Mom, I was wrong

The pain I feel now is just an involuntary reaction of my body.

Qin Zeying couldn't hold it in any longer, tears kept flowing down her cheeks, and she hugged Ange, "Wife, wife, you've worked so hard, we'll just have this one baby, no more, I'll get sterilized soon, it's all my fault.

It's all my fault. I made you suffer so much. I don't want a daughter anymore. A son is enough. I can't live without you."

After Chu Mengjun finished dealing with Ange, she dressed Ange, cleaned her up, and kicked her son.

"Stop howling, Ange is just tired. If you keep howling like this, people outside will think she's dead.

Hurry up and pack up, push Ange to the ward, and take good care of her. If I see you making Ange angry or upset in the future, you will see how I will punish you. "

Qin Xuan, William, Yiqing Yile and the Nangong sisters, Lanxi and Mr. Mo, who were waiting outside, watched the three children being carried out one after another, but Ange was slow to come out.

"Xiao Lanxi, is old man Gu in there? How is my apprentice in there?"

Lanxi shook her head and said to Grandpa Mo, "Grandpa, he went back to the mountain at dawn today and said he would be back in the evening after collecting two herbs.

I just called my grandfather. He is on his way back. "

At this time, Chu Mengjun came out following Ange's bed.

"Xiaojun, how is my apprentice? Did he suffer?" Old Master Mo asked Chu Mengjun while looking at An Ge who was sleeping on the bed.

Chu Mengjun looked at Mr. Mo's nervous expression and said to him, "Ange is fine. It's difficult to give birth to three babies naturally. Let Ange recover well later. Don't arrange so much schoolwork for her.

I will ask Master for some good herbs to replenish Qi and blood so that Ange can have a good restorative treatment.

Let’s go back to the ward first.”

When Mr. Mo heard that Ange was fine, he breathed a sigh of relief. He quickly took out his cell phone and called Mo Jiashun and Mo Jiaxuan, asking them to quickly send over the best medicinal herbs at home.

Xijing's Aunt Zhao and Xiaohua and Xiaohu's mother started the same process as before, but this time they did not let the old man and the old lady go first. Instead, they let the old man and the old lady have a good rest for a night, and drove a commercial vehicle and a truck the next day to bring all the things prepared at home.

Xiaohua's mother and Xiaohu's mother also went with them. One reason was to see the children, and the other was that the old man, the old lady and Aunt Zhao were all old, and they were worried, so Xiaohua and Xiaohu's father stayed behind to look after the Qin family's old house.

Yi Leqing and An Qingye on the high-speed train received news from Chu Mengjun that An Ge had safely given birth to triplets, and both mother and child were safe.

I also sent them some photos of my children.

An Qingye held a high-level meeting of the company directly on the high-speed rail and brought forward the decision made by the company's headquarters in Kyoto by two weeks.

At 3 o'clock in the afternoon, the two arrived at the hospital and saw Ange and the children who had just woken up.

"Mom and Dad, please sit down. Ange and the child just woke up and I just fed the child." Yingzi moved two chairs for Yi Leqing and An Qingye and placed them next to the bed.

Ange saw her parents coming and tears flowed uncontrollably.

Yi Leqing wiped Ange's tears with a piece of paper, "Don't cry, my girl. Crying during confinement is bad for your eyes. Besides, Yingzi and your parents-in-law are here. Dad just had a video conference on the high-speed train. From now on, we will move our company headquarters to Kyoto."

Ange nodded, "Mommy, I know, but I don't know why I'm crying."

Chu Mengjun and Qin Xuan came in with food at this time and saw Le Qing and An Qingye.

"Sister Le Qing, Brother An, you are here. Qin Xuan brought over millet porridge and chicken soup cooked by Xiao Hua and Xiao Hu. Did you eat on the way?"

Yi Leqing took the lunch box from Chu Mengyun and said that she had eaten it on the high-speed train.

Chu Mengjun looked at An Ge's tearful eyes, gently stroked An Ge's head, and said to everyone.

"Angel is in a vulnerable period both physically and mentally, especially mentally. She may cry for no reason, feel depressed, or even have a mental illness.

So all of us need to understand and tolerate this situation. One reason for this situation is the rapid drop in progesterone, and the other is the anxiety caused by the arrival of the child.

At this time, she may have some protective behavior, which is an instinct of us mammals, so we should not blame her for anything, we should understand. "

Chu Mengyun said to everyone in the room, "Because she gave birth to three children, she may have a more severe postpartum reaction than women who gave birth to one.

Ange, don't worry, these reactions will make your parents dislike you.

You are a filial and sensible child. This stage is temporary. You must speak out whatever is in your heart, or if something is not going well, you must tell us and let us know.

That way we all know what's going on.

Yingzi must give Ange spiritual support during this period, and don't let Ange feel that now that she has a child, everyone is paying attention to the child and no one cares about her. This is a very important cause of postpartum depression."

Everyone listened very seriously, but Yi Leqing still asked curiously, "Xiaojun, what do you mean by this cub-protecting behavior you just mentioned?"

Ange looked at her mother with curious eyes.

Chu Mengjun explained briefly, "After a puppy or kitten has given birth, if you take her away, will the puppy or kitten attack you?"

An Ge and Yi Leqing nodded.

"Yes, this is the behavior of mammals to protect their cubs. Humans may not do this kind of primitive behavior, but they will feel uncomfortable. If we are always worried that these children will disturb the mother's rest, and take the child away without discussing it with the mother, it will easily make the mother develop this kind of mentality. She will feel that you took my child away, why didn't you discuss it with me, why didn't you tell me, and she will develop an extreme mentality."

Ange and Yi Leqing nodded and understood.

Chu Mengyun only realized this after Miaomiao and Jinyan gave birth to their children. It is true that some women who have just given birth would have such thoughts. She didn’t pay much attention to it at the time, but later some of Jinyan and Miaomiao’s emotions made her notice it. Then she realized that she had to tell everyone about this matter.

Later, when the child was a hundred days old, this emotion gradually eased.

Ange also had a question in her mind, "Mom, when will my stress-induced mental state and the sudden drop in progesterone, which can cause psychological problems, get better?"

Chu Mengjun pressed the corner of the quilt for Ange and said, "Normally, it will be stable in one or two months, but for some people, it will not be stable for one or two years or even a lifetime. It's like the old saying that the grudges of confinement are the grudges of a lifetime. The big and small things that happened during confinement are more clearly remembered than the life and death that you have encountered.

Because this is the time when the mother is at her weakest and most powerless, so what she experiences will be unforgettable for her. "

After Chu Mengjun explained some of the psychological and physiological problems that An Ge would encounter during the confinement period, she also gave them some precautions.

The key point was to tell Yingzi, "At this stage of Ange's life, all of us are just supporting roles, and you as the husband are the main force, so you must shoulder the responsibilities of a husband and a father.

As for the group’s affairs, let the people below handle them if possible.”