Since there is space, it is naturally the best to buy it for 0 yuan

All that was left to him was a mess, the increasing age, and an empty pocket, with nothing in it, nothing left.

Shen Ruyi heard all this news in bits and pieces from other classmates. As of the last piece of news she heard, he was still not married.

Because he has no money to buy a house, he is getting older, business is not doing well, competition is getting more and more fierce, and society is getting more and more competitive. He can't make money and no woman is willing to marry him anymore.

So, for whom was he working so hard? The winds of the storm also changed. People began to say that he was stupid and foolish. His parents and other brothers looked down on him.

They think he is a waste, he has brought shame to them, and they cannot hold their heads up in front of other people. You are so old, you have no money, no wife, what else can you do?

You see, it’s the same with people, no matter what kind of relationship it is.

Therefore, if people want to be selfish, they must first love themselves. Whoever gives birth to a child should take care of it. The words "eldest brother is like father" and "eldest sister is like mother" are the most shameless "shackles", as rogue as the word "domestic violence".

If you can't afford to raise a child, don't have one. If you do have one, raise it well. Don't misplace responsibilities.

Shen Ru had seen a lot of cases where older brothers would suck blood from other sisters crazily, and she thought it was natural.

Even these girls have been brainwashed by their own parents. They think that they are the only child in the family, so they will use all their family's strength to help their brothers and let them live a good life. Otherwise, they will feel that they are wrong and unfilial.

Some women even disregard the life and death of their own men and children. Just thinking about it makes me feel suffocated.

There are also some foolishly filial men who disregard the life and death of their own wives and children, and help and support their other brothers, sisters and parents without any bottom line.

Whenever Shen Ruyi saw these scenes, she wanted to knock open these people's heads to see what was inside. They couldn't tell inside from outside, good from bad.

There is nothing wrong in helping the original family, but what is wrong is that these people should not form a new family, get married and have children, and bully others.

If you are ruined, then so be it. It is your own business if you enjoy it. But don't drag innocent people down with you. Others don't owe you anything, let alone your parents and brothers.

These children must be so innocent, you took the initiative to give birth to them, but you don't take responsibility for them. You can't even take care of your own children, but you still care about this family and that family. This kind of people is simply mentally ill.

It's still an incurable disease.

Also, investing in others is worse than investing in yourself, especially doing things like earning money to support your boyfriend or girlfriend's schooling. If you have money, go to school, if you don't have money, just leave it alone.

Even married couples can get divorced, let alone just ordinary boyfriend and girlfriend.

Shen Ruyi has encountered several such incidents. There was also a little brother who was in a different place from his girlfriend. He earned money to support his girlfriend's graduate school graduation. After his girlfriend found a job, the little brother broke up with her on the day he helped her rent a house and move in.

Kill your ideal person first when you get ashore!

The little brother suffered for a long time, and he became half-dead and couldn't get out of it.

It seemed like more than half a year had passed. Shen Ruyi ran into this little brother on the street again. He was full of energy again and said to Shen Ruyi, "Sister, I found a girlfriend again. We have a good relationship now and feel very happy."

"That's good, good news. Where is the girl from?"

Well, the result was that I was dating a girl from the south, and we were in a long-distance relationship, and it was an online relationship. The key point was that she was still a sophomore in college.

Shen Ruyi stared at the kid for a long time, but couldn't help but asked: "What are you thinking? You fell into a pit before, and just climbed out two days ago. The scar hasn't scabbed yet, and you fell into it again. What are you thinking? Are you planning to have fun, or are you going to get married?"

"It must be for the purpose of getting married."

"If you want to get married, you should find a girl who is two or three years younger than you and has similar living habits to you. Look for one near your workplace. I don't believe there won't be a suitable one. Don't do such a foolish thing. You have already grown up with a girl and experienced it once. There is no need to grow up with another younger girl."

Shen Ruyi didn't know how things developed afterwards, because she had never encountered it before. Everyone was very busy and she was exhausted, so she seldom had time to get together.

But one thing Shen Ruyi is sure of is that it is difficult to achieve a positive result in this situation.

As for those things that involve sacrificing one's own interests to support one's brothers and sisters' education, one should also do less of them. It's not that one should not do them at all, but one should do them less of them.

Before you do something, you must think carefully about whether you can afford the consequences. Conscience is something that not everyone has.

When you are not doing well in the future, the first people who look down on you and step on you may be those who you supported to go to school and your parents. At that time, they will not think about what caused you to have such a hard life in the past.

They never mention what they took from you or how much blood they sucked. They only think you are useless, shriveled up like this, with no blood to suck, and they can't take any advantage of you, you are just a waste among wastes.

They just feel that your existence holds them back, makes them lose face, and they treat you like a worn-out shoe.

What is the relationship between brothers and classmates? People are willing to play with you only if you are useful, you are doing well, you are useful and profitable.

If you are not doing well, you are useless to others. How can they recognize you?

When you are strong, you will meet mostly good people. When you are weak, you will meet mostly bad people.

It's still the same people, they haven't changed, but their attitudes are changing all the time, depending on the strength of your ability. Bullying the weak and admiring the strong is an eternal truth.

So, when you are surrounded by a group of brothers and sisters, don’t think how awesome you are, nor does it mean that you are a successful person. It’s just that at the moment, you are doing okay and can be of some use to others.

When things are going well for you, don't be too proud. It may not be because of your ability, but because luck has come. You happened to catch the east wind, benefit from the times, and take advantage of the east wind.

But life is not always smooth sailing, it has ups and downs, it is changing all the time, there are highs and lows.

Don't give up on yourself even when you are in a low mood. Rest when you need to rest, lie down when you need to lie down, and wait for the next opportunity.

Just like her, Shen Ruyi, her life was pretty good after traveling through time. It wasn’t because she was capable, but because she was lucky.

The dynasty I traveled to is relatively stable. The current emperor is emotionally stable and concerned about people's livelihood. He is a wise ruler.

Fortunately, she did not travel back to the period of the Five Barbarians' Rebellion, nor did she travel back to the period before the Western Shang and Zhou Dynasties, nor did she travel back to the era of warlords' fighting in modern history, otherwise people like her would have been destined to be free food.

Of course, she was also prepared for the consequences of what would happen if she had a bad relationship with the people in power in the future. Fortunately, she was still able to bear the consequences.