After traveling through time, she took her husband to be a food doctor

Secretly, Ding Xirui wanted to tell Yang Yuting about Tong Ruoxuan's experience so as to encourage her to make up her mind, but when she thought about it carefully, it seemed like moral kidnapping, so she endured it again and again, gritting her teeth and keeping her mouth shut tightly.

The next day, Yang Yuting and Xiao Wu said goodbye and returned to Luocheng County. Ding Xirui and Banxia came to Dongfang, found a few sisters-in-law they knew well, and went to one of their courtyards to talk about "sex education".

"A bandit was beheaded some time ago, you all knew about it," Ding Xirui asked.

"I know, I know. From then on, I was worried about my daughter wherever she went, so I asked her brothers to follow her." said Mrs. Wang.

"Yes, it's so scary. I heard that the bandit harmed many girls. After escaping, he became a flower thief and roamed around the city." Mrs. Han continued.

"How hateful! People like this should be castrated first and then killed, cut into pieces!" Mrs. Li said, making a knife gesture with her hand.

"Yes, evil will be punished, and the evil man has been beheaded." Ding Xirui also clenched her fists, "But..." She paused and looked at a few people.

"Doctor Ding, what's the matter? Just tell me..." Mrs. Han became interested and moved closer.

"Of course the government has to arrest people and fulfill their responsibilities. But as parents, we should also tell our children to protect themselves and take precautions. It is unrealistic to follow them all the time, and we can't lock our children up at home."

"Oh, I'm worried too. Watching my daughter grow up day by day, I'm really worried." Mrs. Li shook her head.

"Doctor Ding, do you have any good ideas?"

Several people looked at Ding Xirui.

"Sister-in-law, I want to ask, before you got married, did you know about the relationship between men and women?"

The surroundings suddenly became quiet, and several sisters-in-law turned their heads away, afraid of meeting his gaze.

"Doctor Ding, what's your question? If there's nothing else, I'll go back first." Mrs. Wang said.

"Oh! You're old, why are you still shy? Let me speak first." Mrs. Li grabbed her and spoke.

"I have been carefree since I was young. I played with the boys in the village when I was young. However, when my sister got married, I was naughty and took out the dowry painting... I was only ten years old at that time, so stupid that I took the painting to ask my mother what the people above me were doing..."

"You're here so early?" The others covered their mouths.

"Don't play dumb, just tell the truth." Mrs. Li pointed her index finger at Mrs. Wang across from her.

Mrs. Wang looked embarrassed, sighed, and said:

"My family used to set up a stall outside. One time, I was helping my mother push the cart and a drunkard came. He had bad intentions and wanted to grab me, but my mother chased him away. After returning home, my mother told me to be careful of those people and not to let them bully me."

"What is bullying? Didn't you ask?" Mrs. Li asked.

"I asked, and my mother said that if a man hugs you, pulls your clothes, or takes off your pants, he is doing bad things and bullying you, and you must never let them succeed."

Well, this mother’s reminder is good, Ding Xirui nodded as he listened.

"What about you?"

Several people looked at Mrs. Han.

"I'm quite stupid. I didn't know until the wedding night." Mrs. Han took out a handkerchief and covered her face.

"I don't believe it." Mrs. Li narrowed her eyes, as if she had deep meaning.

"Why would I lie to you?" Mrs. Han hit her.

"Mrs. Li, Mrs. Wang, you two knew about these things early on. Do you think they are of any use?" Ding Xirui asked.

"Well..." Sister Li pulled up a dogtail grass nearby, rubbed the seeds, and said slowly: "My mother beat me up. Since then, she forbade me to play with boys or talk about this matter with others. However, my sister soon had a child. I almost guessed how the child came about, so I was not afraid when I got married. If I didn't know anything, I would probably make a scene on the wedding night."

Mrs. Wang burst out laughing. "You are indeed capable of doing such a thing."

"Don't talk about me, what about you?" Mrs. Li poked her.

"After my mother reminded me, every time I go out, I try to walk to crowded places, and I quickly avoid drunks and homeless people. Until now, I have been very careful, so I think I have lived a relatively safe life."

Well, it is good to be able to proactively avoid risks, ensure personal safety, and prevent accidents before they happen. Several people in the hospital all praised Mrs. Wang.

