Ancient women awaken: loving yourself is the way to go

However, since he was teaching under the banner of the Crown Prince, Prince Yun could only stand there expressionless and let others watch.

【Considering that there are some sentient beings who cannot read, they will hear the sound of the words being read when they see the golden characters, so please lower the volume when you discuss.】

Everyone present suddenly lowered their voices. The ancients believed in ghosts and gods, and also respected the emperor, so they dared not disobey.

Prince Yun closed his eyes, as if driven by divine power, but in fact he didn't want to face the scene of everyone looking at his forehead.

[The first lesson is about how a woman can please her husband.]

[If a woman wants more favor, she must please her husband, but pleasing him requires methods and giving him what he likes.

For example, if the soup I cooked for several hours is not as delicious as the one cooked by others, my husband will only appreciate and be touched, but it is difficult to guarantee that he will not be disgusted if he drinks too much.

For example, the clothes I embroidered myself...】

The ladies who were distributing porridge handed the big spoons to the servants beside them to hide their inner anxiety.

They never thought that their husbands would dislike the soup that had been simmered for hours, but to be fair, they would dislike it if it didn't suit their taste.

At this time, a man quietly complained to the person next to him: "That's true. It tastes so-so, but I still have to drink it and praise it."

The man next to him nodded in agreement: "And the clothes they make, the embroidery patterns are always the same. I feel inferior when I wear them."

The ladies clenched the handkerchiefs in their hands to hide the sadness in their hearts. It turns out that their efforts are self-touching, but can also become a burden?

[Most men like the unattainable, the unique, the unexpected. No matter how popular a person is in the boudoir, it will become easy to get after getting married. Don't talk about how popular you were in the past. If you marry him, you should devote your life to him.]

The men nodded in approval. What a great point!

"I really want to show my wife that she always brings up the past. If she marries me, she is my person and should devote herself to me."

"Indeed, if I divorce her, how can she still live well? It is her blessing that I am willing to support her forever, but she is so ungrateful all day long that she quarrels with me when she takes a concubine, quarrels with me when she goes out to drink, and even quarrels with me when she goes to a brothel, and I didn't bring her home."

All the women present looked embarrassed. Why?

But the cruelty of reality is like a sharp knife. If they are divorced, their parents' family will accept them if they are lucky, but they will also be criticized by the world. Those who are unlucky can only live a life of seclusion.

The resentment arises from the bottom of my heart, reaching its climax in the next sentence.

[Women should be grateful and remember their parents' grace in raising them for more than ten years. They should accept family marriages and fight for the family's interests. Later, they should take concubines for their husbands, win their husbands' favors, and take care of their children. They should not think about themselves, which is too selfish.]

Many women couldn't help but shed tears for their tragic fate.

Suddenly I realized how depressing the seven grounds for divorce that they had memorized by heart were: disobeying parents, being childless, adultery, jealousy, having a serious illness, talking too much, and stealing.

They thought about their own experiences with amusement. They had to endure being beaten and scolded by their parents-in-law; they would be criticized if they could not give birth to a son; they were jealous if they did not want their husbands to take concubines; they were married to their husbands with no guilt and even if they got a serious illness just to take care of the family, they would still be divorced.

It is really difficult to be a woman in this world.

It is indeed as Jin Zi said, they live their lives for their parents, husbands, and children. Living for themselves is selfish!

But what can they do? What else can they do but accept their fate?

However, the men's comments were like needles piercing their hearts, making them feel so painful that they couldn't breathe.

"I suddenly remembered that when I took a concubine, my wife refused to agree. Now I think she was selfish and was afraid that I would no longer value her and fall out of favor."

"This is indeed selfish. It is normal for men to take concubines. We give them the status of wives, which shows how much we value them. If they only know how to compete for favors every day and the backyard is in chaos, I don't want to go back."

"Why should women be selfish? Isn't it your duty to eat our food, live in our house, and take care of the family? If I could stay at home every day and have someone give me money to spend, I would definitely live a good life."

The women almost tore their handkerchiefs into pieces while taking care of their parents, carrying a baby for ten months, taking care of the children, managing the family business, helping their husbands prepare gifts and handle interpersonal relationships, saving money for their husbands, and providing food, clothing, housing and transportation for the family... Which one is easy?

I spent all my energy and got my face turned pale, only to be told: I stay at home every day.

The woman present couldn't hold back her tears and burst into tears, "I once didn't prepare dinner on time, and my husband accused me of being too lazy to even cook a meal at home all day.

But I fetch water, wash clothes, cook, clean the house, take care of the newborn baby, and I have to hold the baby when he cries. I really try my best to coax the baby and cook, but I only get complaints in return. If I explain, I only get one sentence: You use these trivial things as excuses all day long. "

Many women present felt sympathy, grief, anger, sadness and helplessness.

The man next to him sneered, "What's so difficult about all this? Making money is hard. You just have too little experience, so you think life is hard. Remember what I said, we men are out there protecting you from the wind and rain, and we just do some housework. Why do you complain all day long?"

The women can only swallow the bitterness silently, as reality does not allow them to bow their heads.

But they all opened their eyes wide and stared at Jin Zi angrily, wanting to see what else this damn Jin Zi would say that would reduce them to dust.

Prince Yun listened to everyone's discussion and couldn't help but open his eyes. Then he saw so many women with red eyes, staring at him as if they wanted to eat him, and he immediately closed his eyes.

I have to admit that he, who has never been bothered by external things, would find it scary...

[Let's get back to the topic and continue talking about how to please others. If men were willing to marry you in the first place, it must be because you have something attractive to them. If you disappear now, it is because you do not meet this requirement. After a long time, people will not feel that you are different from others.

If you want to please someone, you have to have means. Keep in mind what you can't get, what you want to be different, and what you want to be unexpected. I believe everyone can come up with a way.

Finally, I would like to send you a blessing! I wish you all good luck every year and happiness every year. In the next class, I will teach you how to win favor. We will meet again. 】

The women couldn't help but find it ridiculous. How could one be happy and content every year if he lived for others but not for himself?

But someone suddenly repeated: "Unobtainable, unexpected, and unique."

The women were stunned. Was it unexpected and unique to make the dish specially salty?

Will it make your husband feel better if he eats it and feels miserable?

Even if their husbands blame them, they can blame it on Jin Zi, saying that men like unexpected things and they just want to please them!

Are there people who complain that they don't have enough embroidery patterns? Then does embroidering ugly patterns count as being different?

With so many people sending me clothes, I think you will be remembered if you are different enough, right?