On the day we broke up, Mr. Chi was very hungry

I think the best relationship between father and son is that of being both teacher and friend, father and brother.

And Chi’s father and I are in such a father-son state.

I am very satisfied to grow up in such a family atmosphere and grow into what I like.

Because of Chi’s father’s love, I am very happy and proud. When I was growing up, Dad Chi fulfilled all my expectations of a father.

Chi Yuhan, he is not my biological father, but he is better than my biological father.

The world is big and the earth is not as big as the kindness of my adoptive father.

Dad Chi, he spent his life’s hard work to raise us brothers and sisters. He is the best dad in the world.

He loves but does not dote on his children.

Dad Chi not only doted on his children, but also doted on my mother very much. He even did all the washing of my mother’s hands and hair.

As long as Father Chi is at home, my mother is his child, a child who eats candy every day.

Father Chi's love for my mother was like holding it in the palm of his hand, pampering her so much that her toes would not touch the ground, and her fingers would not touch the spring water. If possible, he would even feed her.

My mother is also very kind to my father Chi.

She also likes to act coquettishly. As long as she acts coquettishly, the air in the house will be gentle and sweet, like honey.

It’s unimaginable that my mother is such a hot and powerful woman outside, and she doesn’t hesitate to say anything about her dissatisfaction.

But when I get home, I turn into a child and can do nothing but act coquettishly.

In front of Father Chi, she seemed to have taken off the armor that she used to fight the enemy in battle. She transformed from a female general into a weak woman, defenseless, weak, and very dependent on Father Chi.

It's like she can't live without him, but she won't marry him.

I was very confused and asked my mother, "Mom, why do you love Dad Chi so much but don't marry him?"

My mother’s smile was mysterious and beautiful, “I think this is pretty good.”

My mother also said, "Whether a relationship is strong or not has nothing to do with marriage."

And as I grew up, I gradually understood my mother's helplessness.

It's not that she doesn't want to marry the man she loves, she does it for me. This is her selfishness and helplessness.

Many people once persuaded my mother to remarry.

Chi's father's business partners, Ren Chao and Wang Yun, were married for the second time, and the woman also had two children to form a family.

They once used their happy marriage to prove to my mother that you can live a very happy life in a second marriage.

But my mother remained unmoved.

It was the day of the wedding of my cousin-in-law and cousin-in-law, Zhong Xin and Luo Jiaming.

At the wedding scene, looking at the newlyweds on the stage, they exchanged rings happily and sweetly.

I clearly saw tears streaming from the corners of my mother's eyes.

I think, at that time, she must have been very envious of the new couple. What a blessing it is for a lover to achieve enlightenment.

She must also really want to marry Chi's father, be his legitimate wife, and be on the same household register as him.

My uncles, Xiao Shaobai, who is still unmarried but has a son, Uncle Li Chengyang, who has become the boss of the police station, and Uncle Xu Zizhou, who gave birth to two sons, often talk to me about the past.

They said that my mother, for Lu's sake, had to bear some pressure that others could not understand.

She loves my father Chi. She loves my adoptive father more than my biological father.

In fact, when I was a child, I couldn't understand my father's behavior. Why did he divorce his wife and still insist on having a child with her?

Among so many women, can't you find others?

Although I love my mother very much, objectively speaking, there are many more beautiful and capable women in this world than my mother.

But why did my father only choose her, only her, and even designated her as the only one to give birth to the child?

As I grew older and became more sensible, I realized that this was just a morbid obsession and morbid preference for my father to love my mother.

I know, my father, he also has his unwillingness.

In fact, after I became sensible, I also understood that my mother would not have the slightest love for him.

Before my father passed away, he recorded many videos for me.

He also talked to me about love.

My father said that love is beautiful and life will be more beautiful because of love.

He advised me that if I find someone I like, I should boldly pursue him.

He said, "Shanshan, you have to be brave and bold like your father. Don't be afraid when facing the girl you love, chase her bravely and boldly."

He said, "If she is new to the world, take her to see all the prosperity of the world. If she has gone through many vicissitudes of life, ride the merry-go-round with her. Just like I did when I pursued your mother..."

When he said this, his eyes were clearly red.

I can feel his sadness through the screen. My father's love for my mother is unreciprocated.

If I could, I really wanted to rush into the screen and hug him, my father who is so infatuated that it makes people heartache.

My father said that due to some unspeakable reasons, he was not worthy of love. It was not until he met my mother that he suddenly felt the urge to love and marry my mother.

He desperately wanted to be with her, so he eagerly proposed to her and took the time to prepare the scene for the proposal.

In fact, on the day of the proposal, he was very panicked, even scared, and probably had no hope.

But I didn’t expect that my proposal to him was successful!

My father said that successfully proposing to the person he likes is the thing he is most proud of in his life.

Not to mention, marrying the person you like is like winning a battle.

He was so happy and excited that if it wasn't for the pain when pinching his fingers, he wouldn't have believed it was true.

My father talked to me a lot, and I roughly understood some of the past events between my father and my mother before I was born.

I also understand that each of them has their own pressure, each of them has their own helplessness, and each of them has their own choices.

No matter how the emotional entanglements of their predecessors were dealt with, or whether there was a better solution, for me, those should not and are not necessary to become my entanglements.

I just need to grow up well, safely and healthily.

When I grow up, I will naturally have pressure, helplessness and choices from all aspects.

But the only thing I can be sure of is that in terms of love, to establish a correct view of love and marriage, we must take the father's one-way devotion and unresponsive marriage crisis as a lesson learned from the past.

I may have more choices, and I will not be hurt by my blind impulse, blind pursuit of superficial expansion, and eager marriage like my father, and I will not make the same mistakes again.

My father Chi, Chi Yuhan, is still unmarried.

He said he respected my mother.

If she doesn't want marriage, he will remain unmarried for life. He is willing to accept the status quo and maintain this hard-won security model for a long time.

In Chi Yuhan's household registration book, the marital status column has always shown:

"unmarried".

From adulthood, from household division.

There has never been a change and he has always been unmarried.

If there is no marriage in this life, it will always show:

unmarried.

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