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[In a sense, East Asian families are actually a story of strange rules]

[1. Family members are very friendly, but you cannot refuse any of their requests]

[2. Meals are absolutely safe, and anything can be paused by eating]

[3. Mobile phones are the source of evil, and prolonged contact will cause pollution]

4. When there is a dispute, don’t try to convince your parents, eat first.

[5. You should be successful, but you can't stray too far from home]

[6. No matter what your family members do, they love you]

[7. Hush. Keep quiet in the middle of the night, don't leave your room, and don't let anyone find out that you are still awake]

[8. If you have other brothers and sisters at home, please keep a close eye on them as instructed by your parents]

[9. Do not try to close the door during the day, even if it is normal, it can only be closed at night when sleeping]

[10. Parents are always right. Even if they are wrong, never point it out.]

[11. In the eyes of your family, every mistake you make is the beginning of your destruction. You should be perfect in front of your family.]

[12. You can stay close to your relatives and brothers, but at the same time treat them as the most dangerous people in the world]

[13. Appropriate games can be played, but only when parents are not watching]

[14. Filial piety is the highest standard, and all actions must not cross this red line]

[15. You can make some achievements in giving honor to your family, but you can’t be too comfortable, otherwise you will incur resentment from your family.]

[16. Getting married and having children can help calm your family members’ emotions]

[The above rules are misleading, please carefully identify them]

"My mom would come to my room at any time without telling me or take anything from me. The reason she gave was that this is her house so everything in it is hers. I just live here and I am hers too."

"17. If you apply to a bad school, your parents will be furious. If you apply to a prestigious school, your parents will be infinitely tolerant of you."

"Add one more thing:

When you order takeout at home, please check your delivery address carefully. It should not be your house number, but the carpet at the door of your house number. And check the notes strictly, "Don't knock on the door or shout, otherwise something terrible will happen."

I don’t feel a sense of belonging at home. Now I am working on my own and slowly replacing the things in my room with my own stuff. I really want to work quickly, earn my own income and then escape.”

"Also, parents will come into the room from time to time, please make sure that you are studying or doing housework when your parents come into the room. If your parents come into the room, please do not talk to them unless they take the initiative to talk until they leave the room."

"I was really touched by the idea of ​​locking the door. My father had a strong control over his children. He would often go to the window at any time of day or night to peek at what the children were doing, with only one eye showing. It was very scary.

He gets angry whenever I lock the door, which resulted in my door being broken for more than ten years without being repaired. My door must be kept wide open at any time of day or night. As a daughter, my father is not happy if I even close the door slightly when changing clothes in the room.

I didn't dare to go out to play. As soon as the door made a sound, he would jump out and ask where I was going. This made me more and more withdrawn. I really don't want to recall the negative impact of my father's strong control when I was growing up."

"If your family brings up grades at the dinner table, the meals are no longer completely safe. Please self-evaluate to decide whether to intervene."

"If you refute the words and actions of the parents, you can reduce the damage by trying to smooth things over. If you have strong language skills, you can also use sophistry to cause counterattack damage, but the premise is that the parents can be reasonable. If the parents are unreasonable and use sophistry, it will only cause greater harm to yourself."

Ancestors: What kind of weird rules are these? Isn't this normal?

Isn't it natural for children to listen to their parents? We have raised you to this age, so why have we committed any sin?

Besides, the reason we raise such an old man for you is so that you can get married, have children, and make achievements so that we old guys can enjoy the life!

My grandfather’s grandfather’s generation treated and raised me the same way, and am I not still living well now?

How come kids nowadays can’t stand even the slightest hardship and are so pretentious!

The more promising people in the village who passed the imperial examination: Oh! My parents are just like Tianmu.

When others are curious about whether I will be able to fly high in the future, only my parents care about whether my wings have grown strong enough?

I must not hide anything from them and must obey all their orders no matter whether they are unreasonable or not, otherwise I will be accused of being unfilial by my family!

Similarly, there are some open-minded parents in certain places who think that their methods of educating their children are too extreme, making their children more rebellious, and they decide to take some time to have a good communication with their children.

During the reign of Emperor Kangxi of the Qing Dynasty.

Yinreng, who was the crown prince, looked at the restrictive rules on the sky, as if he saw himself: My father loves me, but his strong desire for control is suffocating me step by step!

No matter what happens, as long as it goes against my father's wishes, his love for me and the rights he has given me will be immediately withdrawn like the tide.

Although I am the crown prince, I seem to have always been under the protection of my father and under his control. I want to escape but I don't know how.