The whole family traveled through ancient times and fled in an RV

“Do girls have the opportunity to learn from a young age?

Did anyone give you guidance and instruction as you grew up?

Can it be trained as a pillar of society?

The fact is that there hasn't been one, and there never has been one.

Of course, there are also young ladies from aristocratic families who have learned music, chess, calligraphy and painting since childhood and are extremely talented. Is such training intended to allow her to support her family?

No!

Just let her grow up to be a young girl, marry her off, and marry into the family. What she learned was only for the purpose of better serving her parents-in-law and husband, and continuing the family line for her husband's family.

Is this a human? This is just a humanoid tool without freedom, thoughts of its own, or preferences of its own.

Even if one devotes his whole life to his family and clan, he will still be regarded as useless.

Does anyone want to live like this? Do you want to? "Lin Zisu handed the speaker to her mother, sat down, cleared her throat, and drank some water to moisten her throat.

"In no mood!"

"In no mood!!"

"I don't want to! I ran away here because I don't want to live like this!!"

. . . . . .

Shen Xianglan: “Yes, no one wants to sacrifice themselves to help others and then be trampled on.

Women are just as capable and smart. As long as they have the opportunity to learn, they can set up their own households and serve the country and the people!

However, no matter how capable and smart a person is, if he has no time to study or work hard, he can only stay at home to do housework and take care of children. What is the use of being smart and capable?

Not only is he wasting his own time, but he also has to live his life according to other people's moods.

I am not saying this to tell you not to have children or get married! Rather, I am saying not to have too many children or get married too early. Too many children makes the mother suffer! People have limited time and energy!

We are lucky to come to China, and many lives have been rewritten.

The country provides free learning opportunities for everyone, so everyone must cherish it. Go to school, learn more, and go into politics!

Only when more women sit in high positions can we speak up for women and seek benefits for women!

It is very difficult for women to survive in a patriarchal society! I think everyone here should have a deep understanding of this!

Women's work has always been nine parts hardship and one part sweetness. Not only do they have to work many times harder and sweat more than men, but even after they succeed, they will still be doubted and envied.

Many women's achievements would be taken away by their husbands and attributed to them. This kind of thing is not uncommon in history.

Why is this so?

Because they have no strength and no say.

The country has given us a land to thrive and grow, and we must seize it.

It’s not for others, but for yourselves. You have to take your destiny into your own hands to live like a human being.

You don't have to believe my words completely now, just remember them. You can test their authenticity in your future life.

Why do you say that?

Because people need to have the ability to think independently and distinguish right from wrong!

It is necessary to have these abilities in order to avoid being indoctrinated with harmful ideas, being deceived, and being exploited by others.

I will stop here today, please feel free to discuss. Feel free to eat and drink tea and snacks, don’t waste them. "

For women who have been disempowered for too long, change does not happen overnight.

To change their minds, it requires long-term teaching and subtle influence.

What is the resistance behavior of women who have been disempowered for a long time?

For example: 1. Some women resist their husbands by taking care of the children themselves, doing all the housework, washing their husbands' clothes, cooking for them, washing their husbands' dishes after meals, and never looking at their husbands in a good light or paying any attention to them.

2. If you don’t want to have children, just soak your feet in ice water, which will harm your body!

3. Resistance to family elders means hunger strike, self-mutilation, suicide, etc.

Because they have been deprived of power, suppressed, and brainwashed for a long time, they cannot even resist in the most basic way, or in the right way.

I don’t know how to do things that are good for myself, and I don’t know how to use the right methods to gain benefits for myself.

Lin Zisu was brainstorming, and after thinking about it, she realized that this was not something that could be accomplished overnight.

This problem has not been solved in modern times, let alone here in the context of the ancient feudal system.

"Sister Shiso, this chicken steak is so delicious! What's this red sauce?"

Lin Zisu turned around and saw a cute 8-year-old girl with big, sparkling eyes and short hair that had just been cut to her ears. Her family had just moved to Qingxi Town about a month ago, and her name was Song Yaoyao.

Lin Zisu smiled and said, "This is jam, a kind of jam made from red fruit and sugar!"

Song Yaoyao dipped the chicken fillet in ketchup and stuffed it into her mouth. "It's so sour and sweet and delicious!"

"If it tastes good, eat more! Hehehe..." Lin Zisu couldn't help but rub the top of her head.

Li Qingqing came over, smiled and greeted Lin Zisu, then asked: "Miss Lin, getting married is so bad, if we don't get married and have children, then isn't that just like being a hairstylist?"

Lin Zisu laughed dumbly and shook her head, "I'm not asking women to comb their hair themselves. If everyone doesn't give birth, our country will be empty!

The topic we are discussing today is to let girls focus on themselves, study and work hard, and then consider marriage when conditions are ripe.

This is also the reason why the country sets the marriage age for men and women at 22. It is to ensure good eugenics and not to have too many children. Just one or two children is enough.

Don't spend all your time and energy on your family and children. There are so many things to learn and do in this world.

Moreover, under patriarchy, all the rules of marriage are in favor of men.”

Li Qingqing frowned and thought for a while, then said, "What should we do? Men only need a short while, but women need to get pregnant, give birth, breastfeed, and spend a lot of time raising a child."

Lin Zisu: "Although we want to have fewer children and raise them well, the country has been improving the marriage system to ensure the rights of women.

This is also what we say, women must study hard, go into politics, and sit in high positions, only then will they have a say.

Men in high positions do not make favorable rules for us women, and this has been the case for thousands of years.

It is beneficial to hold our destiny in our own hands! "

Li Qingqing smiled and nodded, "Yes! No one cares what we girls say. I will study hard and I want to control my own destiny!"

Lin Zisu raised the corner of her mouth and smiled: "Come on! You can do it! I just congratulated the intermediate class graduating girl, I remember your name!"

Li Qingqing: "Well, I will continue to study in the advanced class in July! My mother supports me very much!"

"Then I'll wait for the good news about your graduation from the advanced class!" Lin Zisu looked at the youthful, cheerful girl with light in her eyes. It was so nice!