Dressed as a peasant girl, full of happiness

As she spoke, my second aunt started crying.

Third Aunt patted her on the shoulder, her eyes full of heartache, but there was nothing she could do!

The blisters on her feet were caused by walking. It was because she didn't listen to her family and insisted on marrying Zhao Ermin.

At first, my father and elder brother said that this guy had no opinion and always asked his parents for advice on everything. But my sister said that she just liked him to be obedient so that he would not be wronged in the future.

She also said that this person was considerate and thoughtful, and even kept track of her daily life. Later, she found out that all these were taught by the old woman in that family.

In their house, whatever the old woman says is what it is.

After they got married, the old woman said she would set rules for the second sister, but Zhao Ermin never said a word to plead for his sister. If it weren't for the fact that his brother still had a little power, maybe his sister would have been suppressed by Zhao Ermin's mother from beginning to end.

Old Mrs. Wei couldn't help but sigh. She had watched this girl grow up. She had reminded her several times without leaving any traces, but this girl was so absorbed in the sweet words of the Zhao family that she couldn't be pulled out.

Alas, in this situation, how can I say it without hurting the second girl's feelings?

Wei Yuchen didn't have that much psychological burden, so she asked directly:

"Aunt, have you ever thought about why other people are unwilling to quit their jobs to take care of the old lady?" If she could figure out this problem, Aunt would know whether she should resign or not.

"Why else? Of course it's because serving the old lady is a thankless job. Isn't your grandmother an example of that?" Third Aunt Wang Xue'e spoke directly and gave Wei Yuchen a direct answer.

Old Madam Wei nodded and said, "Yes, when I served your old grandmother, not only was she ordering me around every day, but I was also bullied by your first and second grandmothers and their sisters-in-law, who said that since I took their food, I should take care of her shit and urine.

They didn't even think about the fact that they should show respect to the old lady every year. The old lady lives and eats in my house, which is equivalent to our showing respect to her.

Later, I was so angry that I asked them to take the old lady away, and then they stopped talking about her. "

Wang Xue'e said:

"Sister, if you quit your job and ask your man for money for everything, how do you think your man will treat you? How will your sisters-in-law look at you?"

Third Aunt Wang Xue'e has a good relationship with my younger sister, so she speaks directly without beating around the bush:

"Sister, don't complain about how you take care of the elderly. These are not excuses. You take care of your mother-in-law's excrement and urine. As a daughter-in-law, isn't that what you should do? What's more, you asked for money! It's even worse!

Another thing, can you guarantee that your two sisters-in-law will give you money? Even if they do, will the money fall into your hands? When you want to buy something, you have to ask for money. Your man is like that, he would rather spend a penny in two halves. How can you expect him to be in a good mood when you ask him for money? Over the years, you often give him money, but has he ever bought you anything worth half a dime?

If you quit your job for a year or two, and your mother-in-law's leg heals or dies, what will you do? By then, the two families will definitely not give you money anymore. You will lose your job and your future. What will you do?

It's okay for you to suffer a little. You chose your own path and you have nothing to complain. But have you ever thought about your son? Although Xiaoyou is only fifteen now, you don't have to consider his marriage for the time being.

But when he grows up and graduates, and it's time to talk about a wife, would you rather let the matchmaker say that his mother is a teacher, or let him say that his mother is unemployed? If you were to find a husband for your daughter, which one do you think would have better conditions?

I'm not saying anything bad about you, you're just a fool. Once someone tries to trick you, you don't know the directions."

"Then how do you think I can do it?" Second Aunt was a little stunned. She had indeed thought too little. She was almost convinced by the two sisters-in-law.

Thinking about it now, she couldn't help but smile bitterly. It turned out that everyone was treating her like a fool.

Not to mention that it is not easy to take care of the elderly, just the fact that she has to quit her job will make it extremely difficult to find another job in the future. At her age now, she won't even have a pension. How will she live in the future?

People say that it is better to have something yourself than to have it from your parents. Even if a couple has it, they still have to ask for it. If that happens, won’t you be looked down upon as an old man who asks for favors?

Besides, when it comes to serving the elderly, it is easy to take over but difficult to let go. If they are not willing to serve them now, they will be even more reluctant to take over in the future.

The old man eats, drinks, defecates, urinates, and washes in bed every day. He feels depressed and has a bad temper. She has also heard of old people who curse others all day long.

A while ago, she went to a bathhouse and saw with her own eyes an old lady who, because she thought the bath water was too hot, grabbed the hair of her daughter who was bathing her and slapped the girl twice in the face.

He cursed, "I said I didn't want to come, but you insisted on making me come. So you wanted to scald me to death! What's the point of me raising you? You ungrateful wolf, if I knew you were so cruel, I should have pushed you into the urinal and drowned you."

I heard that she was the old lady’s own daughter, but the old lady’s men were ruthless to her. What if it was her daughter-in-law?

My mother-in-law has always looked down on me. She despises me for being stupid, for having few children, and for not giving her my salary...

If I were to serve my own mother-in-law, would she treat me the same way? If that were the case, I'm afraid Zhao Ermin wouldn't even say a word to help me.

Thinking of this, the second aunt looked at her own small stature and thought of her mother-in-law, who was so big, and her heart trembled. If one day she did not meet her mother-in-law's expectations, she would beat her to a cripple. The thought was terrifying.

Now, she was extremely grateful that she had come to her sister's house to discuss things with her sister. Otherwise, if she had come back after she quit her job, she might have suffered a great loss.

Seeing her sister in deep thought, Third Aunt knew that her niece's words had made her sober. She looked at Wei Yuchen with eager eyes, as if Wei Yuchen was the savior who could give her sister the best answer.

Old Mrs. Wei found it hilarious. These two sisters actually trusted a little kid so much. It was really unique!

However, she also felt that what her eldest granddaughter said made sense. It seemed that once the child got married, she really grew up. She was afraid that Wei Yuchen would say something hurtful again, so she quickly changed the subject:

"Your eldest sister is right. Second aunt, go back and think about it carefully. If you lose your job, how will people look at you? Why don't they want to quit their jobs to take care of the old lady, but ask you to quit? If you think about these things clearly, you will know what to do."

Upon hearing this, the third aunt also said quickly:

"Little sister, listen to what my mother and my Chenchen say. Go back and think about it carefully. My mother comes from a wealthy family and is well-informed. She has seen everything. And my Chenchen, although he is young, knows more about everything than I do.

If it really doesn't work, you can ask your brother-in-law to resign. He only earns a few dollars, not even as much as you do? He doesn't have as much future as you do. At worst, you can support him.

If he really wants a divorce, don't be afraid of him. Our father and brother are not stupid and will definitely support you. If you get a divorce, you won't have to take care of your bedridden old lady anymore, and you'll get rid of a burden."