Love DJ

Jing Si:

Good reading letter.

I am sorry that it has taken so long to write to you. I have waited so long to write to you because I had reasons for doing so—reasons which you will learn later.

I want to let you know first that I wrote this letter to you after careful consideration. So the contents of the letter are the result of my careful and serious consideration, and are definitely not written on a whim.

Of course, this also means that the decision I made can never be changed!

The reason why I choose to contact you by writing a letter is not only because I am not good at parting, but also because I feel that in the form of a letter, I can perhaps convey what I want to say more peacefully and sincerely.

Maybe you will have different ideas, but please forgive me for opening another chapter of our relationship in this way.

Looking back on the days we spent together, it is like a series of delicate paintings, each scene shining with a unique light. Your smile, your words, and every bit of our shared experience have become an indelible mark in my life.

However, it is these precious memories that make me more clearly aware that the incompatibility between us is like two rivers that are drifting further and further apart. Although they once met, they will eventually flow in their respective directions.

I choose not to contact you actively during this period of time, not out of indifference or escape, but out of a deep wish - I hope you can gradually get used to the days without me around.

Love, sometimes, is not just about possession, but also about letting go, allowing the other person to grow freely and find their own happiness. I hope that when you look back on this time, you can smile, rather than regret or reluctance.

The incompatibility between us is reflected in many subtle aspects - perhaps it is our different attitudes towards life, or our uncertain plans for the future, or perhaps it is in the way we each deal with our emotions...

You don't have to insist on finding out the specific details. What I want to say is, please don't underestimate the inappropriateness in the minor details.

These differences may seem insignificant in the face of the initial sweetness and passion, but as time goes by, they will gradually become an insurmountable gap between us.

If we deliberately ignore them, one day they will, like termites, eat away all the affection between us.

It is because I see this clearly that I will write you this letter. I know very well that it is unfair to both of us to maintain a relationship reluctantly. It cannot make us better ourselves, nor can it lead us to the life we ​​truly desire.

Therefore, I have made this difficult decision, which is painful but firm. I hope you can understand that this is not a denial of you personally, but the result of deep reflection on this relationship.

May we all find the happiness that brings peace and satisfaction to our hearts in our respective worlds.

Please remember that no matter what the future holds, you are someone I once cherished and loved deeply. May your days be filled with sunshine and your steps be firm and powerful. And I will continue to move forward with the growth and courage that this experience has given me.

Finally, thank you for all the good things you have given us. May we all greet every tomorrow in our lives with the best attitude.

Take care and don’t worry.

Ouyang Mengmian