A 1970s mom raises a cute baby, and a crazy boss spoils her

“Five years ago, I went to the countryside in Northeast China to work as a sent-down youth and met Comrade Yun Jiuzhou. At that time, he was not yet a descendant of the famous Yun family, but just an unknown country boy.

Because of the 715 incident, he suffered from serious mental illness and was forced to retire and return home.

When he first returned home, his illness was not particularly serious, but because of his super fighting ability, he would always hurt his family and friends when he lost control, so in order not to hurt others, he chose to tie himself up.

Because he was not a biological child, he did not receive any care or companionship from his family. Instead, he was abandoned and isolated. Even having a full meal was a luxury. In the day-to-day suffering of darkness, his condition gradually worsened.

Later, I was in a daze for a while, I couldn't even recognize people, and I developed a strong aversion to strangers and things.

When I came to him, he was very skinny, with only his eyes still bright as before. If a stranger approached him, he would growl anxiously, and he was exhausted both physically and mentally.

To be honest, I was also very afraid of him at that time, but when I found out that he was a soldier who had won first-class merit, some of my thoughts changed quietly.

No matter what his past was like, he once truly defended his country and survived the hail of bullets.

I cannot bear to see a comrade like this being abandoned by the motherland, the people and even his own family whom he once protected after he fell ill.

At that moment I swore in my heart that I must cure him!

So I began to piece together some traces of his previous life. After understanding his past, I found that his illness was most likely caused by psychological changes during the war.

From that day on, I started trying to heal him.

At that time, I didn't understand psychology, and didn't know how to treat mental illness. I only knew to give him meticulous care, to protect him like a family member, to warm him up little by little with my heart, and to light up his life again.

This treatment plan is long-term, targeting the psychological aspects in the early stages and the physical aspects in the later stages.

I will not go into details about the specific treatment process. I have already mentioned the methods I used in my article.

Hard work pays off, and I did it. He recovered his health step by step, both mentally and physically.

Later, I took him to Beijing and asked Dr. Xiao Zhuo from Beijing Hospital to provide him with counseling.

During the process, I came into contact with some patients like him, as well as my own family members, who also had mental illnesses.

A seed of dream sprouted in my heart. I wanted to study psychology and ignite hope of life for these neglected groups.

Therefore, today, I can stand in front of you and tell you these stories." Gu Qinghuan stood up and bowed to everyone.

She is not only telling Yun Jiuzhou's story, but also her own story. Her words are sincere, emotional, gentle and powerful.

The story brought everyone present to tears.

The girl standing here is obviously not very old, but she looks more like a giant. Behind her is the power of millions of women.

A great man once said that women hold up half the sky, and at this moment, it became concrete.

Yun Runtong was particularly crying. These two children had really suffered, especially Gu Qinghuan. She used her kindness and tenacity to prop up a broken family and turned decay into magic.

The old saying goes, marrying a good woman can bring prosperity to three generations, and it is indeed true.

Without her, there would be no Yun Jiuzhou today, and no Yun family today.

No wonder that kid in Jiuzhou remained calm even when the sky was falling. His only weakness was her, because she was worth it!

Suffering is not worth singing about, but it needs to be remembered.

Everything in the world has two sides. It is these experiences that have allowed them to grow into towering trees and reach where they are today.

Applause broke out at the scene, led by the serious middle-aged general.

"What this girl said is true. I may not have told you that when I discovered Yun Jiuzhou, this good seedling, I was happy and worried at the same time.

When Tang Zhenye sent him here, he let me decide for myself. This guy is a good seedling, but his illness is always a fuse, and I'm afraid it will explode one day.

I also used him under great pressure, and fortunately, over the past few years, he has completely recovered and has become a military genius in your eyes. "General Zhuo also helped explain.

The reason why he didn't stand up at the beginning was to let Gu Qinghuan show his face.

This girl looks gentle and elegant, but in fact, she is just like Yun Jiuzhou, a guy who is pretending to be a pig but is actually a tiger. Birds of a feather flock together.

