Become a stepmother and save the male protagonist of the painful literary school

Of course, referring to his cold attitude towards his previous wife, Jian Yan still believes more in the argument that "people with thin lips are unfeeling."

She thought of Tong Huaimu's appearance again.

The boy's facial features are almost identical to his father's, but his face shape is more feminine, not so regular, but more seductive. It should be inherited from his mother.

Tong Ruixiao didn't know what she was thinking and answered her questions seriously.

"In the past two years, maybe because of puberty, he has become very rebellious and particularly undisciplined. Basically, I say one thing and he talks back. I really can't do anything about it."

Jian Yan asked: "When did his rebellion begin?"

Tong Ruixiao thought about it and found a vague time point.

"…Probably after his mother died."

"The company was very busy at that time and I didn't have time to take care of him. He was addicted to games and finally quit, but then he got into fighting again."

"It wasn't until the first call from the police station that I realized he often got into fights with his bad friends."

"Do you go to pick him up often?"

He got angry when he thought about it, "I only went there twice before."

"I started to discipline him with kind words and took time to teach him, but he didn't listen at all and just ignored me. If he did it this time, there would be next time. I was so angry that I just let him do whatever he wanted and arranged for Assistant Li to handle it."

Jian Yan lowered his eyes.

It was pretty much what she thought.

A teenager wants to be loved, but he doesn't find the right way, so he hopes to get his father's care in this extreme way.

If you succeed once, there will be a second time.

If they later find that this method doesn't work, they will resort to more extreme measures.

It could be overspending, it could be something else. Like the row of expensive racing cars in the garage…

Also, fighting and racing have one thing in common, which is that they can vent emotions.

He had a lot of negative emotions in his heart and needed to release them in this way.

Considering how Tong Huaimu always misinterpreted other people's kindness as malice toward him, and how he ended up committing suicide, she felt that the child was very pitiful.

How can you love someone if you have never felt love?

What's more, this is something she didn't expect - Tong Huaimu did not grow up in the Tong family.

It's simply unimaginable.

Because when she put a flower in the vase on the dining table, it would make him angry and he would be sarcastic to her.

She thought he was a spoiled young man who had been pampered since childhood, so he was so arbitrary and authoritarian.

I didn’t expect that I have only been in the Tong family for six years.

She is so much like the original owner of this body of hers, who was not raised in a wealthy family since childhood, but was inserted into it midway.

Moreover, these two people have the same paranoid temperament.

She now truly believed that every character has its own reasons for being formed. Few people are extremists from birth, and most are influenced by the environment.

Seeing that she was silent, Tong Ruixiao said calmly: "When you proposed tutoring, I knew it would fail. If he is not interested in learning, forget it. Don't force him to learn. There is no need anyway."

"Mr. Tong means that we should just ignore him?" She widened her eyes in disbelief.

"Well, I'll send him abroad right after he finishes high school. Even if he can't accomplish anything, I have enough money to ensure that he has food and clothing."

Isn’t the purpose of making money to ensure that you and your family have no worries?

Since Tong Huaimu is not good at studying, I won’t force him to study. As long as he is happy, that’s enough.

This is also the reason why I never ask too much about his grades.

"If that's the case, then he will live his whole life under your shadow, completely losing the ability and motivation to create value. There will be no other joy in life except squandering... Is such a life meaningful?"

She looked at Tong Ruixiao, "Mr. Tong, why do you think he doesn't need to make any effort when you are here?"

“Only things you gain through yourself are real and reassuring.”

It is easy to get it, but you lose your self-worth.

If you always rely on your parents, you will always be a giant baby.

"Your provision can make his body grow over time, but it cannot make his soul grow."

"He could spend his whole life lying at home, with everything provided for him, but he still wouldn't feel happy that way."

"He doesn't know how to give, nor does he care about the efforts of others, let alone return. He won't learn to cherish, and he will never feel the love around him in his life."

"When he sees mountains, they are not mountains; when he sees water, it is not water. His world is separated from the world of others."

"His life is like a game with no challenges and a foreseeable end. What's the meaning of such a life?"

Tong Ruixiao was stunned. He was surprised by her words. This was an angle he had never considered.

"I never thought about these things. I just wanted to be able to provide a safety net for Xiao Mu and let him live his life as he pleases."

"Whatever you want?" She shook her head slightly.

“When you can easily get what you want without any effort, you lose interest.”

She didn't understand his educational philosophy that put material things first and ignored spiritual needs.

Sometimes when people like something, they like not only the object itself, but also the process of obtaining it through their own abilities.

Hard work is a kind of pursuit, it is the internal spiritual driving force on which a person relies for survival, and it is something that must never be lost.

If a person loses his spiritual motivation, then wouldn’t his body just be a walking corpse?

"Tong Huaimu is a person first, and your child second."

"How can we train a person only considering the material basis for survival?"

"You can ensure that he has enough food and drink for his whole life, which is more than the material conditions that most families provide for their children. But if this is all you have, then what is the difference between this and simply raising a pet?"

Tong Ruixiao remained silent. Her words were so sharp and aggressive that they made people feel painful.

“My words may not sound nice, but I don’t mean any harm,” she added.

Maybe no one has ever spoken to him like this before, and he was a little worried that he would break down.

Unexpectedly, the man just nodded, his eyes serious, "Good medicine tastes bitter but is good for the disease, honest advice is unpleasant to the ear but is good for action. I know you are doing this for Xiao Mu, please continue."

Some of it was unexpected for her.

This is completely different from Si Yanchen.

The corners of her mouth curved up.

She didn't know that the other party remembered every word she had said before.

Tong Ruixiao noticed the woman's expression, guessed her thoughts, and couldn't help asking: "Do I look like someone who doesn't listen to other people's advice?"

She covered her lips and smiled, looking at his eyes brightly, "You want to hear the truth?"

"When I was reading a book, I saw a line in a poem that said 'Internalize in the heart, externalize in action'. It seems that I am still a long way from being a trustworthy person, and I need to further improve my ideological awareness."