Don't think of rebirth.
Chapter 445 Not Forgiving
As soon as Wang Jiaan and the doctors and nurses entered the ward, they heard the father and son making a fuss and hurried over: "What's wrong?"
Fan Ziran quickly lowered his head and wiped his tears, saying in a hoarse voice: "It's nothing, my dad just asked me to go back."
Wang Jiaan originally thought that since the child had been frightened like this, it would be better for him to go home and rest.
But after seeing how Fan Ziran and Fan Yicheng got along, he quickly changed his mind.
When the doctor examined Fan Yicheng, he greeted him in a friendly manner: "Hello, Mr. Fan's father. My daughter Gu Qinghuan is in the same class as your son. My name is Wang Jiaan."
The name Gu Qinghuan is well-known to the parents of every student in Class 3.
Fan Yicheng was no exception. He asked in surprise, "You are the father of squad leader Gu? Why are you here?"
Wang Jiaan said cheerfully, "After classmate Fan came home, he found you lying on the ground. My daughter happened to call him and came to help after learning about the situation. My wife and I also came."
"But they have already gone back. I think it's not convenient for Mr. Fan to stay here alone, so I will stay with you until you wake up."
Fan Yicheng suddenly felt a little embarrassed: "Why did he ask his classmates for help? I'm really causing trouble for you..."
"How can this be considered trouble?" Wang Jiaan shook his head in disapproval. "You know, classmate Fan was terrified when he saw you unconscious."
"As parents, we should not only create a good living environment for our children, but also take good care of our own bodies!"
"This is a critical time for our children. How can we hold them back and let them worry about us?"
Wang Jiaan's words were spoken with great earnestness and sincerity.
Fan Ziran was sitting nearby, stunned by what he heard.
His dad...seems to have been scolded? From the looks of it, he's still blaming his dad for causing trouble for him?
Fan Yicheng blushed, but after thinking about it, he felt that Wang Jiaan was right.
Many parents will compare their children with other children, and then look for problems in their own children.
Not as smart as others, not as hardworking as others, not as focused as others...all these reasons will turn into parents' demands on their children.
However, few parents compare themselves with other children's parents.
The Gu family is different. Whether it is Wang Jiaan or Gu Haiyan, before comparing Gu Qinghuan with other children, it is more appropriate to find the shortcomings in themselves.
What kind of environment have you created for Gu Qinghuan? Can you set a good example? Did you understand Gu Qinghuan's ideas when conflicts arose...all of these need to be considered seriously.
Raising a child is like planting a tree. If there is no loose and breathable soil, no suitable temperature and water, no targeted fertilization, and no regular pruning...
How can an ordinary seed bear abundant fruits?
The doctors and nurses, who had been silent, couldn't help but look at Wang Jiaan a few times when they heard this.
If it were someone else, they would definitely suspect that this person was bragging and just pretending in front of others.
However, the news of Gu Qinghuan calling the emergency number had gradually spread in the hospital, and everyone was impressed that a high school student could be so reliable.
If parents are like this, they will raise children like this, doesn't it seem scientific?
Fan Yicheng said dryly: "You are right. I have neglected my daily health management."
The doctor coughed twice, trying to attract attention: "Mr. Fan, according to the test results, you fell into a coma due to hypoglycemia because you have an insulinoma in your pancreas."
Tumor? Tumor?!
Fan Ziran suddenly became nervous again and blurted out: "Can it be cured?"
"Please don't worry, because it was discovered early and it is a benign tumor, so it can be removed surgically," the doctor comforted.
Fan Ziran breathed a sigh of relief and patted his chest. Fan Yicheng was very calm: "Can the surgery be arranged as soon as possible?"
The doctor then talked to Fan Yicheng about the surgery in detail. Since his insulinoma was discovered early, his pancreas should be preserved.
However, our hospital rarely performs this operation and lacks experience. If Fan Yicheng can afford the relevant expenses, it would be best for him to be transferred to another hospital.
While Fan Yicheng was talking to the doctor, Wang Jiaan did not leave immediately. He sat next to Fan Ziran and asked quietly, "You and your father have a bad relationship?"
Fan Ziran subconsciously wanted to curl his lips, but he didn't want to be rude to the squad leader's father, so he just whispered, "It's not good."
As can be seen from the word "挺", there are quite a few contradictions.
Wang Jiaan shook his head in his heart: "Is it because his words are too harsh?"
Fan nodded frantically. As expected, outsiders could immediately notice this. It was his father’s problem!
"So do you hate him?" Wang Jiaan asked again.
Fan naturally kept silent and shook his head slowly.
Sometimes he really felt that his father was too much, that he spoke harshly, that he didn't care about him at all, and that he just kept finding fault.
However, what happened today made him realize that he just didn't like his father's behavior, not that he hated this person.
He has been without a mother since childhood, but he has grown up well. Although Fan Yicheng is busy with work, he will try his best to attend parent-teacher meetings.
Whenever he asked for pocket money, Fan Yicheng would always nag him and tell him not to spend it on trivial things. However, as long as he really needed it, Fan Yicheng would give it to him.
Buying things for him, taking him out to play...so many past experiences piled together made me his father.
They are a family. Even if he hates some of Fan Yicheng's behaviors, he can't really hate Fan Yicheng as a father.
"When he scolds me, it's really too much. Sometimes I even want to run away from home." Fan Ziran said in a low voice.
But he couldn't leave. While he felt sad, he also knew that his father was just a talker.
Including himself, he is a stubborn person who refuses to give in.
"Then this is what your father did wrong." Wang Jiaan said it bluntly, and Fan was naturally surprised.
He scratched his head: "Uncle, why don't you speak up for my dad?"
At this time, as a parent, shouldn't Wang Jiaan let him consider things from his father's perspective and understand his father's difficulties?
"What can we do to help him? He just can't speak. This habit must be corrected!" Wang Jiaan said firmly.
Fan Ziran was amused. He looked at Fan Yicheng, who was still frowning as he talked to the doctor, and said softly, "Can I not forgive him for what he said?"
"Not only can you not forgive him, you can also ask him to apologize to you." Wang Jiaan stuck out his lips at Fan Yicheng.
Just like a joke, if the person being joked doesn’t find it funny, then it’s a failed joke.
If you love your child but hurt him/her emotionally, then you are using the wrong approach. You should apologize and change the way you express yourself.
Fan naturally couldn't imagine his father apologizing, and it was more likely that he would glare at him.
However, when he heard Wang Jiaan say this, he felt relieved.
It turns out that you don’t have to understand your dad. A wrong is a wrong, and he can choose not to forgive.
After Fan Yicheng finished his discussion with the doctor, he turned around and saw Fan Ziran and Wang Jiaan having a pleasant conversation, and he felt a little complicated.
"I have to go back, don't waste Uncle Wang's time." Fan Yicheng started to lecture again.
Fan Ziran was a little unhappy at first, but before he could open his mouth, Wang Jiaan said, "It's okay, it's still early. I had a very good chat with your son."
"You're in this state now, and it's really unconvincing to say that you're wasting time. You should just take care of yourself first."
Fan Ziran listened to these light words, then looked at his father's blushing face and thought Wang Jiaan was really handsome.
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