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I even heard my younger sister say to her brother more than once, "Brother, you have to be nice to your sister-in-law. You should love your own wife. Even if you have children in the future, your wife will be the only one to accompany you until old age."

When children grow up, they will have their own families. You should not become estranged from your sister-in-law because of the children or other people.

Your spouse is the person with whom you spend the longest time, and the one who cares about you every day is also your wife. Just like us, we have grown up, and we can't always run to our parents' room every night to see what's going on, right?

That's the truth. A man who is good to his wife is a responsible man.

Look at our dad, isn’t he the same to our mom?

No matter how tired or hard it is, although he doesn't say sweet words, he will always care about his wife first. He will massage our mother's legs and shoulders at night. Isn't our father tired?

He is also tired, but he knows how to love his wife. You should also treat your sister-in-law in the same way. When a woman marries a man, she does not ask for how capable the man is, but just hopes to have a partner who understands her love and warmth and stays with her for the rest of her life.

Liking and loving someone are something that comes from being together for a long time. You can’t just say you like someone or love them as soon as you meet them.

If you like someone, it’s because you admire their appearance or they suit your own aesthetic taste. But if you love someone, it means that you understand each other and can feel the warmth. That is a manifestation of love.

Love is not something you say all day long, but you should also tell your sister-in-law more words about how much you like and love her.

Women like to hear their men say that they like and love themselves, which can also make women feel more secure and satisfied.

Don't learn from our father, who is a taciturn person and can only act rather than speak. Since you are his son, you must learn to do both what you say and what you act.

I overheard it that time. I almost laughed out loud and quickly went back to the house.

But in the evening, Han Hui started to tell me that he was indeed very happy at that time.

It turns out that actions and words can make the feelings between each other heat up more quickly.

Most of the time, my younger sister would order her brother to do this and that, of course, she was always doing things for me. As for household matters, it was almost always my mother-in-law who ordered Han Hui around, and my younger sister never asked her brother to do this or that.

Normally, if she can do something by herself, she will do it herself.

She asked her brother to serve me rice and pick up vegetables for me, and said that after I got used to it, I would think of my wife first when I eat. It wouldn't be an act, but an instinctive reaction of the body.

My younger sister said that this is called the natural formation of habits.

Being good to your wife requires gradual cultivation. No one understands these things when they are born. They are all accumulated over time.

After saying that, she laughed out loud: My younger sister said that she accumulated experience from watching her parents get along, and she felt that her father did something not good enough.

But she couldn't say anything about her father, so she wrote it down and asked her brother to make up for the imperfect side in the future, hahahaha.

Everyone burst into laughter when they heard this. With a sister like this, they really didn't know what to say.

But everyone can see that Xia Xue is really happy.

Her husband loves her, her parents-in-law dote on her, and even her sister-in-law is always trying to teach her brother how to treat his wife well.

In this way, when the whole family is pampering one person, even if that person is a new member, it will feel very warm and more happy.

Zheng Yuanyuan sighed and said: I dare not even think about what you said. My man listens to his sister. If his sister says that I am not good, he will also think that I am not good.

I don’t know how to get through this kind of life, it’s really tiring.

At this time, Zi Ling came in and saw that everyone was in a bad mood. She asked curiously: "What's wrong? Don't be like this during the New Year."

Xia Xue didn't know whether to tell her younger sister, but Zheng Yuanyuan immediately stopped talking.

After hearing this, Zi Ling was shocked and asked: Is Sun Sheng such a man? Why is Sun Qiaoyun like this?

What good will it do for her to separate you and her brother? You know, she is not young anymore, and she will get married soon.

Zheng Yuanyuan said helplessly: I don’t know why, how did I offend her?

Zi Ling was speechless. These people were like this, but it was not her place to meddle in other people's affairs.

I could only keep silent and change the subject: Sister-in-law, everything is ready, please come out for dinner.

When everyone heard this and looked at the sky, they realized it was already noon, so they quickly got up and prepared to go back.

Zi Ling smiled and said: You guys stay and eat. It's New Year's Day and we'll have to cook again when we go back.

Zheng Yuanyuan said: Then I'll go back, I have to cook when I get home.

Zi Ling didn't know what to say after hearing this. After all, they were all from the same village, and it would be inappropriate for her to keep them.

I could only send him out with Xia Xue.

After coming back, everyone went to the dining room. The female educated youth and Liu Zhilan came with their daughter-in-law and Zi Ling, and the male educated youth and Han Wei came with their son.

Everyone felt embarrassed, after all, it was so well prepared.

Liu Zhilan smiled and said: This is the first year that we have such delicious food, all made by Zi Ling. We couldn’t even imagine this before, after all, it’s the New Year.

What's more, it's Xia Xue's first year married into the family, so it's only right to prepare some delicious food.

