Sweet love in military marriage, the educated youth who traveled through the book was spoiled by the

In this era, divorce is still a very shameful thing in remote small villages like Kaoshantun.

A divorced woman, no matter what the reason is, will more or less become the subject of gossip among others.

Some people even feel that it is a disgrace to the family or even the village, implicating their own family members and making their family members unable to hold their heads up.

"Will it be okay if we separate?"

Ruan Yu thought about it and did not respond immediately. Instead, she tried to discuss the follow-up of the matter with Aunt Guihua in front of her from another angle.

She did not express her opinion directly because sometimes, directly saying whether something is good or bad does not actually have much effect in giving advice.

To put it simply, it feels too didactic and doesn't bring about any empathy.

Especially for someone like Aunt Guihua, who has been indoctrinated and brainwashed by the people around her for a long time, if you suddenly put forward an idea that is different from those ideas, she will subconsciously reject it.

"I don't know, maybe it will get better."

Aunt Guihua actually couldn't be completely sure.

She pursed her lips and hesitated for a long time before speaking: "In fact, I have thought about this matter. To be honest, in the Du family, only the third son has a better future.

To be honest, among their family, only the eldest child is a little more down-to-earth and hardworking. The work points that the other children can earn in the team in a year are barely enough to provide for their own food and drink.

Basically, we rely on the allowance from the third child to supplement the family expenses.”

"So, it seems useless to split up the family." Ruan Yu spread her hands and said to Aunt Guihua with some regret: "The Du family has always taken advantage of Sister Liuye's husband, so it is naturally impossible for them to give it up.

But the current situation is that the way people eat is too ugly.

So, what do you and Sister Liuye think? Do you want to completely change the status quo, or do you want the other party to give in a little and give Sister Liuye a little room to live?"

In fact, if you look closely, Liu Ye's current situation is quite similar to her own.

Ruan Yu thought about the way her stepfather's family ate, and it was actually not much better than the Du family.

"If I can, I hope to completely change the current situation. Liu Ye is my daughter and I am her mother. Of course I want her life to be easier!"

Aunt Guihua spoke out her true intentions without even thinking twice.

If possible, who would want their daughter to stay in that wolf's den and suffer!

"So, aunt, what is your son-in-law's attitude?"

Ruan Yu thought about it and because she was not sure, she decided to ask one more question.

After all, her daughter-in-law and daughter are suffering so much at home. Even if her husband is away in the army, she should at least ask about the situation at home!

But judging from the current situation, he probably doesn't care too much.

However, just in case, Ruan Yu decided to ask a question.

"He is busy with military affairs, so he doesn't have much time to take care of family affairs."

Aunt Guihua's words basically confirmed Ruan Yu's guess. However, when she mentioned her son-in-law, Aunt Guihua's expression was somewhat contradictory.

To say that the son-in-law is not good, that doesn’t seem to be the case.

After all, from what my daughter said, her son-in-law is quite concerned about her when he comes back.

But she couldn't join the army, so there was nothing she could do about it, just spending a few days together!

and……

"Moreover, every time the son-in-law comes back, the family members behave very well, which makes Liu Ye feel like she has nothing to do at home.

So, some things are hard to say.”

There's nothing you can do about it; they do a good job of saving face.

If this is really revealed, where is the evidence? !

There is no such thing as installing surveillance cameras at home these days.

"I think you can let Sister Liu Ye take the child to the army to see her husband first." Ruan Yu thought for a moment before finally speaking slowly and suggesting in a low voice.

"Then no matter what, let Sister Liuye tell us everything about the family, her experiences over the years, her family's attitude towards her, and their attitude towards Danier, word for word.

See what her husband says and plans.

I think the most important thing here is to look at what Sister Liuye’s husband did.

If he also advised Sister Liuye to be patient, or tried to smooth things over, or planned to use excuses like filial piety, or a harmonious family brings prosperity, etc.

Aunt Guihua, I think it’s better for us to part ways amicably!

Although military marriages are protected now, do you think there will be any options for Sister Liu Ye if she continues to stay in this family?

It's just a hard life!

She has bled dry and suffered a lot now, but even if her husband returns home in glory in the future, do you think that if the people in her family look down on her because she is too old or has not given birth to a son, wouldn't Sister Liu Ye be even more pitiful?

It's time to withdraw now, even though others may gossip about it.

But, I remember godmother said before that you have an elder sister in Linshu River, which is half a day's drive from here. You can send Sister Liuye and Danier to live there for a while.

As time goes by, the impact of this incident will fade.

Anyway, I think that this life is yours to live, and the mouth is on others. If you treat your life badly for the sake of others' mouths, you are a fool.

Let’s not talk about far away things, just look at me.

If I really cared about those statements, I should have listened to my mother's instructions this time, helped her get her job back, helped her take care of her stepsister, and gave her money to supplement the household expenses.

After all, no matter what she did, she is still my mother.

But if I really did that, my life would be miserable! Wouldn't that mean I would have no hope in this life?

Rather than let this happen, I might as well just give it a go!

This way, even if others point fingers at me, it won’t stop me from closing the door and living my own life!”

"Yes, you are right. I was confused. I always thought that my Liu Ye had done nothing wrong and she should not have such a bad reputation."

Aunt Guihua looked at Ruan Yu for a long time before she nodded seriously, and as if something had suddenly dawned on her, she thanked Ruan Yu repeatedly, "Ah Yu, thank you.

If you hadn't said this today, I would still be confused.

This matter really cannot be delayed any longer.

And you are right, the crux of the whole matter lies with Du Qingshan.

If his attitude is wrong, then even if Liu Ye endures the separation, it will be meaningless! Those people from the Du family will still suck their blood.

By then, Liu Ye might really be tortured to death!

I will go back now and ask Liu Ye to prepare, and go to the army to find Du Qingshan and make things clear first!"