Started as an exile and became a mother, kicked the scumbag and spoiled the whole family

Seeing that Su Miaomiao was still silent, Su's father spoke again.

"A woman should stay at home and take care of her husband and children. While you have a good relationship with your uncle, you should hurry up and give birth to a child for him. This is the right thing to do. Only if you give birth to a son for your uncle can you secure your position as the queen. Otherwise, when your uncle takes a concubine and someone else gives birth to a boy for him first, your situation will be passive."

After hearing this, Su's mother quickly responded, took Su Miaomiao's hand and gave her instructions.

"You really need to pay more attention to what your father said. Since ancient times, all the emperors have had many wives and concubines. If the emperor does not pay attention to expanding his family, he would be irresponsible to the people of the world. Let alone the emperor, even those small landlords have many wives. So we must make plans early and can't be foolish enough to gamble the rest of our lives on a man's heart."

"For us women, especially those in the harem, having children is the only way to ensure that even if we fall out of favor, we won't have a miserable old age. If the child succeeds to the throne, you will be the empress dowager. What a privilege and honor that is!"

"My dear, I'm an experienced person. What I'm telling you is from the bottom of my heart. Don't be stupid. When you go back, you'll pester him to give birth to a child. Do you hear me?"

"As for the throne, you should let your son-in-law sit on it. We women cannot bear such a heavy burden. What you need to do now is to find a way to keep the man's heart and let him give you a few children. This is what we women should do. Do you understand?"

Her parents really did this for her own good.

But every word and sentence is full of prejudice.

It seems that women should live under the charity of men and rely on men for their whole lives.

A woman's fate is completely determined by the man she marries. If the man gives more, the woman will have a better life. If the man gives nothing, the woman will have to spend the rest of her life in misery.

She knew that this was the result of the prevalence of patriarchal ideas and the way women were disciplined.

This cannot be changed in a day or two, or with just a few words.

Su Miaomiao took a deep breath to calm herself down and tried to speak in a calm tone.

"Dad, Mom, I know you are doing this for my own good, but in my opinion, women don't have to revolve around children and men. Women can also have their own careers and ideals. When women do something with their heart, they may not be worse than men. There are no women in the court today, not because women are incapable, but because this society does not give women opportunities. If men and women can be treated equally, and women can be helped like men, then women will definitely be no worse than men, and women can hold up half the sky!"

She spoke passionately, becoming more and more excited as she spoke.

Because she firmly believes that what she says is right, the energy she exudes comes from her bones and is impossible to ignore.

Su's father and mother had never seen her like this before. They were stunned for a moment and didn't say anything.

Is this something their daughter could say?

Why do I feel that after not seeing my daughter for a few years, she is no longer an empty-headed person, but has become a person with ideas.

Regardless of whether these ideas are correct or not, fortunately she has learned to think. She no longer believes whatever others say like before. She was deceived by Ji Baiqing and wished she could be sold and help him count the money.

It was because of this sentence that they realized that their daughter was really different from before.

Then Su's mother spoke first.

"Miaomiao, but women are women. How can women be the same as men? We women obey our fathers before we get married, and obey our husbands after we get married. After our husbands die, we obey our sons. Without relying on men, we women cannot survive. Miaomiao, everyone has been through this. How can you treat women the same way you treat men? Don't be naive anymore. Just listen to your parents and go back to have a baby. Will your parents harm you?"

After listening to her mother, Su Miaomiao realized that some ideas are deeply rooted and it is impossible to change a person's mind in a short period of time.

Women’s awakening cannot be achieved overnight.

This is a long-term process.

It will take the efforts of several generations, or even dozens of generations, to achieve it.

Since she, a person from the future, has come to this era, she feels that she has an obligation to contribute to promoting gender equality.

As a woman, if she herself is unwilling to speak up for her own group, it is even less likely that others will speak up for them.

So she must seize the opportunity, climb to a high position to speak for women, let the world see and recognize that women are no worse than men, and women can do what men can do.

She was thinking about this when her father suddenly asked in surprise.

"You have been together for several years, why haven't you gotten pregnant? Did your brother-in-law force you to drink contraceptive soup on purpose to prevent you from getting pregnant?"

After he finished speaking, he didn't even wait for Su Miaomiao to answer. He slapped his thigh and continued talking to himself.

"That must be the case. I knew he couldn't forgive you so easily and wouldn't care about what you did before. Alas!"