You have the right not to speak.

Chen Haihua said calmly: "It means that we should not strive to be a successful person, but strive to be a valuable person."

Father Chen Ziye laughed: "As a human being, you should have a Buddha in your heart and a sword in your hand; you should have the bustling city under your feet and mountains and rivers in your heart; you should be able to mount a horse to kill the enemy and also be able to dismount to chant sutras. Be a human being with a heart of a bodhisattva and do things with the means of a diamond; be wholehearted when you are sincere and ruthless when you draw your sword; lay out a good plan when you are proud and have a way out when you are in trouble; you should always have a smile on your face and skills. This is very good."

Everyone knows that pleasure can make people addicted, but in fact, torture and pain can also make people sink into the quagmire and difficult to escape. There is a huge amount of silent capital in it, and humans always wonder whether they can turn the tide. For example, games and gambling are actually similar.

The eldest brother nodded and said proudly: "Life is full of ups and downs, but we still need to move forward bravely."

In real life, the right to speak in a family often depends on who can earn more wealth, rather than age or other factors. This seems to have become an unchangeable truth. After all, economic strength determines the material foundation and quality of life of a family, so the member who can earn the most money will naturally receive more attention and respect.

Under this concept, it is not difficult to find that those who have strong earning power often have higher status and decision-making power in the family. They have created better conditions for the family with their own efforts and wisdom, and they deserve the recognition and support of their family. At the same time, this respect also makes them more motivated to work hard and further improve the family's economic situation.

However, we cannot ignore the emotional bond and mutual support in family relationships. Although money plays an important role in the family, emotional factors such as family affection and love are also indispensable. A harmonious and happy family requires every member to contribute, understand and tolerate each other. While pursuing material interests, we should also pay attention to cultivating a good family atmosphere and close relationships.

In addition, for children, parents should establish correct values ​​and teach them to respect everyone's efforts and contributions, and not just judge a person's value by how much income they earn. This can help children develop a healthy and equal mentality and avoid the negative impact of excessive utilitarianism on their growth.

In short, in modern society, although economic strength is important, we still need to cherish the emotional connection between family members. Only on the basis of mutual respect and care can we build a happy, stable and long-lasting family.

Five pairs of eyes looked at the father Chen Ziye with admiration. For the first time, they found that the father today was different from the impression they had. Before, he was an old father who liked to wear new clothes, change his face in a second, and kept people away. Now, he is actually patient and persuasive. It turns out that he is a psychologist who was hindered by his appearance.

I mentioned a point of discussion before. Whether you should listen to your parents' advice and live the life they planned for you depends on these two situations:

If you have a strong family background, a rich second generation, an official second generation, or a red third generation, and your parents are also industry leaders or celebrities with extensive connections and resources, then their successful experience will undoubtedly become a beacon on your life path, illuminating the direction of your progress.

However, if your family is ordinary, or even poor, your parents are idle all day, not doing their jobs, and only daydreaming about getting rich overnight. They have accomplished nothing themselves, but they put all their hopes on you, hoping that you can stand out and change the fate of the entire family. What's worse is that they use their half-baked knowledge to guide your life, making you feel at a loss.

I know two types of parents: the ones who only want to make their children happy when giving them advice, and the ones who want their children to be a tool for them to show off. If you meet the second type of parents, you can't even believe their punctuation marks! Talking to them is a waste of time and life.

Unfortunately, most parents in real life belong to the latter category. They have achieved nothing themselves, but they have high hopes for their children, hoping to make a comeback with the help of their children's success. Once you don't act according to their wishes, they will bring out the big hat of "filial piety" to put pressure on you and even threaten to sever ties with you.

If you still treat such parents with respect, won't you be treated as a soft persimmon by them and be bullied by them? If you believe in the so-called "filial piety" brainwashing, your life may fall into an endless nightmare and you will completely lose yourself.

Therefore, when faced with a poor and destitute family of origin, you must decisively break free from the shackles and stay away from this quagmire.

How can we not get hurt when we are fighting against fate? Before the god of fate comes, all the hardships are the tempering given to us poor people. It is like a cruel battle. Only after experiencing countless pains and setbacks can we gradually become strong and brave. And those scars have become the witness of our growth and the source of our inner strength.

Most people just turn suffering into scars, and then flowers bloom on the scars. When faced with all kinds of hardships in life, they choose to accept reality and try to adapt to the environment. Although they are left with scars, they can learn valuable lessons from them and turn them into motivation to move forward.

Therefore, these scars are no longer symbols of pain, but medals of life, representing the glory after they have overcome difficulties.

However, the truly wealthy do not just stay at the surface of success, they pay more attention to the inner spiritual cultivation. They know how to sharpen their mental strength in the face of adversity and make their mind more tenacious and powerful.

This extraordinary mental strength enables them to remain calm in difficult situations and not be swayed by external interference; it also gives them greater wisdom and insight, allowing them to better seize opportunities and realize their life value.

The atmosphere of a family has a profound impact on the emotional values ​​of its family members, and these emotional values ​​are closely linked to the fate of the family.

Imagine a family where the only sounds that echo are shrill, hysterical scolding or meaningless, unnecessary arguments. Even if the family was originally very wealthy, this negative environment will gradually erode the relationship between family members and eventually lead to the decline of the family.