Ancient women awaken: loving yourself is the way to go

Shen Xingxi: “Furthermore, we need to find out the source of the depression. If the source is dispensable, don’t bother yourself with it.

Speaking of the source, I would like to say one more thing. People are often easily confused by superficial phenomena and disturbed by the words of others.

Let me give you an example. Suppose I am depressed because of a person named Xiaoyun.

Xiaoyun is the person my parents have taught me to respect since I was a child, but in fact, there are differences between Xiaoyun and me in behavior and moral concepts.

Although I know that my parents' teachings are not entirely correct, the accusation of being unfilial would make me unable to raise my head again.

In this situation, I would first think about what changes would happen in Xiaoyun's life if I didn't care about her?

What will I gain? What will I lose?

Can you get back the lost part by using a hypocritical way?

If most of them can be obtained, this source of depression will be unnecessary.”

The Queen picked up the teacup and thought carefully about Nanny Yan's words. The source was the Emperor, and Xiaoyun also referred to the Emperor.

If she didn't care about the emperor, she would neither reduce the number of times she slept with the emperor nor lose her position as queen. The worst case scenario was that the emperor would notice it and make him unhappy.

But she could pretend to be nice so that the emperor wouldn't notice.

So the emperor is a dispensable existence, why should she care?

When she didn't care about the emperor, she could live a leisurely life and live the way she wanted, just like she does now, without sulking about being deprived of his favor.

Combining what has been said before, it is not difficult for her to draw the conclusion: when the emperor is not concerned and the women in the harem are willing to help each other, the current situation where women revolve around men can be changed.

She couldn't help but look at Nanny Yan with a bit more confusion, she couldn't understand this theory.

Shen Xingxi smiled at the queen, "I know your majesty still has questions in your mind. I'm sure you will find a solution after listening to my lesson."

"Let's get back to the point. Let me first tell you the real purpose of having the ladies practice bench pull-ups and bench presses. Sleeping with the emperor also requires a certain amount of endurance. The emperor doesn't like people who only know how to lie down, and he also likes to see the ladies' reactions.

But the reality must be based on the emperor's feelings, right?

I think sex is like being a human being..."

She suddenly raised her voice: "If you don't love yourself, why do you think the other person will love you?"

The concubines shuddered at the sudden increase in Nanny Yan's voice, but this sentence seemed to be instilled into their minds.

The Queen was the first to react, "So I'm not being selfish, I'm doing this for my own love?"

After a pause, she reluctantly added, "So that the emperor can appreciate me more."

Shen Xingxi curved her eyebrows and said, "Your Majesty is right, that's why I asked you ladies at the beginning where you felt it."

"Sex is always about mutual achievement! From what I know about men, their sensitive parts are usually... It's fun to watch a man become more and more unable to control himself due to being touched, and vice versa, the man will also find it interesting when he sees it."

"Ladies, maybe you understand what I'm saying?"

The Queen thought about it for a moment and couldn't help but get excited!

When you turn passivity into initiative, it is also a pleasure to watch the emperor's expression of wanting more!

So Nanny Yan asked them to exercise so that they could last longer on it!

When you no longer care about the emperor and your mentality changes to treating the emperor as a bedfellow, it is equivalent to changing the status quo!

When the concubines in the harem help each other, do not compete for favors, and all treat the emperor as their bedfellows, then it is the emperor who is being played with!

It turns out that they were the ones who bound them!

Shen Xingxi narrowed her beautiful eyes and took in everyone's expressions. "It seems that not everyone can understand. Then I would like to ask the Queen and the Imperial Concubine to set an example and help the ladies to solve their doubts."

The Queen and the Imperial Concubine smiled helplessly. If they wanted harmony in the harem, they had to take action. Nanny Yan was plotting against them again.

But what is rare is that they do not object to this kind of calculation.

Just like Nanny Yan said, if women don’t help other women, how can we expect men to help us?

The two looked at each other, and the heavy atmosphere from before was gone.

They have no control over who the emperor chooses to sleep with or who he promotes to a higher position. Instead of sulking over unnecessary face and unnecessary fear, they might as well work together to make their living environment more comfortable.

After all, loving your own life is a blissfully addictive thing.

The system laughed and said: [Congratulations, host! You really made the concubine want to play with the emperor! ]

[Hahaha, I hope that one day I can say this directly without having to go around in circles.]

[Host, when everyone knows how to enjoy themselves, they will take the initiative to adjust their mindset, and what you hope for will definitely come true! ]

【Then I will borrow the good words from Little Star. 】

The system covered its hot face. Why did it blush every time the host called her "Little Star"?

Shen Xingxi picked up a charcoal pencil and drew a simple human figure on the slate.

