The Buddhist lady travels through ancient times to live a leisurely life

There is an iron rule in the parenting world that has been passed down for thousands of years, "If you want your child to be safe, keep him three parts hungry and cold." It means exactly what it says: don't cover him up or keep him fed, and the child will not get sick easily.

After playing with him for a while, Mu Sheng and Yun Xi went back. The child became more and more energetic as he played, and he couldn't fall asleep for a while, so there was no need to worry about the problem of indigestion.

Next, the nurse needs to work hard to coax the sleepyhead back.

Before leaving, Yun Xi reminded the wet nurse not to let the child sleep too late.

This is how it works with children. If a child eats too much, parents need to find ways to get him to eat less. If a child eats too little, parents need to find ways to get him to eat more. The same is true for sleeping. If a child refuses to sleep, parents try their best to coax him to sleep. If he sleeps too much, parents may need to find ways to wake him up.

Endless heart.

Is it okay not to worry? Actually, it is possible to give the child the autonomy and let him make his own decisions. After all, the child is just young, not stupid.

But most parents cannot do this. Even in later generations, there are very few parents who can truly raise their children in a Buddhist way, and various anxiety disorders emerge one after another.

[The more extreme situation is this]

A mother asked the doctor: My child is just one month old. A few days ago, when he was sleeping, I used a magnifying glass to find a small golden hair under his armpit. Could this be a problem?

Doctor: This should be fine.

The mother asked again: There is a very small mole on the sole of his foot, which can only be seen with a magnifying glass. Is there a possibility that it will get worse?

Doctor: You really think too much.

The mother said: I'm sorry, maybe I was too nervous. I turned over his lower eyelid and looked with a magnifying glass and saw a small bloodshot. Is there anything I can do?

The doctor couldn't stand it anymore and said: Can you throw away your magnifying glass?

This case went viral online, and netizens almost died of laughter.

Although it is funny, it is also sad and helpless. It gives us a glimpse into the level of anxiety of parents.

Yun Xi certainly doesn't have anxiety about raising children, but she still has to take some responsibility for the child's basic health, especially since Mu Jinyan is her stepson and her identity is somewhat sensitive.

When they walked back to the courtyard, Mu Sheng was worried that she was tired today, so he squatted in front of her and said, "Come on, I'll carry you back."

Although Yun Xi didn't feel tired, she would not refuse Mu Sheng's kindness and happily lay on his back.

Mu Sheng said: "If you feel tired, just let others do the work. Just like when you were walking with Ah Yan just now, you could just tell me to walk with him, or let the nanny walk with him, you don't have to do it yourself."

"But Ayan wants me to play with him."

"If he asks you to accompany him, you accompany him? You accompany him even when you are tired? Are you stupid? If you are tired, just tell him that you are tired and you can play with him later. Ah Yan is not the kind of child who doesn't understand. He won't make a fuss. You also have to take care of your body. You can't make yourself uncomfortable just to make him happy."

"I know."

She was also touched by the image of Mu Jinyan sitting at the door waiting for her, and felt a little soft-hearted towards the child.

Mu Sheng explained: "I'm not saying that what you did was wrong, you did very well, I just don't want you to work too hard."

He was very happy that Xixi was willing to care for and love Ayan.

"I see."

Yun Xi leaned forward and saw Mu Sheng's upturned mouth. She thought about it and probably understood why he was in such a good mood.