A 1970s mom raises a cute baby, and a crazy boss spoils her

"You are just selfish, why can't you give up your job but want me to give up my job?

Why did I go to college? Did I make so many efforts just to give birth to and raise your children?

If it really doesn't work, I can just not have the baby. Anyway, I have to go to work!"

Gu Qinghuan was indeed being unreasonable.

Zhong Zijun pulled her daughter and said that what she said was too much, but it seemed that there was nothing wrong with it.

What did she do wrong? She worked so hard to get into Huaqing University, but in the end she had to give up her career just to have a child.

Who knows what the situation will be like when we come back?

It was the same for her at the beginning. With Zhong Weiqian's connections at the time, she could have made great achievements in her work.

But after having two children, my ambitions were slowly eroded. For the sake of my children, I was willing to let my hands and feet be tied, to be an ordinary person, and to protect my children's growth.

In fact, this dilemma is experienced by every woman, especially highly educated women, who suffer too much from childbirth.

On the one hand, I want to achieve something in my career.

On the one hand, I want to take care of my family and children.

Especially after the child is born, companionship and education become problems.

Moreover, it seems that in the eyes of the public, this is all the mother's problem.

If you take care of one thing, you won't be able to take care of the other.

Gu Qinghuan always thought that he could take care of all of these things, and that once he had a financial foundation, these would no longer be a problem.

But after I actually got pregnant, I found out that this was not the case.

Now, she seems unable to even control her own emotions, let alone control her life.

It is inevitable to feel a sense of frustration.

Yun Jiuzhou finally compromised.

He cannot deprive his wife of her freedom and force her to make concessions just because she is pregnant. This is no different from keeping a canary in captivity.

Being pregnant doesn't mean you have to give up your job.

Everything Gu Qinghuan has now is hard-earned, and even a child cannot make her give up her career.

She has worked so hard to get to where she is today. It is unfair to use her status as a mother to kidnap her and ask her to give up everything just because she is pregnant.

He secretly took gifts to the research institute and greeted all of Gu Qinghuan's colleagues.

Ask them to take good care of Gu Qinghuan, the pregnant woman, on a daily basis, not let her do any heavy physical work, and not let her come into contact with any sources of danger, especially emotionally agitated patients.

With gifts leading the way, everyone said that they would take good care of Gu Qinghuan and not let her get tired, so please rest assured.

Yun Jiuzhou found some sponge mats and rearranged the office where Gu Qinghuan worked. He covered all the hard corners with sponges to ensure that his wife's working environment was safe.

He also arranged for a nanny to deliver nutritious lunch to Gu Qinghuan on time every day at noon.

In the past, she always ate in the cafeteria with people from the institute.

Yun Jiuzhou also asked the Yun family for a car and a driver to pick up Gu Qinghuan to and from get off work.

After making these arrangements, he felt much more at ease.

Gu Qinghuan was surprised at the special protection her colleagues showed her. After asking, she found out that it was Yun Jiuzhou who had greeted them privately.

The mats and table corners in the office were all wrapped up bit by bit by that man.

Seeing what Yun Jiuzhou did silently for her, Gu Qinghuan sighed deeply. The more he did this, the more guilty and suffocated she felt.

She finally understood the helplessness of the majority of women.

It is so difficult for women to stand out.

In fact, there are many excellent people among them, but they are eventually worn down by life and restricted by their children.

But perhaps, in their hearts, they all calmly accepted this choice and enjoyed it.

Because this is mother.

“I’m sorry, I’ve been so excited these past few days.

You all think that I should give up my career and return to my family, which makes me feel deeply frustrated and feel that all my efforts for so long have been trampled upon.

I finally understood that being a mother is a dilemma.

I used to think too one-sidedly. Because I was hurt as a child, I despised those mothers who gave up their children for work.

Now that I’m a mother myself, I realize how difficult it is to have the best of both worlds.

Becoming a mother doesn’t mean you have to give up your life. No matter what choice I make, I think I will be the best mother because my love for my children will not change.

In fact, I have thought about it a long time ago. After I have finished the things at hand, I will give myself a long vacation. After the baby is born, I will accompany and take care of her as much as possible.

I can slow down my work in the institute temporarily, but I will not stop.

Give myself two or three years to take care of and accompany my child. When she needs me less, I will continue to do what I want to do.

During this period, I also ask you to do what a father should do. The child is not my responsibility alone, but our joint choice, so let's be responsible for her together."

In fact, Gu Qinghuan had already made some preparations before she became pregnant.

She has been too popular in the past year or two. If it continues like this, it won't be a good thing.

So it was just right that I could take a break from the grind while giving birth.

But what everyone said aroused her inner uneasiness.

For some reason, after she became pregnant with this child, she felt that she became much more fragile, easily emotional, and cried at the slightest provocation, becoming completely unlike herself.

It was Yun Jiuzhou's tolerance that soothed all her anxieties and fears.

Hence this conversation.

"I was wrong, you were right, I was too selfish, I didn't consider your feelings, and I was so self-righteous that I wanted to trap you with the child.

Qinghuan, I'm actually a petty man. Sometimes I get really scared, afraid that you'll leave me.

There is not even any bond or tie between us that could allow me to keep you.

Whenever there is an outstanding man around you, I will be jealous to the point of going crazy.

But this incident suddenly made me figure it out.

Children will never be a bond between us, love is the bond.

My love for you won't change whether I have children or not.

I was so nervous, so nervous about this child who suddenly appeared, that I ignored your feelings.

If you feel that you are not ready yet, we can wait to have children, that’s okay.

I hope you are happy to give birth to this little life, nothing else matters."

God knows how sad Yun Jiuzhou felt when he said these words, and there were even tears in his eyes.

This man always easily and unreservedly showed his vulnerable side in front of her.

Gu Qinghuan felt sorry for his cautiousness and reached out to hug him.

"Silly boy, how could I not want this child? This is the child we have been waiting for for a long time.

Just think of me as being controlled by my emotions these days and acting unreasonably.

If I lose my temper again, you can scold me to wake me up."

Yun Jiuzhou burst into laughter.

"I can't bear it."

He would rather scold himself than say a harsh word to her.

She is Gu Qinghuan, the person he loves most in the world. How could he bear to hurt her in the slightest?

The gloom that Gu Qinghuan had been feeling for some time was swept away.