Since there is space, it is naturally the best to buy it for 0 yuan

Look, this is the barrier of the times. He saw the words "Fude". Shen Ruyi said helplessly:

"Can't you think more deeply about this? Is this a matter of whether a woman is virtuous or not? This is about interests. There is only interest here from beginning to end.

To put it simply, the typical cases mentioned above only involve interests and desires, nothing else. Don't listen to these people talking about love and affection. There is no affection at all, only interests and their own desires, nothing else.

Love and affection are just a cover that these people put up to achieve their goals. Who would care about you if you came up to others nakedly to ask for benefits to satisfy your own selfish desires?

But when you use emotions as an excuse, everything becomes normal, which is equivalent to giving them a coat of morality to cover their dirty tricks, making their behavior more easily accepted by the world.

They are like a sheep in wolf's clothing. People will run and be on guard when they see a wolf, but will they be scared away when they see a sheep? No. But a wolf is a wolf. No matter how bright and beautiful the outer clothing is, it cannot change the fact that it is a wolf. Do you understand?"

"Is there no real love in marriage?"

"Yes, but even if there is, so what? People who truly love others are also the ones who are most thoroughly let down. Human nature is mean. What you can't get is always agitated, and what you get is often not cherished. This is the real norm.

People who take feelings, especially love, too seriously often do not live a good life. If you want to live in this world, you must be ruthless and unrighteous. Everything is in my eyes, but nothing is in my heart. "

The young prince shook his head, saying "I don't understand."

"Just remember that true love is hard to come by in this world. If you encounter it, cherish it. If you don't, it's normal. Don't let others down, and don't be let down by others.

However, you are a man, and a man in a high position, so you don't have to worry about this problem. Others will still fall in love with you just because of your family's power, regardless of other factors."

"Look, what are you talking about? Falling in love because of power, is that still called love?"

Shen Ruyi started talking nonsense again: "Why not? Height, appearance, looks, family background, talent, which one can be said independently? Aren't they all integrated with you?

What others see in you is not just the you after a series of conditions are combined. You are a young prince, and it is destined that countless women will cry and beg to marry you.

If we have the 72 transformations of Sun Wukong, and we can create another you who looks exactly like you, but the other one is a beggar, do you think anyone would pay attention to this beggar? This is reality, and it is an inevitable fact.

We have to accept it calmly and be thankful that we have power and influence. If we were born into a poor family at the bottom of society, we might not even have the money to marry a wife in this life."

The young prince found it hard to accept: "According to your logic, the women I marry are most likely not attracted by me as a person, but by my family background. They are attracted by my family's status and power. Doesn't that mean I can never marry a woman who truly loves me?"

"What's so strange about this? If a girl from your family is getting married, wouldn't you also have to look at the other party's family background, status, and personality first, and only after a series of comprehensive evaluations can you come to the conclusion of whether to marry her or not? So, everyone is the same, so let's stop the eldest brother making fun of the second brother.

Originally, marriage was not about marrying an individual, but the entire family or several families behind that individual. It was not so much driven by emotions that brought two families together.

It would be better to say that two families, for their own benefit, used a young man and woman as a medium to bind their interest groups more thoroughly and firmly.

The chain of interests cannot be broken. As for the medium, it can be you, me, or someone else. It doesn’t matter who the medium is. What matters is whether their interests are affected and whether their interests continue to be sustained.

This is the fundamental reason why many married women, even though they have suffered a lot in their husband's family, are not approved by their own family to divorce and return home.

They are reluctant to give up the benefits and advantages they have already obtained. These flesh and blood are nothing. If there is no girl, there are other girls. You see, no matter from which aspect, it is all about benefits in the end. "

"Why do you feel a little sad? It's not a good feeling."

"It means you are still young, and you have not been poisoned or tainted by this society. But then again, it sounds like if you marry a woman who truly loves you, you will return her love?"

The young prince didn't like what you said, saying that he looked down on others. He said unconvincedly: "Look at what you said? Why can't I respond with my true heart?"

Shen Ruyi smiled: "Then let me ask you, after you marry someone who loves you, will you take a concubine? Will you have a maid? Will you keep a prostitute?"

The young prince blurted out: "Yes, isn't it the same for everyone? What's there to ask?"

"Look, your idea is wrong. You have a lot of women, your wife is just one of them, and your wife has only you as a man. How dare you talk about being sincere to her? Since you can't be sincere to her, don't ask her to do this or that. It's not fair."

"She is the first wife, and I will give her the proper respect. I will not allow other women to surpass her, and she will be in charge of the household, just like my father. Isn't this true?"

Shen Ruyi suggested: "How can this be considered sincerity? Let's switch places and play a game. It will definitely be very interesting. Come, listen to my instructions. It will definitely make you unforgettable for the rest of your life, but this requires your extreme cooperation."

When the young prince heard that there was a fun game, he immediately became excited and replied: "Okay, I will definitely cooperate."

"Okay, now close your eyes for a moment and imagine what I'm saying: Suppose you are a beautiful girl now, you have a good family background, you are very gentle, and you are also very beautiful.

Recently, you are even happier. Your family has found a husband for you who is outstanding in all aspects. He is not only handsome, but also has a better family background. Once you marry him, you will become a noble lady.

You are very happy about this because you have seen the other person once from a distance before, and the other person simply grows in your heart and completely satisfies all your imaginations of a significant other.

So you happily get married amidst endless joy, longing, shyness and expectation. You feel that at this moment, you are the happiest person in the world. Your eyes are full of your husband. You think he is good in every way and he is the greatest man in the world.