The story of the boss after retirement

"what?!"

Li Wei was stunned. Could this be the big event? Li Wei looked at Li Ma with wide eyes. Li Ma understood Li Wei's doubts and nodded with a smile.

"How can your major life event not be a major event? You are 26 years old this year and have never been in a relationship. You should find one. Your cousin had a second child when he was your age." The aunt began to bombard Li Wei.

There are two things that are very important to Li Wei: work and marriage. Now that Li Wei has made money from writing, Li's mother can no longer argue with Li Wei about work, so she starts talking about marriage.

Li Wei has been single since her birth, and her mother is worried. Her colleague's daughter is the same age as Li Wei and started dating two years ago. If she hadn't wanted to hide Li Wei's existence from her colleagues, she would have asked her colleagues to introduce her to someone else long ago.

Because Li Wei has a younger brother and her mother works in a state-owned enterprise, she can only have one child or she will lose her job. So her mother's colleagues never knew about Li Wei's existence. Li Wei was very sad when she was a child, but later she felt it was a good thing because this way, there would be fewer people concerned about her job search and marriage problems, and she was happy and relaxed.

The so-called concern may be sincere, but more often these people feel that they care about others and they have a great sense of accomplishment. These people never think from other people's perspectives. What they think is good may not be felt so by the parties involved. However, if the parties involved reject their kindness, they will become angry and continue to emit negative energy, which is terrible.

Everyone thinks about problems from his or her own perspective. Everyone has different ways of thinking and acceptance levels. Just like in big cities, no one says anything even if a girl is in her thirties or forties and doesn't get married. In small towns, relationships are complicated and if a brick falls, the two people hit may be from the same village.

Li Wei wanted her parents to respect her will. She always thought that she was not mature enough to date and get married. She had a pessimistic view on marriage, so she never paid much attention to it and just let everything go with the flow. Today, her aunt's words were very harsh to Li Wei's ears. In addition, Li's mother lied to her to come back, so she felt like she was stabbed in the back.

"First, I'm not 26, I'm only 25 this year. Second, fate finds itself. I don't need blind dates. I need to focus on my career now. Only when I am successful in my career will I consider personal issues." Li Wei tried to state her position seriously.

"I'm not against you writing. I just want you to go on a blind date. I'm dating someone who has very good conditions. He's a civil servant in our Municipal Supervision Bureau. His family owns a self-built house near Jiahe Square. His parents have pensions. He also bought a house in Yuhe Garden. He has a stable job. He's only three years older than you and is 1.75 meters tall, not short."

Mother Li is very satisfied with this blind date. He comes from a well-off family, owns a house and a car, and has a stable job. Mother Li feels that Li Wei's writing career is not secure, but she is reluctant to continue because her daughter is grown up and she can also make money. However, if her daughter's job is not secure, it would be fine if her son-in-law can provide security. In this way, the small family will not have to worry about anything.

"I even brought a photo with me. His father and your uncle are colleagues. They have a good family tradition and are very kind. You don't need to worry about you getting bullied. These acquaintances are the best."

My aunt chimed in, saying that she liked everyone to be harmonious and happy. Li Wei's job was unstable before, but she didn't say anything. She was also trying to find a job for Li Wei. Now that Li Wei was making money, she could consider her personal issues. If this girl was older, it would be difficult to choose. Now that she was of the right age, it was the best.

Li Wei was a little speechless. She felt that she couldn't win the argument with them, but she just didn't want to, especially the boys from her local area. She took a deep breath and asked, "Is he an only child?"

"He is an only child, so after you marry him, all the family property will be yours!" The aunt thought that Li Wei was worried about the property issue, so she added.

"Oh, I understand. I don't want to go on a blind date. I just came back and I'm tired. I'm going to go back and rest first." After saying that, Li Wei went back to her room. She didn't want to see or know what her aunt and mother said behind her back.

Li Wei doesn't want to get married, and she doesn't want to marry a local, because she doesn't want to have children at all. She is still a child herself, and she finds it unacceptable. Getting married means having children, and an only child means that the family has the need to continue the offspring. She also doesn't want to harm others, so it's better for her not to get to know him in the first place. It's fine for her to be single.

In fact, no matter whether the boy is an only child or not, Li Wei doesn't want to go on a blind date, because she has no need to fall in love at all. She is very happy and joyful. Why should she tie herself to another person? Even if it is just a blind date, she will think it is a waste of time. She might as well use the time to read more books and study her horoscope and personality.

As mentioned before, He County is a small county with traditional concepts. Families here basically want to give birth to boys to carry on the family line. Li Wei particularly hates these customs, and as a result, she doesn't want to get married or have children.

Li Wei's cousin got married and gave birth to three children in six years, just to have a boy. If the third child had not been a boy, she would have continued to have children. They would not abuse girls, and girls would also have good living conditions and care, but they must have a boy to inherit the family line. Li Wei thought it was ridiculous. Every time she heard others wishing her a son soon, she felt uneasy and could not accept it.

When she was a child, she would follow the adults' instructions to wish others a happy birth and a son. But when she grew up, Li Wei could no longer say such words. She would always wish others good health and good luck.

"I think I'm still young and I should spend all my time on myself, so I don't want a stable job because it takes up too much of my time. I want to experience the wonders of this world instead of being locked in a cage and spying on the wonders of others."

Li Wei complained to Wei Yu. She inexplicably felt that she could tell Wei Yu anything. She subconsciously trusted Wei Yu very much. This was magical. She felt that Wei Yu could completely understand her.

"I don't even want to work anymore, and I don't want to get married even more. First, I'm afraid of the pain of childbirth. And I'm still young, so I definitely can't just get married and have kids casually."

Li Wei believes that children should be born in mature love, and the two people who get married should have a solid economic foundation to ensure that they can provide a good life for their children. After all, poor couples have many sorrows, and frugality in life plus conflicts in the outside world will not make the family stable.

Having money alone is not enough. The two people who get married must have harmonious outlooks on life and love each other enough so that the children can grow up in love. This is a responsible marriage and responsible parents. If the parents are always cold and emotionally unstable, the children will only be spoiled and it will also add instability to society.

Li Wei believes in the existence of cause and effect, so the best choice for her is to consider these issues when she is mature. Not having children indiscriminately is the best way to accumulate merit. Giving birth but not raising them, or not loving them, is the greatest sin.

Unfortunately, Li Wei's family members don't understand her at all. They just think that when the time comes, she should get married, otherwise when she is older, it will be difficult for her to have children, and the possibilities of choice will be fewer. Men always like eighteen-year-olds.

Li Wei has never had any anxiety about age or fertility. She only focuses on her own growth. Now that she has hundreds of thousands of dollars in her hands, she is more confident and will not think about these issues anymore. What could be more comfortable than being alone?

"Then what do you do now?"

Of course Wei Yu knew all of Li Wei's thoughts, but what would Li Wei do when faced with her family's pressure to get married?

In her previous life, Li Wei had been resisting blind dates and had been single until she was 30 years old, but she had not met her destiny. Wei Yu was not sure whether she had a red line or not. It didn't matter whether she had one or not. Anyway, she would always be with Li Wei, and if she made Li Wei happy and happy, then Wei Yu would be happy and happy too.

"In fact, I have always wanted to study abroad, but I didn't have the money before, and I wasn't sure what I would like. Now I want to go to Taiwan to take a Chinese philosophy class."