Madam, please give me some advice

As for the sons, whoever came to ask for marriage without their nod was unceremoniously driven away by Ji Xingle, who also said;

"As a child of the Ji family, I don't have to worry about no one wanting me. If I want to get married, I will find one. Don't come to my house to be a nuisance."

Ji Caifu and his companions were worried;

"How can a man not marry? What will they do when they get old?"

Ji Xingle watched his sons practicing boxing and replied with a smile;

"Cold salad."

The two fathers were so angry at her inappropriate behavior that they slapped her with their hands.

"How can there be such an irresponsible mother like you! We won't tell you what you let your children learn.

Now that the older ones have reached the age to discuss marriage, not only are you not anxious, you are also supporting them and encouraging them. You are going to piss us off to death!"

"Yes."

Hearing this, Ji Xingle turned around and leaned her head on her father's shoulder;

"Dad, second dad, their happiness is the most important thing. Whether they get married or not is not important. Life is not easy to come by, and it's great to have the opportunity to indulge yourself, isn't it?

Put aside your ideas that people must get married and have children, and look at them like this, don't you feel envious?"

The two fathers looked puzzled;

"We are not envious! We have wives, daughters and sons, and now we have many children and grandchildren. We are happy every day. Why should we envy them for not getting married?"

"Then, Daddy, have you ever thought about who is sitting on your lap and enjoying your love? It's me, I am your daughter."

Then he pointed at Ji Nanyu and the others;

“They are my sons. If they get married, they will be like my brothers. It will be inconvenient for us to visit them.

I have taken you on trips over the years, and you have seen those men who are not happy with their marriages but cannot leave.

Getting married is like gambling. Before you get married, the other person pretends to be a decent person, but after you get married, he or she returns to his or her original form and locks you up at home. That's called, "no one can help you, no matter how hard you try..."

So, as parents, we have the opportunity to provide our children with good living conditions, so we should just let them be carefree and happy.

I have no objection to Chi Jie'er and her friends getting married, no matter who they marry, because they will not be the ones to suffer in any aspect.

I just hope they can keep a clear mind and know what they can and cannot do, and not be fooled by other things."

After Ji Xingle finished speaking, he saw that the two fathers were hesitant to speak and could not find a reason to refute, so he continued;

"Well, my dear two fathers, your children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. Our family is rich, and they will not have trouble finding a husband.

Come and think about what you want to eat tonight! I'll ask the cook to make it..."

Hearing this, the two fathers pondered for a moment, and after they seemed to have figured it out, they looked at each other and smiled;

"Okay, we won't talk about the child's marriage anymore. We'll listen to you..."

After that, the two began to name the dishes;

"Boiled Chinese cabbage, lion's head, Wensi tofu, Longjing shrimp, Dongpo pork..."

After they finished speaking, the servant next to them went to the kitchen to report.

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Five years later, Ji Nanyu was already 25 years old. In the country where women are the most important, she was the oldest person who had not yet married.

The tenth princess of Lingfan Kingdom finally got her wish and married Ji Nanyu as her master. She even brought her concubine's little maid with her to sing and travel with Ji Nanyu everywhere.

The seventh child, Ji Yunqing, the eighth child, Ji Xingming, and the tenth child, Ji Sinian, followed their elder sisters to teach in the military camp.

At first, many people were dissatisfied. As women, they were actually allowed to be taught by a few men. Wasn't this looking down on them?

They all gave up, hoping that the three brothers would give up, but they made a wrong calculation.

If they were children of aristocratic families, they might be thin-skinned, unable to stand being wronged, and run back home crying.

But they are Ji Xingle's sons. Under Ji Xingle's repeated brainwashing, encouragement and confidence,

The three brothers would pin down and beat anyone who disobeyed them until they submitted.

Ji Yunchi and the others did not stop them. As long as the one who was beaten and injured was not their brother, they would pretend not to see it. Of course, they would not bully others by relying on their status.

This is also to make them believe that their brother did not get in through connections, but through his own strength.

In the end, the three brothers successfully made an exception and became male instructors in a country where women are superior.

The eleventh brother, Ji Qinghuan, inherited his father Dongfang Yiming's legacy. With the help of the human organ structure diagram given by Ji Xingle and the Compendium of Materia Medica, he made some achievements in medical skills.

At first, because he was Ji Xingle's son, no one dared to offend him when he was practicing medicine, and some were even happy to be guinea pigs just to help him gain experience.

Later, the people gradually discovered that Ji Qinghuan was really capable and respected him even more. Later, in order to make it easier for more men to find medical treatment,

Ji Qinghuan began to accept apprentices, and the clinic became the first in the female-dominated country to have the largest number of men.

The twelfth brother, Ji Sunian, wrote a book about his and his family's experiences. Ji Xingle then changed the gender of a popular masterpiece on Blue Star and asked him to write it.

His writings were very popular, and eventually the Twelveth Brother became a famous male writer in the country where women were king.

The fourteenth child, Ji Muhe, is a very well-behaved child, but his personality is hard to understand.

He knows everything, but he said he wanted to stay with his mother and father, to be by their side. In fact, he is a child who cannot live without his mother and father.

As the youngest, he was the most pampered. He was afraid that he would not be able to get used to leaving home, and no one spoiled him like that.

In response to this, Ji Xingle had a talk with him and after learning that he was mentally fine, he stopped caring about him because if she were him, she wouldn't want to leave home either.