The capital is a melon field, I happily eat melons

Lin Mo took the dried meat and chewed it vigorously. It tasted so delicious.

"This meat jerky was made for me by my son Xiaobai. It was really taught by my mother. Would you two like to try it?"

Lin Mo found two pieces of money of moderate size from his small purse and stuffed them into the two men.

Bai Xiao was a little dissatisfied. [I only made a little for you, why did you share it with others? Do you know that jerky is difficult to make? ]

Lin Mo: [Oh, don't be so stingy. There's still a lot at home. Just make some more when you get home. Make me more of the spicy flavor.]

Bai Xiao is now very good at making snacks. Although he is not very good at cooking, he has a talent for making various snacks.

Maybe God closed a door for him but left a window for him. If he cooks, it depends on God's will. Maybe the food tastes good today, but it may not taste the same next time.

Listening to the conversation between the two men, the woman looked at the dried meat in her hand with a dazed expression.

She had never eaten anything her husband cooked for her. People talked about the joys of the boudoir, but she had never enjoyed them.

Since she got married, she has been serving her husband. Her husband's family has strict rules, and she has to follow them at all times and cannot make the slightest mistake.

Moreover, it took a long time to get a chance to come to the Mountain Resort this time. After all, there are many sisters-in-law in the family, and it is impossible for every one of them to come, so everyone tried their best to perform in front of the elders.

Everyone said that she married into a wealthy family and was valued by her husband's family, so she was a blessed person.

Her husband's family values ​​her husband so much that they ask him to serve and take care of him. Even though there are maids in the house, they still let her take care of her husband personally.

Lin Mo had a nice chat with the other lady, and he even shared with her his own tips for making snacks.

Although she couldn't do it, she had seen many people do it. "Sister, your husband is a good one. Just let nature take its course when it comes to having a child. There's no need to rush."

"After that, pregnancy is also related to your mood. If you are too anxious, you may not get pregnant. Just relax and take it slow."

Bai Xiao: [That’s right, sometimes psychological reasons are also very important.]

The younger woman smiled happily upon hearing these words, "I think the same thing. Sometimes it's just not meant to be. Besides, I've only been married for a short time, so I'm not worried about him taking in any concubines. No matter if they are concubines or maids, the children they give birth to are nominally my children and they all need to be raised in my presence."

"You're right. I can get along with him, but I won't keep putting myself down because of him. You have to live your own life. You still have a long life ahead of you. You can't keep suppressing yourself. I just need to be a good wife."

There are also many ladies in the capital who have never given birth to children. They even take the initiative to take concubines for their husbands. It is definitely not that they love their husbands very much. Most of them are unions between two families, and two people get together because they like each other.

If it is true love, then one might hope to have a child, but if the relationship has not reached that level and there is no need to use a child to consolidate one's position, then the child is dispensable. After all, those illegitimate sons and daughters were raised by the main mother herself, so it's the same.

For women, childbirth is a hurdle. Some are luckier and some are less lucky.

The timid ladies let others take the risk. After the concubine gave birth to a child, the child was raised by the principal wife, because the principal wife had the highest status anyway.

Be kind to your concubines and their children, and they will remember your kindness. The children you raise are actually no different from your own. It all depends on how you educate them.

When Lin Mo heard these words, he praised in his heart: [Look, this is the mentality of others. What a good mentality. ]

Bai Xiao: [This lady has always been quite sober, and her husband is a pretty good person, and he really loves her now.]

Lin Mo grasped a key word: [Now? Do you mean he will change his mind in the future? ]

When the young woman heard this, her face showed no expression at all, she looked very calm.

Everyone says that she and her husband are deeply in love and that they are in love with each other. It is true that they are in love with each other, but forget about their deep love.

The person she loves the most is herself, and the person her husband loves the most is not her. Her husband does not have a favorite woman. As a man, he loves so many things, but what he loves the most is his career.

Bai Xiao replied: [Who can say so absolutely about emotional matters? They themselves know how deep their feelings are. This couple can be said to be in harmony with each other, but they are not yet in love enough to stay together through life and death. They know this in their hearts.]

Yes, both parties are basically clear about emotional matters.

Some people take feelings more seriously, while for some people, feelings are just icing on the cake. It all depends on how one understands it.

After sitting here for a while, Lin Mo felt bored, so he left after saying hello briefly.

After Lin Mo left, the two women had nothing more to say and left soon after.

I don’t know what kind of impact these words today will have on that woman’s psychology, but at least it can make her sober up a little.

A good girl will lose all her status and position when she marries into another family. People say nice things to coax you and say that they value you, but in fact, they don’t take you seriously at all.

There are maids and servants in the house, but you are still asked to do everything by yourself. This is not called respect, but torture.

Lin Mo took Bai Xiao for a walk around here, greeted everyone he saw, and picked some flowers to make a wreath.

In her words, if these flowers are not picked now, they will wither soon.

Bai Xiao: "When the other girls see these flowers, they take good care of them and let them grow on their branches without picking them off. Why are you different from others?"

Lin Mo said confidently with flowers on his head: "Why should I be like others? I don't have their delicate feelings. I want to have them because I think they are beautiful. It is also a kind of beauty to weave them into a wreath and wear it on my head."

Bai Xiao: "Don't you think this is a kind of destruction of life?"

Lin Mo: "You can't say that. Flowers are life, and so are the chickens, ducks, fish and meat we eat. They are grown by ourselves. Picking one or two flowers doesn't mean we have to dig up their roots. Behavior and actions should be done in moderation. Don't always limit yourself. If you think too much, it will affect your mood."

If you think that whatever you eat is life and whatever you play is life, then isn't this just making things difficult for yourself?

Lin Mo had worked hard in his previous life, so he didn't want to think so much in this life. It was enough for him to be happy in this life. He just had to be moderate in his behavior and not overdo it. As for the rest, it was fine.

Seeing Lin Mo's heartless look, Bai Xiao smiled helplessly and patted her head, "You are right, let's go and make you a flower cake."