None of them work, right? A girl like this doesn't have the ability or conditions to make her family happy.

Of course, this is just an assumption, assuming that this girl is a bad person.

Let’s talk about this again. This girl is not a bad person. She is a simple and good girl, and everything you see was done by her family.

She was unaware or unable to refute.

Whether she was unaware or unable to refute, it all showed one thing: this girl had no opinion of her own, liked to listen to one side and believed it, and could not make her own decision.

It would be even more terrible to marry a girl like this.

There are two ways to explain it. One is that she doesn't trust anyone or listen to anyone except her family members.

Your life will be filled with countless sentences such as what my mother said, what my father said, and what my brother said.

The only thing I don't believe is what you, the person next to me, say. Can I live like this?

Having no opinion of your own means that there will be countless external "invaders" interfering in your life and making your life uneasy.

Whenever she gets any benefit, she always thinks about her parents' home. Isn't it dangerous to try to get something from her parents' home?

There is another type, which is the type that trusts no one. Strictly speaking, this cannot be considered the type that trusts no one.

She believed the instigation of one of her sisters, she believed the instigation of her enemies, and she believed the barking of a dog on the side of the road.

I just don't believe what you, my husband, say, and I don't believe that my husband's family treats her sincerely.

If you are such a person, how can you live your life?"

The more Nan Chen listened, the more his head got dizzy. He shook his head again and again. It was too horrible, too scary. He didn't dare to think about it. He didn't dare to think about it.

"Ruyi, is it really that exaggerated?"

"Otherwise?

Remember, you are not just marrying the person, you are marrying the family.

The person you marry is not just an independent person, but also her family style, heritage, upbringing, quality, and way of dealing with people.

You should be careful when marrying a girl whose family has bad character. It doesn't mean you can't marry her, it depends on the girl and what kind of person she is.

Are you tough enough, are you insightful enough, are you smart enough, do you know how to make choices, and do you know how to let go?

Otherwise, forcibly marrying her home would be the beginning of disaster.

But nowadays, sins are judged by clan, such as three clans, nine clans, etc. If you are not careful, you will be led into the trap by others.

The best girls should be those who live clearly and know what they want.

Someone who will not blindly compromise under the pressure of kindness and affection from her own family or husband's family.

It would be best if you are someone who has his own opinions, can stand up on his own, and is good at listening to other people's opinions.

You also have to love children and be able to protect them.

Marrying the wrong wife will ruin three generations and may even leave you with no offspring.

Whether you are marrying a wife or a husband, character should always come first.

Talent and appearance are also important, but they definitely cannot be in the top three.

What should be put second is the character of the other party’s family.

The third thing to consider is the other person’s personality and temperament, and whether you can get along well with him/her.

Instead of asking what kind of dance the other person can dance, what is her level of playing the piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, or whether the other person is as beautiful as a fairy?

You know, life between two people is not about music, chess, calligraphy, painting, romance, but about the daily necessities of life.

You two have the same taste in food, and being able to eat together is more practical than talent.

After listening to this, do you still feel upset? Still confused? "

Nan Chen shook his head like a rattle, saying repeatedly, "No, no, I'm just feeling lucky that I'm not married.

If I really married a wife like you described, it would be too scary and I dare not imagine it.

But, Ruyi, you are so young, but you know so much. Is that appropriate? Don’t you know too much? "

Shen Ruyi thought that what they just talked about was quite serious, so he deliberately livened up the atmosphere and said,

"Haha, that's right, you can't even imagine it. Now you know how amazing I am, right? It means that I'm precocious.

Study more and read more. Books contain golden houses, beautiful women and everything else.

Come on, come on, Ruyi’s small class has started. Everyone listen carefully, including Changle and the Great Sage.

Today, I will introduce a new term to you all, which is "licking dog".

"Brother, is it like this, licking? That's why it's called a licking dog."

As he spoke, he stuck out his tongue and gestured at the Monkey King.

"Your description is correct. It is the literal meaning. Do you think a person can lick a dog?"

"Brother, no, it's dirty. You said that dogs have viruses on them and you will get sick if you lick them."

"Ah~, our Changle is really smart and has a good memory. He even remembered this."

As he said this, he stroked Changle's forehead.

Then he said, "It is said that in the previous dynasty, there was a son of an official. He was tall and handsome, talented and beautiful, and a man of outstanding appearance.

He refused to accept his family's engagement and had no intention of getting married. The reason was that he secretly fell in love with a beautiful girl who was both talented and beautiful.

Unfortunately, this girl is already taken.

But the girl did not refuse openly. She still kept the young man around, treating them as brother and sister, and enjoyed the young man's service and spending a lot of money on her.

Of course, there are many such gentlemen following this girl, not just this one.”

"She already has a fiancé, and you are still chasing her, isn't that insane?

This is not what a gentleman does. Then what?" Nanchuan said bluntly.

"Then, of course, this girl got married, and married a wealthy man.

Unfortunately, married life was not as good as she had imagined, and she was not her husband's only woman.

Then, she thought of these young men who surrounded her and never left.

She cried to these gentlemen every few days, telling them about her longing for them, her unhappiness, and her helplessness.

Later, some of these young men could not resist the urging of their families and got married.

Unfortunately, he still doesn't like his wife and is still thinking about that girl named Bai Yueguang as always.

Some young men have always been loyal to this girl, no, to be exact, to this lady, always keeping their chastity and serving her at her side. "

"These young men are so disappointing. Their partners are already married, but they are still like this. They must be mentally ill." Nanchuan interrupted.

Shen Ruyi ignored it and continued, "They spent several years in this sticky and unclear relationship.

Later, those married young men no longer loved their wives, their children, or their own families.

One heart is still on Lady White Moonlight.

He always felt that God was unfair, preventing him and her white moonlight from being together.

Otherwise, they will definitely live in harmony, grow old together, and love each other without any doubt.

All his money, heart, and energy were placed on his white moonlight.

This resulted in his wife and children having an extremely difficult life.

Gradually, over time, his wife and children no longer had any expectations or fantasies about him. "

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