Eating melons and raising children in the period literature

"Well, since we are in this relationship, there are some things I want to make clear in advance to avoid any problems later."

Yang Qingqing was a little confused when she heard this. (Why is it just this relationship? What kind of relationship? I don’t understand. Is this person sick?)

Before Yang Qingqing could speak, she heard Zhuo Yi continue,

"I won't interfere with you giving money to your nephews and nieces and living with them. But I also hope that you won't interfere too much in my life in the future. Even if we are married, we should each have our own private space. Don't be too controlling of each other. I take personal privacy very seriously. And..."

"Stop! What nonsense are you talking about? This is only our second meeting! How did it come to the stage of marriage, privacy, and interfering with each other's lives? Even if we have just met, we are not yet at the stage of being a couple, right? If I have something and you have misunderstood me, I'm really sorry. I apologize and I will come out. I was just a little bored. I felt that the last chat with you was okay, but I didn't expect you to misunderstand me."

Now it was Zhuo Yi's turn to be dumbfounded. He had clearly asked his elder brother and the others before. If a lesbian agreed to a second date, it usually meant that she agreed to be a couple. Why was Yang Qingqing's case different?

Besides, this is not the second time they have met, this is the third time. Don't people say that if someone meets three times, they can discuss a meal?

Following the principle of asking questions when you don't understand, Zhuo Yi said, "Isn't this the third time we've met? You agreed to date me, doesn't that mean you have a crush on me? Then isn't it normal for us to be a couple?"

Hearing him say this, Yang Qingqing didn't know what to say for a moment. She felt that what they said seemed to be quite right, but Yang Qingqing really hadn't thought about it.

I don’t know if it’s because of the information gap, but at this moment Yang Qingqing felt like Wu Yu’s mother had opened the door for Wu Yu, and Wu Yu was home.

But she still had to explain it to others seriously, otherwise she would be labeled as a scumbag.

"Listen to my explanation! Although we have met three times, our understanding of each other is still very limited, am I right? We are looking for a lifelong partner, not a dinner partner, am I right?

And now the country doesn't advocate blind marriages anymore. We should raise our awareness. Do you understand what I'm saying?

From my personal perspective, I don't know you at all, and you don't know me either. We have met three times, but the total time is less than 10 hours.

Do you think what I said is true? How much do you know about me? Besides, I don’t have any feelings for you. I think you can be a good friend. Maybe I am not mature enough to be someone’s husband.”

Of course, Yang Qingqing said so much, the last sentence is the key point

Zhuo Yi thought it made sense, but it also seemed a little wrong. He couldn't figure it out after thinking about it.

So I could only nod and said, "So what are we now? What should I say if my family asks me about it?"

When Yang Qingqing heard him talk about his family, she thought of her second brother and his wife, and she felt a headache because she didn't know how to say

But she just talked about Zhuo Yi casually, since she wouldn't meet his family anyway.

"Just say it directly. We both feel that we need to get to know each other better and get used to each other. Of course, I think she is a good person now, but she is not a good match for me. I want to observe her for a while before making a decision." If you say this directly, your family will definitely not make things difficult for you.

Zhuo Yi thought it was a good idea, so he nodded and agreed.