Everyone, please eat quickly. Don't be polite. It will become awkward if you keep being polite.

Everyone smiled, thanked him, and sat down to start eating.

The dumplings are filled with meat, green onions, celery and cabbage.

Liu Zhilan smiled and said: I don’t know if you have any food restrictions. If you do, then try them one by one and see which one you like. I will serve you the filling you like later. Don’t be embarrassed.

Everyone smiled and said, "Thank you, Aunt Liu."

It was the same with Han Wei. Since they were all men, there was no need to pretend. They ate and drank to their heart's content.

The wines are all good wines, well, good wines of this era, Moutai is one of them, and it is also the most expensive.

This may be the most delicious New Year’s Eve dinner you have ever had in your life.

Of course, this is referring to the era of this era. If we wait until after the 20th century, the food will indeed be better than this, but we will not feel like celebrating the New Year in this way.

Of course, the New Year atmosphere in the 1970s was not the strongest. The strongest New Year atmosphere was in the 1980s, 1990s and 2000s. That was the time when the New Year atmosphere was the strongest and people felt that family and friendship were the most important.

For Zi Ling, these two eras are the ones that bring back the most nostalgic flavor.

Although the New Year atmosphere of the 1970s is still there, there are many things that cannot be done because there are too many restrictions.

It was only after the 1980s that visiting relatives and friends became common, and at that time people rode bicycles to places dozens of kilometers away.

Some even walk or take a car, but no matter how far they go, they will visit relatives and friends.

After lunch, the educated youth sat for a while and then went back.

Xia Xue packed some clothes for the young couple and put on the gold necklace, gold earrings, gold ring and gold bracelet.

Even if it is not allowed, nothing will be said about these things.

The other things were mailed to the post office there on the 29th of the lunar year.

They can just go and pick it up when they get off the bus tomorrow.

The next day, the family sent them on the train.

This was the first time Han Hui met his mother-in-law and father-in-law, and he was a little nervous.

Xia Xue said: "Why are you nervous? My family is similar to yours, don't be nervous, just be casual, it's just that my dad is more serious, but that's not to show his displeasure to anyone, it's because he's used to it."

If you ask him to laugh, his family might not be used to it.

You have seen my older brother and my younger brother, and what kind of people they are. My dad is a lot like my older brother, and he usually has a serious look on his face.

You'll get used to it. At first I thought he was a bad-tempered guy, and that's because being serious is required in the army.

Han Hui thought about it and nodded after hearing this: That's right, my brother-in-law and I are both very nice. Although my brother doesn't talk much, he is quite easy-going.

Maybe because I am younger, I am more lively.

After a four or five hour train ride, they arrived. The two men first hired a horse carriage to take out the things that had been mailed. There were quite a lot of things.

There are really three big bags, and it looks like they are for visiting relatives.

As soon as they entered the military compound, someone saw Xia Xue and said with a smile: Xiaoxue, you're back.

Xia Xue smiled and said: Happy New Year, Aunt Feng, this is my boyfriend Han Hui.

He then said to Han Hui: Aunt Feng's name is Feng Juan. She usually follows the troops in the army. She is the wife of Captain Jin, the Golden Xiangyu in the army.

Han Hui smiled and greeted: "Happy New Year, Aunt Feng."

Feng Juan smiled and said: I heard from your uncle that you went to the countryside as an educated youth and found a partner there. This is him. This guy is so handsome. You have a good taste.

There are few people in our compound who can compare to you. You just came back, right? Go back quickly, your parents are back.

Upon hearing this, Xia Xue and Han Hui smiled and said goodbye to Feng Juan, then got on the carriage and continued on their way back.

They met several elders from the compound on the way, and Xia Xue and Han Hui came down to greet them.

Everyone also saw the person Xia Xue was looking for. This young man was very good-looking and had a good figure. If you didn't know him, you would think he was a rich man from some wealthy family.

Although he does not have the solemn and murderous aura of a soldier, he still has a sense of momentum.

This is also thanks to Zi Ling, who took her brother to the mountains to practice martial arts when she had nothing to do at night. Now, although he can't beat ten people alone, even three or five is still very easy.

As for how he learned martial arts, of course he learned it secretly, otherwise how could he go up the mountain to hunt.

When asked who he learned from, he said that he learned from a hunter when he was a child. The hunter was also a soldier, but now he lives with his son in retirement.

I was able to get away with it this way, and said that I just practiced boxing when I had nothing to do, which was how I was able to lose weight so quickly.

The family members did not doubt it and even thought it was a good thing for their daughter to learn martial arts so that she would not be bullied.

Zi Ling added body-strengthening medicine to the family's meals, and after several months of training, it was no surprise that Han Hui had his own aura.