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Have you ever thought that if you hadn't personally promoted this confession, your parents would have died unjustly. Look, as their daughter, you are so great. Not only did you send your enemies to hell, but you also cleared the name of your parents. Ordinary women in the boudoir can't do this even if they are sold by pound. Just think about it, sister Yiren, you must be so awesome, your parents must be so proud of you. Since ancient times, there are not many women who can do this.

If I was wrongly accused and died, and no one helped me to change my confession, I think I would be so angry that I could come back to life and avenge myself, otherwise I would die with regrets. Death is acceptable, everyone has to die, but you can't be wrongly accused to death, this is a matter of principle. Think about it, isn't this the truth? And you, you avenged yourself, think about it, shouldn't you be content and proud of yourself? Think less in the future, people who think less are more likely to be happier. "

"But what should I do if I miss you so much sometimes?"

Or maybe he has too little social experience and has not experienced enough beatings. It seems that he has to take drastic measures. Shen Ruyi said:

"Of course it's a cold dish. What else can you do? Let me tell you a few hypotheticals. Suppose your parents are alive and well, but in the future, in order to pave the way for your brother or for the sake of your father's career, they marry you to one of their superiors or a big shot they can't afford to offend. And this big shot is already in his sixties and will soon be buried. He is old enough to be your grandfather. What would you do in the face of such parents?

Let's assume that he didn't marry you to an old man, but chose a young man of your own age for you to marry. As a result, he indulged in drinking, whoring and gambling in his later life, and he also abused and beat you. You were about to die, and you wanted to divorce and leave that family. However, your parents thought, how could others continue to live, but you were the only one who had so many problems? Not only did they disagree, they also scolded you, saying that you were not allowed to divorce, and that you could die if you felt that you couldn't live anymore. What would you do in the face of such parents?

Let's assume that you didn't learn from your master, and your parents were alive and well, and even got promoted. Later, your father was favored by a noble lady, or fell in love with someone else, and insisted on divorcing or killing your mother to make room for someone else, but your mother would only cry and be in love. And you went from being a legitimate daughter to a concubine's daughter, and lived under the control of your stepmother. With a stepmother comes a stepfather. You were hungry and cold, and under the instigation of your stepmother, you were often beaten and despised by your biological father, and even the servants bullied you. What would you do in the face of such parents?

Let's assume that your father passed away due to illness, and your mother remarried with you in order to survive. The remarried man also has his own children. In order to gain a firm foothold, your mother favors the other man's children. Not only are you bullied by the other man's children, but you are also hated by your mother, who thinks you are a burden and a burden to her. In order to prove her loyalty, she even uses your future marriage to please others, and even sucks blood from you for the rest of her life. What would you do in this situation? "

"Ruyi, Ru...Yi, it shouldn't be that serious. My parents are not that kind of people."

"Hey, don't say absolute things. There is nothing absolute in this world. People are changing all the time. Their love for you was real, and it is also real that they suddenly stop loving you one day. Your parents happened to leave when you were young and treated you the best, so you can't forget them. If your parents didn't treat you as a human being, and beat and abused you every other day, would you still be sad if they died?

Some parents are worse off than not having them, understand? Having parents does not guarantee happiness. Just like having a son does not guarantee that he will inherit the family line. It may also bring disaster and lead to the extinction of the family. Nothing is absolute. No one knows what will happen in the future until the last moment of life. Will it develop in that direction?

For example, I am doing fine now, and I am very satisfied with my current life. Let's take another example. If both my parents are alive and well, and I am so capable, who do you think will end up with all the family property I have acquired? Either in my father's hands or in Changle's hands, but it is 100% not mine, Shen Ruyi. No matter how outstanding and capable I am, it is useless. As long as I am a woman, I cannot escape being controlled, suppressed, and even sucked dry by them.

I can't even decide who to marry in the future. Because they say, I gave you life and raised you up, you have to remember my kindness and listen to me. But now, I have the final say in everything. I can even choose not to marry for life, and no one will say anything to me. I can be my own boss. You see, this is the difference. Nothing is absolutely good or bad, it all depends on how you look at it. Tell me, for me personally, which kind of life is happy?

Everything that appears in life has a price tag. If you get something, you must exchange it for something else; if you lose something, you will also get something else. Nothing is perfect. Imperfections are life, and perfection can only be a daydream. Some people may think that we, the orphans, are pitiful, but our freedom and happiness are something that they will never experience. Don't you think this is true?

Let me ask you one more question. If you were asked to marry into someone else's family and compete for favors with a bunch of women, would you do it? If you were asked to be humble and serve your parents-in-law and the other party's grandparents, and quarrel with a bunch of sisters-in-law every day, and make trouble for each other, would you do it? Do you want to live this kind of life?"

"No, no, no, Ruyi, I won't go through. I can't go through. I think if I don't do it well, I will cripple them."

"Look, there's a result. Do you still miss your parents? Do you still blame yourself?"

"Hearing what you said, I think it makes sense. Some parents are more upset than not having one. It seems that they don't miss it as much or blame themselves as much."

"Why do you have to blame yourself? You have already avenged them and changed their confession. What else do you want? You can't go down to accompany them, right? Let's move on from the topic of whether we should die or not. Even if you go down to accompany them, can they still come back alive? You can't. So, why do you have to blame yourself? There is no need to. All you have to do is live well and live happily. As I said, it's better not to have some parents.

At best, you only lack love, but not other things. Look at the backyards of these families in the capital, how many of them are peaceful and quiet? There are a lot of illegitimate sons and daughters, and the legitimate sons will scramble for survival resources, because the total resources are limited, and they won't become bigger or more for no reason. What's more, they are not born from the same mother, how can they be good? If you have a family like this, would you be upset? I feel a headache just thinking about it. Look at some of the heads of the families in the capital, they are in a hopeless situation themselves, but they treat their daughters as a lifeline, as a resource, and use them to curry favor with the superiors. It's better to have no happiness than to have such a father.