"Several of you have daughters at home. Do they know about this?" Ding Xirui continued to ask.

"I told her about robberies and child trafficking and asked her to be careful. But she doesn't know how to talk to her about being bullied by men," said Mrs. Han.

"Yes, this... is really hard to say. How can I say it? Every time I want to say it, I swallow it back." said Mrs. Li.

"I also want to be like my mother and tell my daughter openly to be careful. But she is only twelve years old. I am worried, but I also think she is too young, so I can't say it out loud." said Mrs. Wang.

"Yes, let's just let these things take their course." Mrs. Han looked embarrassed.

Ding Xirui shook his head vigorously and said:

"But if we don't tell anyone, what if the little girl gets cheated or bullied but she knows nothing and even covers up for the bad guys? What should we do?"

"Hiss——" Several sisters-in-law took a breath of cold air.

"Yes, I haven't thought about that. If that happened, it would be serious." Mrs. Wang became serious.

Mrs. Li clenched her fists and said, "I will fight anyone who dares to deceive my daughter to death."

Ding Xirui patted her hands gently and said:

"Sister-in-law, now it's not about who can be spared, it's about how to tell my daughter to avoid such a thing."

Several people fell silent.

"If you are reluctant to speak, how about letting me, the doctor, speak? Mrs. Wang's mother explained it very well. She first reminded her daughters and made them feel nervous, and then..." Ding Xirui spoke.

"Okay." Mrs. Li pounded the table. "Doctor Ding, you can tell the story. You are a doctor, and you can also say that if something like that happens, the body will deteriorate, rot, and you won't be able to get married...say something more serious."

"Yes." The other two also nodded.

"Ah?" Ding Xirui's mouth twitched a few times.

"That's not necessary. The key is to let them understand their own bodies, know that they cannot be violated or hurt by others, and protect themselves."

"Doctor Ding, listen to us. It's only effective if you scare us."

"Sister-in-law..." Ding Xirui took a few deep breaths and continued, "We can't do this. We must do our best to avoid accidents, but if...if something unfortunate happens, the girls will already be in pain, and those words will make them even more sad, and they may not be able to survive."

The sisters-in-law looked at each other and no one spoke.

Ding Xirui took out a few pieces of paper from the package.

"Sister-in-law, we have previously discussed what meals are suitable for children of different ages. I just said that girls should understand their own bodies. Look."

Ding Xirui spread out the paper as he spoke.

There is a picture of a girl on each piece of paper, as a baby, in her teens, pregnant, giving birth... Of course, the people in the pictures are all wearing clothes, but their appearance and body shape change.

"They can see all of this, so what's the use?" asked Mrs. Li.

"They can see their younger sisters, elder sisters, mothers, and grandmothers, but they may not have thought carefully about how a woman's life is like this." Ding Xirui explained, "Especially after menstruation, a girl's body and mood will undergo significant changes. They need to be told why this happens, how to deal with it, and how pregnancy came about. In this way, they will not make blind guesses and will also know the consequences of sex."

"How did you get pregnant...Do you really want to tell me? How should I tell you?" Mrs. Han asked hesitantly.

"Well...if you think it's inappropriate, then let's talk about it after the engagement." Ding Xirui decided to take a step back for now. "But they must know how to protect themselves. They must be told what it means when certain people do certain things or say certain things, and what the consequences will be."

"Okay. If she knew about those things and spread rumors outside, it would be embarrassing for the adults..." said Mrs. Wang.

"Yes." The other two nodded, their faces slightly red.

Ding Xirui was a little worried. It would be hard to say what happened in another era. Ordinary people are confused and groping on their own, while girls who are already in a disadvantaged position are easily bullied and violated. Before the incident, no one told them, no one guided them; after the incident, they had no one to turn to and were ridiculed and mocked. Even those who understand and know are coerced and suppressed by power, both overt and covert. Some people can resist, but often at a great cost. More people grit their teeth and swallow their blood in silence, licking wounds that will never heal. They spend their whole lives to heal their pain, and even end their lives prematurely due to exhaustion.

Thinking of this, Ding Xirui's eyes turned red. It's not easy to make mothers aware of this, so let's leave it like this for now.