Others are fleeing famine, but I am a salted fish

Chen was always impetuous and straightforward, and she would give the greatest respect to men within a certain range. However, the head of the village had worried about the villagers for so many times, suffered so many injustices, and been scolded in front of and stabbed in the back by so many people since he fled from famine.

But what about this man? He is stubborn, like a stubborn bull who won't turn back until he hits the wall.

The family has reminded him many times that he should not worry so much about those ungrateful people. Why should he bother?

People become village officials for fame and fortune; when you become a village official, you want to worship every family and treat them like your ancestors. What do you want?

You can hardly walk now, and you can't even take care of your own family affairs, so who else can you ask for help?

Chen was already old, and because of her relationship with the head of the village, she had been respected and admired by the villagers for most of her life. She had never suffered such injustice in recent times. Seeing that the third daughter of the Lin family was capable, she wanted to take them to live an easy life. But this man's brain was like being filled with shit, and he just couldn't get it, which made her so anxious that she cried and snotted.

Sometimes she was so angry that she wanted to dump this man and leave with her son and his family, but could San Ya Lin recognize them? No, San Ya knew everything in her heart and would only recognize her village head.

If you really want to talk about how good the position of village head is, her husband is such a coward, he is not greedy, he works hard, and he even gives money to the village. Among all the village officials in the surrounding villages, he is the stupidest one.

Anyone with eyes could see that Lin Sanya recruited people to join her gang because they had once been kind to her family, and they were repaying them for their hard-pressed life on the road to escape famine, where there were corpses of starving people everywhere.

But her man actually refused...

Rejected...

Already….

How can they live like this? How can they live like this?

Chen slapped her thigh and sat on the ground, howling at the top of her lungs, looking very miserable.

The village head felt very uncomfortable seeing that his wife had to save face for decades and now had to suffer this at her old age.

He also knew that he couldn't let go of the villagers and how much of a burden he had put on his family, but the root of Linjia Village was the people. If the people were gone, what kind of position would he have as a village head? How would he face his ancestors after his death?

The emotions of the headman's family came out suddenly, so violently that everyone was a little stunned for a moment. Didn't we just agree to be partners? Why are we crying? ?

Lin Xiaoyue felt unhappy too. There were always people with kind intentions in any time and space, but such people were extremely rare. Among the people she had met, the village head was one of them.

Although she hated people who were saintly, as the one who received help, she had to admit that if it weren't for the village head's repeated assistance, the grass on the original owner's grave would have grown so high.

Even after she came here, if the head of the village had not opened the ancestral hall to preside over the severance of the marriage, their family would probably still be stuck with the old house and unable to resolve the dispute.

So, she accepted the favor from the village head and wanted to give something back. But she really didn't want to care too much about other people in the village.

Lin Xiaoyue's eyes flashed, "Grandpa Lizheng, how about this? We won't abandon the villagers and go on our own. You have a sharp tongue but a soft heart, but you can't really ignore those people. How about this?"

Lin Xiaoyue thought about it and suggested that while protecting their own family, they should also provide appropriate assistance to the villagers.

So how do we strike the right balance?

First of all, he should separate his family from his responsibility to the villagers. He can help the villagers, but the premise is that he will not harm the interests of his family. For example, if there is only one bowl of water at home, you cannot give the last bowl of life-saving water to others just because the villagers are dying of thirst and ask you for help, and let your family be dried up by the sun.

Therefore, all the expenses of the family were handed over to Chen and her eldest son Lin Baotian, as a guarantee for the grandson and the unborn child in the daughter-in-law's belly.

Secondly, you should not help the villagers too much or too much, as this will make them dependent on you. If one day you are unable to help them, you will be hated by others.

To put it bluntly, a little bit of kindness is repaid with a big bit of grudge.

Combined with what Uncle Dashan and Uncle Niu said earlier, the slaughter of the cow yesterday, and the crying complaints of the headman's wife, Chen, the headman should have discovered along the way that the villagers had already encountered the situation that Lin Xiaoyue described.

So, let go of the desire to help others and respect the fate of others. It is the Buddha's job to save all living beings. You can't steal Buddha's job, right?

Also, the villagers are not three-year-old children anymore, they have their own thoughts and should be responsible for their own actions. You are just the head of the village, not their parents, and it would be overstepping your authority if you interfere too much.

Finally, the village is gone, and you should obey fate and let go of your obsession. God has warned you to move out of that nest, but you move your butt but not your head. Isn't that deliberately wrestling with God? If the ancestors knew, they would be so scared that they would press down the coffin lid.

Please be kind and let our ancestors rest in peace in the underground, and don’t let them worry about their descendants before they are reincarnated.

Lin Xiaoyue brought up all the gods and Buddhas in the sky, the heavens, and the ancestors in the underworld. She then broke down the matter and explained it to the head of the village, which at least made him feel relieved and let go of some of the burden.

Of course, we hope to do ideological work in one go. Lin Xiaoyue spread her hands, indicating that she was not a god, and that she could go to such great lengths to talk to the head of the village, which was already the result of her small universe exploding, okay?

Didn't you see that Father Lin was similar to the head of the village in some ways? One was foolishly filial, the other was stubborn.

How much time she spent brainwashing, oh no, persuading... uh, never mind, it can only be said that she achieved some small results in the phased ideological work, which prevented Old Man Lin from letting her down at the critical moment last night.

The same goes for the village head. Of course, she is not responsible for the follow-up ideological work. That is the business of the village head's family. She has done her best.

Lin Xiaoyue didn't have much to say. She held the water bag and went to drink water, leaving some time and space for the head of the village to figure it out.

Chen, the wife of the head of the village, took the opportunity to sneak over and thank Lin Xiaoyue for her advice to the head of the village. She expressed in both explicit and implicit ways that her family hoped to team up with them no matter what. She would go back to her side, gather all the things, including food and daily necessities, and put them in the team's "public center", hoping that Lin Xiaoyue would not be disgusted.

Lin Xiaoyue looked at Chen meaningfully. This guy is a bit spooky.

But since she was the one who brought the person in, she still had ways to control his fickle mind.

The talks over there were almost over, and the three companies went back to pack up, take what they needed, communicate with the people they needed to communicate with, and then they would be integrated into the team again.