time, Aunt Qin was a little resistant to the term "good child." She had always hoped Tong Xin would become a good child. But now, after hearing Yingying's words, she realized that this "good child" wasn't necessarily a good thing. Was it because times were changing too fast, or had she always misunderstood it? How could even "good child" have this meaning?

"Yingying, did I force Tongxin to become like this?" Qin Shu began to blame himself for his education over the past ten years.

"Aunt, you have been led astray by what everyone says. You think only obedient children are good children. Obedient does not mean good." Xu Yingying said righteously.

"Yes, being obedient and being good are completely different. Why did I realize it only now? Before, everyone was talking about whether someone's child was obedient or not. How did being obedient and being good become the same? I misunderstood it. It was me who made Tong Xin so mediocre." Qin Shu then realized how stupid he was.

Although her daughter is already ten years old and she has been a mother for ten years, this is her first time as a mother. The child has been able to jump around and play everywhere since she came out of her belly. In fact, Qin Shu often hears others talk about how to raise children, and she follows suit to learn how to raise children. It doesn't matter whether it is right or wrong. She thinks that as long as the child listens to what she says, it is good for the child. It seems that as long as she says it is right, and the child is wrong to object. Qin Shu has never thought about what problems will arise in educating her children like this? She thought that as long as the child is obedient, it will be fine. She never thought that an obedient child is not good for the child. What she said is for the good of the child. Is it really for the good of the child? Can the child really be good? Qin Shu used to think that it was good subjectively. But Xu Yingying's words just now made her fall into self-doubt.

"Aunt, there's still time." Xu Yingying stopped Qin Shu from continuing to doubt and blame herself in time.

"Yingying, what should I do now? Did I mess things up?" Qin Shu urgently needs someone to tell him whether he has done something wrong and what to do.