Traveling through time and space, wanting to lie down, but being forced to move forward

When Wu Sufen heard someone suggest finding a soldier for her daughter, she quickly shook her head and said, "Come on, I don't want to find a soldier for my Guiying."

She sighed, “It’s not that being a soldier is bad, there’s a monthly allowance, there’s an organization to help educate you, and your character is guaranteed.

But it is really not suitable for my Guiying.

Look at my third son. Since he joined the army, he can only go home once every two or three years.

I'm so old, and I still don't even have a partner.

If my daughter Guiying married a soldier, she would only see her husband once every two or three years. How would she live then? "

"My Guiying has a soft personality, nothing like me.

She simply couldn't support a family on her own; she needed someone to take the helm.

If I marry a soldier, I don’t know what life will be like without my husband by my side.”

Aunt Cuihua nodded in agreement, “Your Guiying is a little soft-hearted and has a very good temper, so she is easily bullied.

It’s better to marry someone closer so you can take care of her.

If she married far away, with her temper, if she was bullied by her mother-in-law, sisters-in-law, or younger sisters-in-law, I'm afraid she wouldn't even know to go home and complain."

Wu Sufen seemed to have found a soulmate, "Cuihua, you are absolutely right, this is exactly what I planned."

"Then why not just find a good young man in our village and marry Guiying to him.

This should be close enough. ”, someone suggested.

Wu Sufen shook her head, "It's not possible in our village.

Zhang is a common surname in our village, and we are all from the same clan.

Even people with other surnames in the village are more or less related through intermarriage over the years.

People of the same clan do not marry each other, this is a rule passed down by the older generation."

The aunties and aunties nodded in agreement.

“In this case, we can only look in the surrounding villages.

It’s not far from our village, just a few steps away.

Moreover, many of the brides who married into our village came from surrounding villages and are well-informed.

If there is anything happening with Guiying, you will get the news soon."

"So I'd like to trouble you all to help me find out if there are any good guys in the surrounding villages after you go back," Wu Sufen requested.

“Okay, that’s no problem.

We watched Guiying grow up, her appearance and character are beyond reproach, we must help her choose a good one."

On the next journey, everyone talked about the young men and women in the village who were of marriageable age.

An old lady saw Liu Jingxue and Zhang Yingchun sitting silently and became interested.

"Liu Zhiqing, Zhang Zhiqing, you are old enough to meet each other. Do you want your aunts or sisters to help you find your partner?

Let me tell you, there are still some good guys in our village, and they all work very efficiently.

They are all good men who have established their own households. "

As soon as she said this, someone next to her immediately agreed, "That's right.

Liu Zhiqing and Zhang Zhiqing, I am telling you, you are still young and you must not let anyone deceive you.

When looking for a partner, you still have to look for someone who can work and make a living, not just look at the person's appearance.

It looks good, but it can’t be eaten.”

A familiar lady nearby laughed and said, "Yuehua, don't talk about them. When you were young, you just stared at whether people were good-looking or not.

Otherwise, with so many people looking for a date, you wouldn't fall in love with your spouse at first sight.

Why, now I feel that being good-looking is useless, and I regret it. "

"Bah, what nonsense are you talking about, when did I ever regret it.

My wife is not only good-looking, but also good at work.

If other conditions are equal, I will definitely choose someone who looks better, because it makes me feel better." said the lady.

"Then why did you tell Liu Zhiqing and Zhang Zhiqing not to choose the one who looks good?"

The old lady retorted, “How can it be the same?

What I mean is that if other conditions are equal, you can choose someone who looks good, rather than just going for the face from the beginning. "

He turned to look at Liu Jingxue and Zhang Yingchun, "Liu Zhiqing, Zhang Zhiqing, don't be fooled by those pretty boys appointed by the educated youth.

They are so weak that they can hardly support themselves, let alone their wives and children.

This kind of person is not someone you can trust for life."

Aunt Sufen nodded in agreement, "Aunt Yuehua is telling the truth, some of the educated youth in the educated youth center are really not good people.

You two have just arrived, so don't be fooled by some people's sweet words.

We also don't want to point out who they are, for fear that we might be accused of destroying the unity among the educated youth.

When you go back, ask those old educated youth about it so that you can be prepared."

Liu Jingxue and Zhang Yingchun looked at each other and said, "Thank you for reminding me, Auntie. We know now."

"Let's not talk about those educated youths. Liu Zhiqing, Zhang Zhiqing, you two can tell us what kind of person you want to find. We can also give you some advice."

"Yes, we are all experienced people, and we have eaten more salt than you have eaten rice, so we can help you understand it.

Maybe we just happen to know each other, the other half you are looking for."

Hearing this, Liu Jingxue quickly shook her head, "Aunt, Auntie, I'm still young, only 16 years old this year, it's not time to think about these things now."

“16 years old is not too young.

It’s better to find a suitable one as soon as possible and settle down, otherwise the good guys will be picked up by others." said an aunt.

Suddenly, she felt someone pulling her clothes. She stopped talking and looked up. The person next to her shook his head and raised his fist at her.

The aunt came to her senses and realized that she was so excited that she forgot that this was a little girl with extraordinary strength.

What if she gets angry and punches me? I can't help it.

She smiled awkwardly, "You don't have to rush to find one. Liu Zhiqing is very capable and lives very well on his own. There's no need to rush to get married and take care of the whole family."

Aunt Cuihua said, "Xiaoxue is still young, there is no need to rush.

If we women can be reincarnated, we will be valued by our families and can relax more when we are at home.

If you get married, you will have to worry about the family affairs and you will never have a day off.

My daughter, like Sufen's Guiying, is under 18 years old, and I am not going to let her see a man."

"Cuihua is right.

For my Guiying, even if we have found a good match and decided to get married, I would not rush to let her get married right away.

It would be best if it were delayed for a year or so, so that she can relax for a while." Aunt Sufen said.

An auntie laughed and said, "Sufen, this is a good idea, but I'm afraid that young people may not be as successful as you wish.

When they fall in love with each other and want to get married quickly, can you stop them?"

Aunt Sufen also laughed, “If that’s the case, then I can’t be a bad person, I can only do as they wish.

As long as they have a good relationship and live a good life, anything is fine.

By then, Guiying will be married. If I miss her, I can go and see her."

"As mothers, we all hope for the best for our children.

As long as they live a happy life, we are willing to endure any hardship and fatigue."

The aunties and grandmas all laughed, and it seemed that these words touched their hearts.

"Liu Zhiqing is still young, so there is no need to rush to find him. What about you, Zhang Zhiqing? You shouldn't rush to find him either.

I remember you said last time that you are almost 18, and it’s time to meet someone.”

Liu Jingxue breathed a sigh of relief, finally she was passed over.

"I'm not in a hurry, my parents said they don't trust my judgment and told me not to rush to find a partner here.

They will plan for me.”

“From the looks of you, you’re also a favored person at home.

I guess your parents don't want you to go to the countryside, but they have no choice but to let you go because of the policy from above.

I guess they are trying to get you back to the city now.

It is really not appropriate for you to rush to find a partner now." Aunt Sufen said.