Fang Zhihai also smiled and stood up and said: "This girl only talked about one patient she treated, which may not be targeted enough, so let me talk about the second patient she treated.

Unfortunately, it was my good-for-nothing son.

As you all know, my son Zhengping also retired due to illness a few years ago, but later returned.

The child hid in his room all day, throwing things, losing temper, and even hitting people at every turn. His personality changed drastically.

I was so worried that my hair turned white. I didn't have any great expectations for him anymore. I just hoped that his condition wouldn't get worse and he could live happily for the rest of his life, even if I had to support him. I didn't care about success or a bright future anymore.

I took him to see all the famous doctors in Beijing, but with little effect, mainly because the guy in my family refused to cooperate.

But it just so happened that this girl came to Beijing with her husband, and Tang Zhenye recommended her to me, saying that she had cured more serious mental patients.

With the mentality of giving it a try, I asked her to come and help with the treatment, but I didn't expect that on the first day she came, she had such a strong control over my child.

The effect was seen on the first day, and my wife and I instantly felt hope.

Just like that, we treated the child for a period of time according to the method she instructed, and the child basically got out of the psychological trauma and returned to the team smoothly.

Many people don’t know about these things. After all, they are children’s privacy, and I have never told anyone about them.

At that time, this girl had not even entered college, but she already had such great abilities. I believe she must be even more outstanding now. I believe that the post-traumatic stress disorder she mentioned is absolutely reasonable.

The little girl is ambitious and capable. I admire people who have ideas and are willing to work hard the most. Please don't make things difficult for this child."

Fang Zhihai is a rough man. The biggest characteristic of rough men is that they don't like to use their brains and they can't lie. One sentence from him is worth ten sentences from Gu Qinghuan, and his persuasiveness is at its maximum.

If the effect of Gu Qinghuan's treatment on Yun Jiuzhou was the result of the intimate relationship between husband and wife, then her treatment of Fang Zhengping couldn't also be due to emotional influence, right?

With Fang Zhihai and Zhuo Jiang's guarantee, everyone's doubts about her were dispelled.

Some people even took the initiative to ask Gu Qinghuan to talk about how to prevent the disease she mentioned and what special attention should be paid.

Gu Qinghuan was well prepared and spoke freely.

“We all know that before a war, the armies of various countries will provide various psychological counseling to their troops, and the measures are different.

There are military chaplains in Western armies, who rely on them to provide psychological counseling.

The Chinese army has political commissars and instructors below the battalion level. The psychological counseling of soldiers is mainly provided by political commissars or instructors.

The main purpose is to educate on patriotism, heroism, and the significance of war.

However, it should be noted that no matter what kind of mobilization is made before the war, due to the instinctive fear of death and the battlefield, soldiers going to the battlefield will inevitably experience psychological tension, leading to the emergence of various psychological problems.

Therefore, our post-war psychological counseling must keep up. It is not just about mobilizing the entire army, but also about having corresponding measures to prevent and detect problems as early as possible.

I suggest that post-war psychological counseling be included as a formal medical assistance method and program, so that psychological intervention work can be put into practice.

Especially for soldiers who have just retired from the war, strict psychological screening should be carried out to detect and treat problems as early as possible.

In addition, I also suggest establishing a mental health file for soldiers and conducting corresponding screening and counseling work at regular intervals.

The role of the cultural troupe should also be brought into play. After the war, as many cultural and entertainment programs as possible should be arranged to let the beautiful visual experience wash away the soldiers' messy hearts and bring them warmth and happiness. "

Gu Qinghuan’s suggestion is very pertinent and highly feasible.

“You are right. This can indeed prevent and detect this disease to a great extent.

But we don’t have the corresponding team, let alone any psychological experts to do this!”

This general's problem is also everyone's problem.

There is a method, but there is no one who can do it! China is still too backward.

Fang Zhihai stood up and said: "Aren't the experts right in front of us?

I think Comrade Xiao Gu is a good person! Don't always look at people with an old eye. Age cannot define a person's ability.

