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Chapter 39 Guiqin's Advice
She didn't notice it when they were talking and laughing, but when she thought about it carefully, Ruan Yu still felt that something was wrong.
If Sister Guiqin was such a shy person before, why is she so shy now...
"Sister, are you wondering, how come I, your sister-in-law, was so timid and shy before, but now I am so fierce and can tear a bitch apart with my bare hands?"
Seeing Ruan Yu lowering her eyes in thought, Sister Guiqin could easily guess what her little sister was thinking about. She did not shy away from it and directly brought it out in the open.
"I won't hide it from you. This person was actually forced into this situation." Sister Guiqin sighed, and seeing that Ruan Yu was listening to her seriously, she continued speaking and laid out her own past in front of Ruan Yu.
"If possible, who wouldn't want to do good to others and gain a good reputation? It's not that they were forced to that point and had no choice but to become evil people!
My sister-in-law also has many sisters in her family.
My parents wanted a son, so they gave birth to five sisters and me at once, and finally we had a younger brother.
Sons are treasures, but we girls are weeds.
Before my sister-in-law married into this family, she didn't even dare to speak loudly at her parents' home.
Why?
Afraid of being beaten!
I was also lucky that Shunzi's father liked me. My mother didn't hesitate at the time and spent ten yuan and ten kilograms of food coupons as a gift to marry me.
To be honest, when I first got married, I was just an individual.
Not to mention a dowry, there wasn't even a new piece of clothing.
But my mother didn't despise me. Not only did she not look down on me for being poor, she also took out money to buy cloth to make me a new dress to wear when I returned home.
But when I got home, my sister-in-law snatched my clothes away.
Then my mother told me that I shouldn’t be such a spineless person.
If we women want to live a good life, we must first stand up on our own! If we can't stand up straight, it's useless for anyone to support us!
Besides, those people in my family who said they would support me were just nice words to coax me!
If something really happens, I'm afraid they will run faster than anyone else!
After all, if he really loved me, why didn't he give me even a penny as a dowry when I got married?
Not only that, but you even want to take away the clothes that my mother-in-law gave me?
But at that time my brain seemed to be blocked by donkey dung and I couldn't hear anything.
I just think that they are my family, and I only do this because my family is too poor. When my family conditions get better, they will definitely remember the kindness I have shown them now.”
At this point, Sister Guiqin shook her head. Now looking back at her past thoughts, she really just found them ridiculous.
"When my mother saw that she couldn't persuade me, she stopped trying to persuade me.
I was so stupid at that time!
From time to time, she would bring things from her husband's house to her parents' house. Not to mention the rice and flour, there was also other things like malted milk that my mother-in-law left for me to nourish my body. I couldn't bear to drink them myself, so I took them back to honor my parents.
But later, those things all went into my brother and sister-in-law's stomachs.
The turning point came when I was pregnant with my first child.
It was the busy time of summer harvest at that time, and my mother asked someone to bring me a letter, saying that my father had suffered from heatstroke and was too busy at home, so she wanted me to go back to help.
I didn’t think much about it at the time and went back with my big belly.
I was exhausted for two days, and I didn't even have anything to eat. Later, the redness started, and my mother was very scared, but she didn't want to send me to the health center, and she was reluctant to spend money.
It was my mother-in-law who got the news and rushed over and took me to the health center, which saved Dabao and my life.
From that moment on, my sister-in-law finally figured it out!
That day, my sister-in-law paid off the life she owed to my parents.
My sister-in-law is still alive now, because we snatched her life back from the hands of the King of Hell! She has nothing to do with my parents anymore!
I made up my mind then.
I have to live for myself, for my man, for my children or for all those who care about me, live well!
You know what, this person has let go of things and his heart is open!
Once your heart is open, your days will slowly become more and more comfortable!
As for what other people say, that is their business. They have their own mouths. Can we stop them from saying anything they want?
Don't listen to those people's bullshit, saying that people like us are not like women!
But what should a woman be like?
Do I have to be submissive and work like a slave for the rest of my life? Not only does my brother from my mother's side suck my blood, but I also have to let my nephews and nieces come up to drink my blood?
Is that something wrong with my brain?
I can’t even take care of my own man and my own children, so why should I bother with those good-for-nothings?
My dear sister, please listen to my advice. Don't take your face so seriously in the future!
Don't worry about what others say about us.
After all, no matter how dissatisfied they are, we are in the kitchen boiling lard, chatting and smelling the fragrance, while they are still outside in the cold wind, hungry and freezing. Let them say whatever they want!
Let’s live our own lives well, eat meat when we should, and be happy when we should!
Just treat other people's nonsense as bullshit!"
"Sister-in-law, I think you are right!" Ruan Yu looked up and met Sister-in-law Guiqin's gaze, and nodded repeatedly without any objection.
Although Sister Guiqin did not say it explicitly, based on her understanding of Aunt Hongying, she should have told Sister Guiqin some things about her original body when she went to the city before.
Otherwise, Sister Guiqin would not have used herself as an example and said these words of advice to her at this moment.
“In fact, I used to have the same idea as you.
I thought that although everyone came from all over the world, they were all educated young people who wanted to train themselves.
When we arrive in such an unfamiliar environment, we are all comrades and should help each other.
But I never thought that my kindness would be taken for granted in the end.
So now I have figured it out, and from now on I will just live my life well!
Living a good life is the best revenge for those who have bullied me!
I just want them to see me happy every day, feeling jealous but helpless!
Angry at them!"
Ruan Yu's answer amused Sister Guiqin and also made Aunt Hongying, who had been worried, completely relax. She had always been worried that Ruan Yu would not let go of her companions at the educated youth camp. Now she was angry because she had been cheated when she entered the mountains. What if some time later, those female educated youth came to coax her again and she softened her heart? What should she do?
Now it seems that she can finally rest assured.
This kid seems to have really figured it out!
She then turned around, took out a penny from the apron pocket at her waist and handed it to Ruan Yu.
"Okay, there's nothing else for you to help with in the kitchen. Change your clothes and go to your Aunt Wang's house at the entrance of the village to buy me two pieces of tofu. And by the way, check to see if Xiao Xie and the others are back!
So that you don't look distracted all afternoon and burn the pot!"
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