Is it difficult to fall in love? My male mother taught me step by step

Yu Zerong was keenly aware of his father's resistance and felt strange.

Why couldn't he say anything about it? Unless he was the one who caused the disease.

Yu Zerong said without hesitation, "Go ahead."

On the other end of the phone, Yu Xiwen heard his confident tone and spoke in a hoarse voice, "After she gave birth to you, she developed postpartum depression for some reason and has never recovered."

Yu Zerong frowned and asked, "Have you thought of any way to remedy this?"

Yu Xiwen's tone was full of helplessness: "I'm ready to give up my job and make amends."

Yu Zerong said coldly: "This is what I should do." Then he decisively hung up the phone.

After class, Jiang Mian found that Yu Zerong was not as close to her as a puppy as usual.

She sat down next to him, looked at his slightly pale face and asked, "You don't look well."

Yu Zerong was slightly startled, then he hugged her tightly in his arms, absorbing her body warmth, and slowly said: "I know something."

Jiang Mian was very curious and asked, "What's the matter?" She rarely saw Yu Zerong with such an expression.

Yu Zerong looked into her eyes and said softly, "Didn't you ask why she was sick?"

"It's postpartum depression."

Jiang Mian was stunned after hearing this. Postpartum depression is a hormonal problem that everyone will experience, but some people recover while others do not and become real depressed patients.

Yu Zerong looked at Jiang Mian seriously and said, "Let's not have children in the future."

Jiang Mian shook his head slightly: "Let's talk about the future later. Let's solve your problem first."

Yu Zerong was stunned for a moment, then realized what she meant and replied, "My father is already making amends."

"how about you?"

Perhaps it was the natural empathy between women that made Jiang Mian feel very sad.

She looked at Yu Zerong and asked softly, "Do you know what women go through when giving birth?"

Women go through many stages and challenges during childbirth.

First of all, the pregnancy period is long. The expectant mother may be tortured by morning sickness and look haggard. The food she eats will be vomited out instantly. The body will gradually become edematous, as if it is inflated. Fatigue will always be there, and the mood will change like the weather in June.

Before giving birth, you will experience frequent and gradually increasing uterine contractions, and intense pain will come in waves like a tide.

During childbirth, if it is a normal birth, you will face long periods of labor pain. The pelvis and birth canal will slowly expand under tremendous pressure. If you are not careful, there may be a risk of episiotomy or perineal tear.

If it is a cesarean section, surgery is required. The scalpel will cut the skin, and there will be pain and recovery problems after the surgery.

During childbirth, you may also face some unexpected situations, such as fetal distress, dystocia, etc., which will bring great psychological pressure and fear to the mother.

After childbirth, the body needs time to recover. Lochia may be discharged, and uterine contraction pain may also be present. At the same time, you must adapt to the physical and mental fatigue brought by caring for a newborn.

It is said on the Internet that no matter how old a cat is, its mentality will always be that of a kitten.

In fact, it's not just cats, people are the same.

Zhu Xinyue's postpartum depression started in the late pregnancy and lasted for nearly a year. As Yu Zerong grew up, her condition gradually worsened and she even developed symptoms such as hallucinations and paranoia.

Being irritable and hurting her children became the main theme of her life.

The secondary melody is guilt. Once you wake up, you will see the messy room and the scarred child.

She felt extremely guilty but couldn't control herself, and the feeling of powerlessness seemed to be swallowing her up.

Nearly ten years passed without anyone noticing that she was sick.

It was not until Yu Zerong grew up and discovered that other people's parents were completely different from his own that he raised questions.

Afterwards, Yu Zerong was sent abroad to study in junior high school, and Yu Xiwen took Zhu Xinyue to seek medical treatment.

After listening to Jiang Mian's popular science, Yu Zerong was speechless and didn't know what to say.

Yu Zerong has always blamed Zhu Xinyue for his painful childhood experiences.

Now that I have grown up, I know that the real culprit is my father, whom I have always been close to.

Habits cannot be changed. Even if he knew that it was not Zhu Xinyue's fault, Yu Zerong would not dare to take that step.

When he saw Zhu Xinyue, he would subconsciously tremble with fear.

Jiang Mian didn't want Yu Zerong to have any regrets in his life, so she stood up and said, "Let's go."

"Go find your mother."

Jiang Miancai is not someone who just thinks and doesn't act. She always dares to think and act.

She dragged Yu Zerong to the car and ordered, "Drive."

The relationship between the two seems to be that Yu Zerong is on top and Jiang Mian is on the bottom, but in fact it is not the case.

The one who has always been truly dominant has been Jiang Mian.

Yu Zerong had never seen Jiang Mian like this. Losing Jiang Mian was more painful than being afraid of him.

He started the car.

......

The vehicle is parked at Building 01 in Rose Garden.

The two got out of the car and stood at the door. Jiang Mian, with his thin figure, stood in a protective posture in front of Yu Zerong.

Jiang Mian was using his body language to tell Yu Zerong not to worry.

Yu Zerong plucked up the courage to knock on the door.

It was Yu Xiwen who opened the door. He asked in surprise, "Why are you here?"

Yu Xiwen looked at Jiang Mian and said with a smile, "Are you finally willing to bring him back to meet your parents?"

Yu Zerong nodded.

Yu Xiwen turned around and took a few steps to lock the bedroom on the second floor.

Jiang Mian saw something was wrong with these actions. She tugged at Yu Zerong's sleeve and asked, "Where's your mother?"

Yu Xiwen came down and said, "Xinyue needs to rest."

Jiang Mian was a little confused. Did they have to rest before dinner time?

She didn't directly point out Yu Xiwen's behavior of locking up Zhu Xinyue, but shouted: "Yu Zerong! I'm thirsty!"

Yu Zerong immediately got her some water at the bar like a soldier obeying orders.

Zhu Xinyue heard her son's name in the room and started knocking on the door: "I want to go out."

No one answered, so she started calling Yu Xiwen.

Yu Xiwen hung up the phone in the living room and pushed his glasses. "Little girl, I didn't let her out because of your consideration."

In his opinion, Zhu Xinyue was very likely to attack his son's girlfriend.

Jiang Mian smiled sweetly: "I have met my aunt, she is very nice."

Yu Xiwen nodded and went upstairs to open the bedroom.

Zhu Xinyue rushed down, ignoring Jiang Mian once again, and said to Yu Zerong, "Son, I'll make you your favorite soup right away."

In her hallucination, her son's favorite drink was jujube, wolfberry and pigeon soup.

Yu Zerong shook his head, "I don't drink."

When Jiang Mian heard this, he immediately tugged at the corner of Yu Zerong's clothes.

Yu Zerong immediately changed his tone: "Okay, thank you."

Zhu Xinyue noticed the little movements between the two and looked at Jiang Mian: "I remember you, my girlfriend."

"Hello Auntie."

Zhu Xinyue was not as hostile as she had imagined. She said, "I'll make one for you too."

Yu Xiwen looked at the two women in surprise.