Siheyuan, the opening gun is aimed at Yi Zhonghai

"But no matter how much we argued, your mother and I never said we wanted to separate."

"Husband and wife are like a pair of chopsticks. It is inevitable that there will be bumps and bruises in life. Although it may bring some unhappiness, is it still life without bumps and bruises? Therefore, the bumps between husband and wife are sometimes like small episodes in life. Getting used to each other and enhancing understanding is an important process in the relationship between husband and wife..."

"Who can guarantee that we will treat each other with respect all our lives?"

"People all have some small flaws that are hard to detect. It's normal for two people to dislike each other. For example, I snore when I sleep, and your mom can't stand any noise when she sleeps. Because of this, your mom and I have quarreled many times. There was even one time when your mom tied up my head with rags. I was so angry that I beat your mom severely."

He Yuzhu: "What happened next?"

He Daqing recalled, a sweet smile appeared on his old face, "Later..."

"Later, your mother ran back to her parents' home and called your eldest uncle, your second uncle, and your third uncle over. They beat me up severely. Hahaha, they even broke my arms. Only then did I stop."

He Yuzhu asked curiously, "Huh? Dad, I have an uncle, why haven't you told me about him?"

He Daqing sighed, "Alas, they are all gone."

He Yuzhu asked, "Why is it gone?"

He Daqing fell into reminiscence, "Which year... was 1937. That year, you were only two years old..."

Listening to He Daqing's narration, a picture of war and refugee slowly unfolded before He Yuzhu's eyes, with the whistling wind, the roar of artillery fire, the hysterical shouts, the helpless cries for help...

In a trance, He Yuzhu's soul traveled through time and space and returned to that chaotic era.

As He Daqing's recollections deepened, He Yuzhu's expression also changed, showing the complexity of that era, regret for his family's sacrifice, and relief that their family was still alive.

In He Yuzhu's memory, he also remembers such a period of escape, but it was not clear.

He Daqing's narration seemed to complete He Yuzhu's missing memories, allowing him to experience those difficult years again from a third-person perspective.

When they looked back, the father and son were already in tears.

He Daqing patted He Yuzhu's shoulder and said, "In fact, the biggest thing in life is life and death. When you understand this truth, you will find that the little friction between husband and wife is not worth mentioning at all. What's so hard to get over? Besides, you and Xiaoman have your own child. Isn't it more meaningful to raise the child slowly?"

He Yuzhu pursed his lips, slowly closed his eyes, and sighed deeply, "Dad, I understand."

He Daqing smiled with relief, "It's good that you understand. It's not a big deal. The conflicts between couples are just because of different living habits, communication methods, or different views on certain issues. They will cause friction between couples, but at the same time, they are also opportunities for both parties to understand, tolerate and grow with each other."

"When dealing with these bumps, it is important to stay calm, listen to the other person's thoughts and feelings with a rational and open mind, and find a solution acceptable to both parties through effective communication. This is the way to balance."

"At the same time, you must also learn to be tolerant and forgiving. Don't say hurtful words to your partner on impulse, and don't do anything radical on purpose. Because in this world, husband and wife are the most solid relationship. Whether it's your parents, children, brothers or friends, they can't accompany you to the end of your life. Only when husband and wife support and rely on each other and work together can they make it to the end."

"Remember, don't wait until you miss someone to regret not caring about them. Maybe... you will never meet someone as gentle and considerate as her again."

He Yuzhu stood up and said, "Dad, I'll go make you another pot of tea."

He Daqing looked at He Yuzhu with relief, "Zhuzi, remember, it doesn't matter what kind of tea you drink. What matters is that Dad can see you living happily."

"Tomorrow, go to Old Yang's house and bring Xiaoman back home. After a night of calming down, she should understand that what happened this morning was just a misunderstanding. You must be sincere in admitting your mistake. After all, this matter is also your fault."

"Let's not talk about Qin Jingru, let's talk about Qin Huairu. Dad is embarrassed to say anything to you. You both work in the same cafeteria. It's understandable to communicate with each other during work, but it's not okay to flirt with each other. What do you want Xiaoman to think? Where do you put her face?"

"So...how should I put it? Try to keep your distance from Qin Huairu in the future."

"And Qin Jingru, Qin Huairu's cousin, you have to use your brain too. Think about it, why are you inviting her to dinner for no reason? In the eyes of outsiders, it seems that you are interested in that girl. How can this not cause a conflict?"

"I also heard from your Aunt Guixiang that Xu Damao also misunderstood before."

"Actually, you should have kept your distance from Qin Jingru at that time. Think about it, if Xu Damao could misunderstand, how could your wife not misunderstand?"

"Zhou Zheng didn't care about your matter today!"

"Haha, reflect on this carefully. If it's all a misunderstanding as you said, Zhou Zheng has always been fair, so how could he ignore you? There is only one reason why he doesn't care about you, and that is that he doesn't know how to care about you. He can only ignore you to avoid complaints."

While He Daqing was talking, He Yuzhu made a new pot of tea and poured a new cup of tea for He Daqing.

He Daqing felt thirsty after talking so much, so he picked up the new tea and took a sip.

Since Zhou Zheng was mentioned, He Yuzhu felt a little aggrieved and complained: "Zhou Zheng is not nice enough. If he is willing to come forward, I think the misunderstanding will definitely be resolved."

He Daqing sneered, "Confused!"

He Yuzhu couldn't help but be stunned, "???"

He Daqing explained, "Zhou Zheng can take care of you if you have difficulties in life, work, or finances. And, Dad said that if you had a simple quarrel with Xiaoman this time, he would take care of you. But since you made such a mess, how did he take care of you? Did he tell Xiaoman that it was okay for Qin Jingru to stay in your room, or did he say that you should flirt with Qin Huairu?"

"Zhu Zi, you are not a child anymore, and your son will soon be able to go to school. Why can't you be more mature? Even if Dad doesn't tell you these truths, you should understand them!"

"We should not be ungrateful, nor should we go along with those worse than animals just because we live in this compound. We should always keep a clear head and consider the pros and cons before doing anything or speaking."

"If Dad remembers correctly, you used to bully Zhou Zheng a lot, but you stopped because you couldn't beat him. In this regard, Zhou Zheng has always repaid you with kindness. What qualifications do you have to say that he is not kind enough?"

"Let me put it this way. If I were in Zhou Zheng's position, regardless of whether I would help you time and time again, I would definitely give you a hard time whenever I could find a chance."

"People...are all struggling to survive in a sea of ​​suffering. Most of the people you meet are out to step on you. Those who can help you are your noble friends on your journey of life. You must cherish them..."