Comrade Xiao Gu can propose such a theory and put it into practice, which shows that she is capable enough to do the job. We should boldly give her a chance. "

Fang Zhihai tried his best to make this happen. On the one hand, he really favored Gu Qinghuan, and on the other hand, he was also trying to give her a chance to repay the kindness of treating her.

His son Fang Zhengping is doing as well as he can now. Whenever he comes home, he still asks about Gu Qinghuan and his wife. The two families don't have as close a relationship now, but their friendship is real.

This opportunity is truly rare. If Gu Qinghuan could show his face in the military, get a certain position, and achieve some results, it would be like having a golden medal of immunity from death in his life.

No matter what she does in the future, she will have a natural backing and trump card, which is her living signboard.

This is the ceiling for a psychologist to be able to achieve. The key is that she is only in her twenties and has just graduated from college.

Yun Runtong looked at Fang Zhihai with gratitude.

This is his daughter-in-law, and he hopes the best for her, but the more times like this, the more he cannot say nice things and must avoid suspicion, so as not to backfire.

It was just right that Fang Zhihai spoke out.

Following Fang Zhihai, Zhuo Yifan also took the initiative to help: "Don't bother two people with one thing. Since this plan was proposed by Xiao Gu, and she was also the first person to propose post-war psychological syndrome, then she is the most suitable person to do this. No one knows this disease better than her.

I suggest that she take the lead in setting up a psychological intervention team to specifically deal with emergencies in this regard.

It's not just post-war psychological intervention, it's even post-disaster psychological intervention, and even psychological intervention like the firefighters we usually do, and psychological intervention after the police respond to calls, all of which can be done.

We actually have many soldiers in the Ministry of National Defense who need psychological intervention. I'll have to take care of them when the time comes."

Zhuo Yifan's words were equivalent to settling the matter as a done deal.

Others followed suit.

“What General Zhuo said makes sense. When I was on my way to disaster relief last year, I saw many horrific human tragedies. Some family members fainted from crying, and some even committed suicide on the spot.

If they could have received some psychological counseling at that time, perhaps the situation would have been much better. Unfortunately, I don't have that ability and can only offer them a few dry words of comfort.

In fact, let alone them, just talk about myself. After seeing such a tragedy, I couldn’t sleep well for several months after I came back, and I felt uncomfortable the whole day.

Our soldiers are also demoralized.”

"Last year, I also heard about a case where a police officer jumped off a building because he couldn't bear the psychological pressure.

Especially among the police in Yunnan Province, the death rate is very high.

We really need to take some measures to ensure the physical and mental health of our comrades in the team."

"Yes, what General Zhuo and General Fang said makes sense. Professional matters should be left to professionals.

I think Comrade Xiao Gu is very good and can do the job.

She is young, but her resume is impressive. She comes from a well-known family, and her family members are all well-educated. She graduated from Huaqing University early at a young age, and published two articles in succession, both of which attracted the attention of all walks of life. She is as capable as any man. "

Gu Qinghuan convinced everyone with her own abilities and they all agreed unanimously to set up a psychological counseling group led by her. They also promised to legalize the matter and issue relevant documents.

The military gave her great power, allowing her to form her own team and decide the members of the team.

There is only one requirement: develop as quickly as possible.

China needs this kind of logistical support.

Until the meeting was over, Gu Qinghuan followed behind Yun Runtong, still feeling like she was dreaming.

Unexpectedly, just by giving a speech, I somehow fulfilled my dream.

Yes, she was admitted to university and studied psychology hard with the ultimate goal of popularizing psychology to every corner of China and applying it to actual work and life, so that everyone would pay attention to this group and not make unnecessary sacrifices.

She thought that she might spend her whole life pursuing this goal and realizing this dream.

But unexpectedly, the opportunity came so gorgeously.

She was so excited.

Yun Runtong saw that she was as happy as a child, and curled the corners of his mouth. He couldn't help but remind her: "If you want to wear the crown, you must bear its weight. Child, I hope you don't forget your original intention."

Gu Qinghuan nodded: "Don't worry, Dad."

After living two lives, fame, wealth and honor are not that important to her. All she wants is a clear conscience.