Just because she looks weak doesn't mean she's easy to bully.

Ning Jiaoer lowered her head, bit her lip and took a deep breath.

"Sister, I know what you want to say. When Sister Zi Xin heard me say that I wanted to marry my cousin, she was so excited. She pulled me aside and said something about jumping into a fire pit, saying that I was stupid and she didn't care about it. She said a lot, but I didn't care too much. I just knew that she was very angry. I knew it, so I went to find Ling Xiao..."

Ning Jiaoer paused here, sighed and continued.

"How come I don't know what I feel about Ling Xiao? I... I know. When my sister told me those things before, I knew she was pointing at me. It's hard to tell what I'm thinking because I don't know what Ling Xiao is thinking.

So, I can't say how I feel, because it would make me look unreserved as a girl. My mother said that girls shouldn't be too proactive. My mother told me that Ling Xiao is not a good candidate for a husband. He likes to fight, loves to practice martial arts, is too rough, and doesn't know how to feel sorry for girls. I..."

When Cheng Jinchu heard Ning Jiaoer say this, she understood and realized one thing, that is, whether it is a mama's boy or a mama's girl, it is equally annoying. The key is, it is good to have some ideas of your own. Does it mean that your own ideas are not important? Whatever your mother says must be correct.

"Yuanyuan, you are still young now..."

Cheng Jinchu sighed. She was still young. At this age, she was still in junior high school in her previous life. Why would she get married? It was such a great time to enter into married life. It was really...

"Is that so? I don't want to know what your mother said, because this is your marriage. You have to know that choosing Xie Yu as your husband is related to your future life. Although there are not many divorces in our dynasty, you have to know that those unpleasant things said by the outside world, such as saying that you have been married, divorced women, and other unpleasant things to divorced women, are all trivial matters."

Ning Jiaoer was a little confused. These were all small matters, so what was the big deal?

“So, what’s the big deal?”

Cheng Jinchu looked at Ning Jiaoer in front of her with her eyes wide open and a curious and obedient look. She still softened her heart, sighed, and reached out to touch Ning Jiaoer's head.

"The big deal is the hurt that occurred during this relationship. What kind of hurt would make a woman willingly endure the abuse from people who don't know the truth and still choose to divorce? Jiao'er, have you ever thought about this?"

Ning Jiaoer bit her lip and shook her head.

"Then, can you tell me what happened after you went to see Ling Xiao? What did you say?"

Hearing Cheng Jinchu mention Ling Xiao, Ning Jiaoer's round eyes were immediately misted over. After a while, tears kept falling down. Cheng Jinchu took out a handkerchief and carefully wiped the little girl's tears. Ning Jiaoer sniffed after crying enough and was willing to talk about that matter.

"I, I went to look for Ling Xiao, sister, you guys were right when you saw me, I actually know that I have loved playing with him since I was little, we were just friends at first, it was just a simple crush between childhood sweethearts, but you reminded me last time and made me realize that maybe my love for Ling Xiao is not that simple.

That day, my sister guided me to imagine marrying Ling Xiao. I felt so happy, much happier than when I knew I was going to be with my cousin. When I knew I was going to marry my cousin, I simply felt that something that was destined to happen had happened, that's all.

Including the many things that my mother later told me about that I only understood after I got married, I thought that as long as my cousin was good to me, it didn't matter whether there was a woman in the backyard or not.

But Ling Xiao is different. I only want him to have me. I don’t want to share him with other women at all. I think I am a bad person. Including the last time he came back and brought that woman with him, I really felt unhappy.

During this period, my mother told me a lot of things, but the most important thing was that women should have a broad mind and tolerance. In this imperial capital, there are very few families without concubines. "

As for this idea, Cheng Jinchu could only say that she understood it. Although she was now more influenced by her past life, she could not accept it before she recovered her memory, because in her family, whether it was her parents or her uncle, grandparents, they were all monogamous and had no concubines or mistresses.

Therefore, she does not comment on whether other people's ideas are right or wrong. There is no right or wrong. Many big families or royal families already have a lot of assets or have real heirs to the throne.

Also, medical technology was not well developed in that era, and the survival rate of children was already low. In addition, when women gave birth, they had one foot in hell. So, was the idea that Ning Jiaoer's mother taught Ning Jiaoer wrong?

Cheng Jinchu felt that, in such a big background, what she had to do was not to let others change her mind, and she would not judge other people's lives. In short, she did not accept having three wives and four concubines, and at the same time, she did not force others to accept the idea of ​​being together for life.

Everyone is right, as long as they live their own lives well and don't interfere with different lifestyles.

"What did you say when you went to see Ling Xiao that day?"

This is the only thing Cheng Jinchu wants to know. The other ideas are not important. Against this backdrop, what Ning Jiaoer's mother taught her were tips based on maternal love. Cheng Jinchu doesn't want to and won't say anything about these.

"That day, my aunt and cousin came to our house to discuss the marriage. They agreed to come to propose formally in a few days. I suddenly felt that if I didn't go to find Ling Xiao, even if the result was still that I would marry my cousin, I, I didn't make it clear, then, I would definitely regret it in the future.

So, I ran to find him secretly, and crawled through a dog hole in my house to the next door. When we were kids, we used to run to each other's houses to play faster like that.

Ling Xiao was very surprised to see me. He was practicing with the spear in his yard at that time. Since I was a child, I have liked to watch him practice martial arts silently. I have said before that his family's future was earned by his grandfather who changed his career and went to fight in the war. So his grandfather did not have any amazing kung fu and relied on his courage to fight on the battlefield.

Uncle Ling was someone Grandpa Ling specially hired to teach him military books and martial arts.

Ling Xiao can be said to be a genius in martial arts. When he was five years old, he was noticed by his master, General Wei, who accepted him as his only disciple. By the way, sister may not know this, but General Wei's official position is actually just below General Wang. After Prince Chen passed away, regarding the title of the God of War of Han Country, about half of the people, or it can be said that most people said it was General Wang, but there are still many people who think it should be General Wei.

Actually, it’s not quite right to call him a disciple… His master has no sons, and that set of spear techniques was passed down from his master’s family, and only passed on to sons, so he is actually his master’s adopted son. His master has a very good relationship with Ling Xiao’s parents, and they have agreed that one of Ling Xiao’s sons after marriage will have the master’s surname Wei and be recorded in the Wei family’s genealogy.”

Cheng Jinchu had heard about General Wei, mainly because his marksmanship was indeed well-known, and his battle record was not inferior to that of General Wang.