After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

To me, their thoughts may seem filial, but they are actually selfish. When people live without dignity, it is better to die early and be reborn. Only by leaving freely and unrestrainedly can we start the next reincarnation easily. "

"It is better to live a miserable life than to die. Who wants to die when they can live?"

"If you are young and can run and jump, you naturally want to live a good life. But it is not the same when you are old. If you are old and can't move and can't take care of yourself, would you still want to live?

Let me first tell you what I think. In this situation, I am unwilling to live without dignity and suffering.

My ideal is to live well while I am still able to move, do as many good deeds as possible, and hope that when I leave this world, I can die in my sleep without any illness, disaster or pain. This is my ultimate dream, to have a good death."

It is said that being born is easy, living is easy, but living is not easy. According to Xia Ran, dying is not that easy either.

Some people have been lying on the kang for many years. Regardless of whether their children are filial or not, they have suffered just as much. No one else can replace the pain and suffering. You have to experience it yourself.

There are even people who want to die, but because their life span has not come and the time has not come, and the King of Hell does not want to take them away, there is nothing that can be done.

She also saw someone sitting on the kang in his own home, leaning against a quilt, without any illness or pain, and passing away with a rosy complexion and a smile on his face.

He really didn't suffer any pain. He was strolling on the street just now, and passed away not long after he came back. What a blessing it must be to be able to do this.

Xia Ran was attracted by it.

Chen Jin: "It seems that what you said is correct, but most people will still choose to live, even if it means suffering. As long as parents are still at home, they are there. Once parents are gone, the home is gone, so it is better for parents to be alive.

As for myself, I have never thought about this question. I feel it is so far away from me. Isn’t it too early for you to think about this at such a young age?

What you said is true in theory, it is better to die than to live in suffering, so as to suffer less. But in some families, their parents are not only their parents, but also a symbol of certain power and status, and the mainstay of the family.

When your parents are alive, others will still give you some face. Once your parents are gone, people will really forget about you. This is especially true for large families. As long as the elderly are alive, the sky will not fall. If others want to make a move, you have to think twice before making a move.

Once the pillar is gone, it will be like the sky falling and the earth sinking, and the forces of all parties will have to start reshuffling. The cake is so small, and suddenly there is one less person to share, so how to divide the extra cake is a big problem.

Therefore, some elderly people are not just elderly people, but also some kind of signal, some kind of symbol. This is an important reason why some families, even if their parents should have passed away long ago, will not hesitate to use all means to keep their parents alive.

When people reach a certain position, they can't decide whether to die or not. Because he not only represents himself, but also the entire family behind him, all the resources and power in his hands, so there are many things involved.

This is the case with my great uncle's family. He has long been skinny and thin, but he is still living tenaciously for the sake of his children and grandchildren, relying on medicine to support himself. There is no other way. No one in his family can hold on, so they can only live one day at a time.

To be exact, he doesn’t dare to die today. His children have offended many people by taking advantage of his power, and he has many political enemies, who are waiting for him to die. Once he dies, it is hard to say what will happen to his children and grandchildren.”

She has met several people in the hospital who rely solely on medicine for survival, not just this one.

Those children really used all the strength they could to save their old father's life, just to keep this pillar of the family alive.

Even if this prosperity is false, as long as people are alive, it can have a deterrent effect.

Xia Ran: “You can never be sure which will come first, tomorrow or an accident, so it’s not too early to think about life and death now.

Besides, life and death are not something we can decide and control. All we can do is accept it calmly. There is no other way to choose. After all, it is God's business. It doesn't matter whether we are afraid or not.

What you just said is also correct. These are elderly people from powerful families, and they are forced by the situation. Their existence is still of great use. They cannot die. They must stay alive to achieve certain effects.

If it is an elderly person from a wealthy family, I guess his children would wish he would die immediately so that they can start dividing his property right away. Different uses lead to different results.

Everyone has a different identity. Ordinary people like me hope to have a good death before we leave. I don’t ask for immortality, but I hope to be painless, disease-free and disaster-free.

To put it bluntly, the uncle you mentioned didn't educate his children well, and his children were all ruined. If there was someone in the family who could stand up and smoothly take over the power and resources in his hands, he wouldn't have ended up in such a mess that he is afraid to die.

The fact that he has come to this point shows that there is something wrong with his education, and it also proves that there may be something wrong with his way of dealing with people. But he is willing to fight and suffer, and there is nothing we can do about it. "

"You're right about the last point. When we were young, our two families interacted quite often. But later on, their behavior became more and more exaggerated and problematic, and even showed signs of going astray. So we gradually distanced ourselves from them and became estranged. People with different ideals cannot work together."

Especially the sons, daughters and sons-in-law, who took advantage of their uncle's power and did many immoral things, even causing public outrage.

Things like bullying men and women are commonplace for those people.

The families and political enemies they had offended were sharpening their knives, waiting for this uncle to pass away before they would start settling accounts.

Sooner or later you will have to pay back what you owe to others.

"Ah."

Speaking of this, Chen Jin also felt a lot of emotion. Her family's education has always been strict. They are not allowed to do bad things or go astray. If anyone dares to do so, the old man will really whip them.

It was better off since she was a girl, but her cousins ​​were often beaten.

Therefore, some of the friends who used to play well with us when we were young, have less and less contact as we grow older, because we have different ways of doing things and gradually drift apart.

The meal was ready and Chen Jin helped to serve it.

Suddenly he suggested: "How about we have a drink?"

Xia Ran raised an eyebrow, "Sure, what do you want to drink? White wine or beer? We have both beer and white wine."

Anyway, there are only two of them, so there are no other safety issues. They can drink if they want.

"It's white."