"Next, let me tell you in detail how to make a man unable to stop."

"Look at the two symmetrical sides. If you have a strong tolerance, you can increase the force. Here, as long as you control the force, there will be no marks left. This is the most likely place for people to lose their minds. Some people may even beg for mercy..."

The palace concubines blushed when they heard this, and they couldn't help but prick up their ears to listen.

In her mind, she imagined that the emperor couldn't stop being aroused by their actions and begged them...

They all raised their teacups to cover their burning hearts.

The seeds planted before have taken root and sprouted. As the emperor's status in their hearts gradually declines, and as they begin to think for themselves, everything becomes natural.

After this class, Shen Xingxi did not leave any homework. After all, there would be major changes in the palace, and the next class was bound to be postponed.

The queen and the imperial concubine called Shen Xingxi into a palace alone.

The queen raised her chin slightly, emitting a cold and noble aura that was intimidating.

However, the blush on her face and the slightly awkward look on her face made people feel friendly.

She picked up the teacup and said casually, "Madame Yan, since you are thinking about me, I will not pursue the matter of you plotting against me, but I want a solution that can treat both the symptoms and the root cause.

Changing our mindset can only make life more comfortable, but it cannot change the status quo.

As the most powerful woman in the world, I have the responsibility to change the current situation. Can you think of a solution?"

Shen Xingxi lowered her eyes to hide her emotions. She didn't dare to bet on people's hearts. To admit it now would be tantamount to admitting that she had instigated the concubine in the name of class.

"You can't even guess what the Queen is talking about, so how can I know?"

The Queen was so angry that she picked up the teacup and wanted to throw it at Nanny Yan. This answer clearly showed that she didn't believe her!

The imperial concubine changed her words: "Madame Yan, your lessons these days have satisfied me, so I decided to reward you. Do you want anything?"

The Queen finally put down the teacup and looked at Nanny Yan with a helpless look in her eyes: "Okay, I will reward you as well. Just tell me what you want."

Shen Xingxi closed her eyes and said, "Your Highness the Queen and Your Highness the Imperial Concubine, I have nothing to ask for now."

The queen held her forehead with her hand in pain. Why was this man so wary?

Unexpectedly, Nanny Yan's next words were: "If you need anything in the future, you ladies must remember your promise. I take it seriously. And I will say something that shouldn't be said. If the two ladies join forces, they may be afraid."

Now the overall situation is more important, she can only save the imperial concubine and deal with the future later.

The Queen and the Imperial Concubine looked at each other with serious expressions.

Did the Emperor promote Concubine De to Imperial Concubine because he noticed that the two of them had changed their previous targeting of each other?

Then there must be someone from the emperor in their palace.

After all, they still appear to dislike each other.

The Queen nodded and promised: "My words are always valid. Nanny Yan, you can think it over before you speak. Nanny Yan is also tired today, so please leave first."

The imperial concubine watched Nanny Yan bow and leave, and raised her eyebrows: "Empress, shall we have a fight?"

The Queen said calmly: "Gentleman's agreement, no slapping in the face."

"Who wants to be slapped in the face? Of course I'll grab your hair!"

The news of the fight between the Queen and the Imperial Concubine spread throughout the harem in no time. It was said that the Queen was in the most miserable state she had ever been in, with her hair disheveled and her clothes torn.

The imperial concubine was even more miserable, she was carried back to her bedroom by palace maids.

Afterwards, the two of them cried to the emperor and asked him to make the decision for them.

Of course, she did not forget to "please" him, and specifically instructed the palace servants to ask the imperial kitchen for some of the emperor's favorite supplements and send them over.

The emperor's deep eyes flashed with disdain, and he ordered calmly: "Take two pieces of jewelry from my private storehouse and send them over one after another."

The imperial concubine got the jewels first and immediately had them carried to the queen's palace to show off.

The Queen also cooperated in the acting and inadvertently let the Royal Concubine see the Emperor's reward.

It is worth mentioning that the two would quarrel every time they met, and would drive the servants out in the middle of the quarrel.

After all, they can't be caught laughing!

Shen Xingxi was unaware of all this. After lunch, she entered the East Palace as Mr. Shen.

The prince had been waiting in the study for a long time. When he saw Mr. Shen, he couldn't wait to raise the box in his hand and said, "Mr. Shen, this is a new item I got. Do you like it?"

Seeing that the prince was not showing his courtesy, Prince Yun took the box and said, "Is this a novelty item that the prince found for me to give to Mr. Shen? The prince really cares about Yun's affairs."

The corners of his lips raised up an imperceptible arc. No matter what the prince said, he had a way to make the prince admit that this was a gift from him to the princess!

Unexpectedly, the prince pursed his lips and said, "It's the same if you send it."