Reforming a suffocating marriage: a bondage or happiness?

But you are still more than 20 years older than Yao Yuhe. Can you play the role of husband and father to him for the rest of your life?

If you do everything for him, he will always feel that he has a way out.

Spoiling a child is like killing him. Doing this will only make him a man who cannot take responsibility for his entire life.

The saying "a loving mother often spoils her child" is exactly like this: you.

I already have a son and I don’t have the energy to help you teach him how to behave and do things.

But when my son grows up, you'd better not be so soft-hearted as to interrupt me while I'm educating him, or I'll take him away from you. Don't let him learn from his father, who, when faced with problems, acts like a baby who needs his parents to help him out."

Yu Lening put down his chopsticks, stood up and went back to his room.

Yao Ma watched her daughter-in-law walk away, then turned to her husband and said, "What does she mean?

I've endured it all, what else does she want?

Yuhe, I did all this for you..."

"enough."

Yao's father scolded Yao's mother for talking too much.

He turned to look at Yao Ma: "Although what my daughter-in-law said was unpleasant, she was right when she said, 'A loving mother often spoils her child.'"

After saying this, he looked at his son again.

"I agree with your wife. 246, you take care of the child by yourself. We won't interfere anymore."

They are all elderly.

He had a heart bypass surgery last year and couldn't stand all the commotion.

"But...but I have to go to work, Dad. You and Mom agreed to having a child, but now you say such things and team up with outsiders to bully your son."

Yao's father looked disappointed with his son.

“Is your wife an outsider to you?

No wonder she wants to divorce you.

If you think she is an outsider, then you should divorce her as soon as possible, so that you won't have to say in the end that we didn't teach you.

You want the cows to work, but you don't give them grass to eat.

I know best what you are thinking.

But your wife has already started making a scene. If you continue to behave like before, be prepared for a divorce!"

He finished his words and went to the living room.

I sat down and wanted to drink some tea, but found that my cup was out of water.

He knocked on the table subconsciously.

Yao's mother came over as usual and put a cup of warm water in his hand.

Yu Lening in the room also shouted, "Yao Yuhe, today is Tuesday, and starting from tonight, we will execute what we agreed on.

The child is awake and needs a bath. Come and help him."

Yao Yuhe looked at Yao's mother for help.

Just as Yao's mother was about to say that she was coming, she heard Yao's father cough lightly.

She shrank her neck and dared not speak.

Yao Yuhe glanced at his father and went to the room helplessly.

When Yu Lening saw Yao Yuhe come into the room, he began to give him instructions.

Where are the child’s clothes and what needs to be prepared for bathing.

Yao Yuhe complained as he took it: "Is this fun? Do husband and wife need to be so clear about the distinction?"

"Those with vested interests have no right to make such sarcastic remarks.

The child will be drinking formula milk, and I've already calculated that raising a child costs about 6,000 yuan per month. We'll each contribute 3,000 yuan, with the extra money contributing to the extra cost."

"Six thousand a month? What kind of family are we? We have to spend six thousand a month on a child? Do you know how to do the math?"

"Milk powder costs 1,500 yuan, diapers are over 300 yuan, and clothes, complementary food, vaccines, all these things cost money. Also, I work and can't look after the child during the day, so I need to hire a nanny."

"Why feed your baby formula when you can breastfeed? You can just squeeze and freeze the milk every day and bring it home for your baby to drink.

And when it's my turn, I don't need a babysitter, I'll ask my mom to take care of the baby, so don't charge me for that."