The Pretty Military Wife
Chapter 240 Zou Wenqing's Anxiety
After picking the vegetables according to the required quantity on the order, they also picked some for the households in the air-conditioned courtyard to eat.
It was just dawn when Xiao Shun and Min Honglian drove into the county town.
Everyone returned home and started preparing for breakfast. Liang Xinyue told Sister Fu what they were going to do this morning and asked Sister Fu to keep an eye on it, as she still had to take care of the children for half a day.
After returning home, Aunt Li and I gave the three children a bath and changed them into clean clothes. The two kids were refreshed, ate some of their sister's porridge and rice soup, and then played with their mother on the bed.
Liang Xinyue began to tease the child.
Because today is Sunday, there are no classes today. So after dinner, Dongdong and the other children followed their mothers to the fields, leaving Teacher Zou a day to rest.
In addition, Teacher Zou also works in the fields most Sundays.
But today Teacher Zou did not come to the field. After breakfast, she came to Liang Xinyue carrying a bag.
The bag is also filled with wool, and she is learning to knit sweaters when she has nothing to do.
I brought a stool and sat beside the bed, watching Liang Xinyue playing with the three children on the bed. Little Jiajia walked around from time to time. The two little ones could only roll over, and if they were not wearing too many clothes, they could roll over very well. If they were wearing too many clothes, they would be like a ball.
Sometimes it can't roll over, and sometimes it rolls over and can't stop.
But now all three of them are in good spirits. Little Jiajia keeps calling "Mommy" and the two little ones also babble in response. I don't know what they are saying, but they are all very happy.
Zou Wenqing sat there, watching Liang Xinyue hugging this and that, and was so envious that he even forgot to knit the sweater in his hands.
Liang Xinyue turned around and saw her in a daze:
"Wenqing, what's wrong with you?"
Zou Wenqing's eyes suddenly turned red, and he choked up and said:
"Sister, I...we have been married for almost a year, why am I still not pregnant?"
Liang Xinyue looked at Zou Wenqing in surprise:
"Are you anxious?"
Zou Wenqing paused and said:
"He loves children very much. Whenever he comes to visit or sees your two little boys, he will hug them and won't let go."
Liang Xinyue: ...
It seemed that everyone in the yard would hold on to these two kids and not let go.
But you can’t brag about your own children.
Liang Xinyue looked at Zou Wenqing who was a little anxious and said:
"My two pregnancies were accidents. I didn't plan to have children so early. I was thinking of ways to avoid pregnancy. But I had just arrived here and was not familiar with the hospitals in the county."
"In the end, I didn't even take any measures, and I got pregnant. If I got pregnant, I had to give birth. I'm a go-with-the-flow person. I just didn't expect it would be two. Wenqing, you really can't rush this kind of thing. You can't take it too seriously. The more you rush, the more it will affect your body's endocrine system."
"Besides, Captain Gu's mother is a traditional Chinese medicine practitioner. When you go back home for the New Year, ask her to treat you accordingly. Some things really can't be blamed on us women. I heard that some of them are caused by men's infertility. It's not all women's fault."
Although Zou Wenqing is a college student, in this era, such matters between men and women are always covered with a fig leaf.
Some things can only be understood, not expressed in words.
Some women who fail to conceive after marriage are criticized by everyone, including their own family members.
Medicine was not well developed at that time and people still had old ideas, believing that being unable to have children was the woman's fault.
The only way for a woman to prove that she can have children is to get pregnant with another man's child.
But if you do this, even if it is a legitimate remarriage, you will be accused of being unfaithful.
Therefore, women have no way of proving whether they are really unable to conceive.
Many women died because of this.
Of course, Liang Xinyue couldn't say that, she just said to Zou Wenqing:
"Actually, you really don't have to rush. You are still young, enjoy two years of being alone together."
Liang Xinyue leaned close to Zou Wenqing's ear and said:
"Let alone other things, when two people are intimate, it is a happy thing without children, but after having children, I really don't have the energy to think about this. I am too tired every day to cheer up."
Zou Wenqing's face turned red all of a sudden.
Liang Xinyue laughed softly:
"Really? A couple is the one who spends their whole life together. The love between husband and wife is essential. With children, we women have to put in more effort."
"Relatively speaking, if you spend more time and energy on your children, you will spend less time on your man. If the man understands, it's fine. If he doesn't, there will be some estrangement between husband and wife."
Zou Wenqing blushed but whispered:
"Although we didn't go back, my mother wrote to me and asked if I was pregnant, but I was still a little worried about what would happen if I wasn't pregnant."
"He's the only son in their family, and my parents were afraid that if I didn't get pregnant, they would tell others."
Liang Xinyue didn't expect that such pressure would come from Zou Wenqing.
"Wenqing, this kind of thing is harder to happen the more stressful it is. You should just relax and live your life well. The most important thing is that you two are happy as a couple."
"There's really no rush when it comes to children."
Zou Wenqing hummed:
"I'm just a little worried."
Liang Xinyue patted her and said:
"I'm telling you, relax. If you still haven't gotten pregnant in five years, don't doubt your health. There's really nothing wrong with you now. Just be happy every day and take care of your body. It's more important."
"When the child comes, you will be ready to welcome him."
"And think about it, if the exam really comes in a few years, and you all return to the city, wouldn't it be better for the child to have a child then? Look at us in the mountains, what can we see every day with the child? We are so busy that we don't even have time to spend with the child."
"You grew up in the city, so you know that in the city, you can watch movies and so on. But after coming here, if you want to read a book, you have to go to the county town to borrow it from someone."
After Liang Xinyue said this, Zou Wenqing really figured it out:
"Yeah, that's right. We have libraries, parks, and movie theaters over there. It's really better for children."
Liang Xinyue smiled and said, "So, don't worry, just wait, the child will come."
As he was speaking, Jia Jia took two steps over and almost fell off the bed.
Liang Xinyue reached out and hugged the child:
"Look how naughty she is! You can see how tired Aunt Li is when we are not at home most of the time."
The two little ones were still lying on the bed and responding with "oh oh".
Liang Xinyue turned them over again.
Xiao Jiajia is going to get out of bed and walk.
Since the child learned how to walk, he wanted to walk by himself every day. He refused to let anyone lead him. He cried when he fell, and walked again after being coaxed.
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