The world of Chinese style creates a prosperous era for girl groups

The Xia family hall became slightly quiet after the noise.

"No, what the hell are those gold bracelets hanging around Nana's neck when she served tea to her parents at home?" Xia Haoyang missed Sun Na's morning tea offering and was shocked by Sun Na's outfit on the screen when watching the video.

After Sun Na entered the Xia family's gate in the morning, she changed into the traditional Chinese cheongsam to perform various ceremonies. The bride's golden cheongsam was sewn entirely by hand, and the thread used was not made of ordinary material, but contained a large amount of pure gold.

The pure gold gown is not the most exaggerated thing. What is more exaggerated is the number and size of the golden dragon and phoenix bracelets that Sun Na wears. After counting them carefully, Sun Na has at least 20 pairs of giant dragon and phoenix bracelets on her chest. The dragon and phoenix bracelets are like a golden armor, completely covering her upper body. In addition, she also wears a pair of giant meteor hammers on her hands. She is absolutely rich.

According to traditional sayings, the more gold jewelry a bride wears, the better her marriage will be. Generally speaking, a bride wearing 8 pairs of dragon and phoenix bracelets is already very wealthy, but now Sun Na is wearing 20 pairs, which is why Xia Haoyang was shocked.

"I don't know why I have to wear this. It's so heavy. It presses my neck so hard that I can't straighten it. I feel like a nouveau riche wearing so many gold jewelry." Sun Na herself also complained.

The eldest sister-in-law Kuang Yurou, who was also sitting on the sofa holding her son, smiled and said, "It was the same when I got married. I also had 20 pairs of these things. I feel that Western-style weddings are better. The flowing white wedding gowns are delicate and beautiful. Wearing so many Chinese-style wedding gowns is purely for showing off and not beautiful."

"That's right, sister-in-law is right." Sun Na nodded quickly.

"You are still young and only care about whether it looks good or not. Yes, if I were twenty years younger, I would be the same as you and would also like Western-style weddings. But how should I put it? Getting married is the greatest honor in a woman's life. It must be heavy to wear twenty pairs of gold bracelets around the neck, right? But how many women can own twenty pairs of gold bracelets? You are just born in wealthy families and are used to these gold and silver objects. Many women may not even have a pair of such gold bracelets. In other words, if a man is willing to give his woman a pair of such gold bracelets, the woman will be devoted to him and spend the rest of her life with him." Mother Xia said with a smile.

Kuang Yurou and Sun Na are smart and know the ins and outs of society. After hearing what Mother Xia said, they nodded and said, "It is indeed difficult for an ordinary family to own such a set of gold. A wedding is a one-day honor for a woman. On the wedding day, she highlights her beauty and shows off her happiness (showing off her gold, silver and jade). This tradition passed down by our ancient ancestors seems to be understandable now."

Hearing Sun Na's words, Mother Xia nodded with satisfaction. The smile on her face and the tenderness in her eyes were full of satisfaction with her daughter-in-law.

Suddenly, Mother Xia turned her head, reached out and held Zeng Jingyi's hand: "The next step is the marriage of the third child and Jingyi."

Zeng Jingyi was suddenly called by Xia's mother, and she was talking about marriage. She was a little confused and shy. She just looked at Xia Haoyang and said softly: "This matter is decided by my senior brother."

There is no woman who does not yearn for a wedding, especially with the man she loves. After witnessing Sun Na's luxurious wedding, Zeng Jingyi felt a little envious.

This is a bit contradictory to say the least. If you ask Zeng Jingyi herself, she will tell you that she likes or hopes that her wedding will be low-key and simple, just a happy meal together with a few relatives and friends, without any need for extravagance. This is the truth. Zeng Jingyi really thinks so, and has thought about it more than once.

But when she saw that Sun Na’s wedding was so luxurious and lively, she would feel envious and jealous. It is a once-in-a-lifetime event, and it seems that only such luxury and liveliness can make her remember it.

Is this a woman's vanity? Does liking lively and extravagant scenes mean that women are vain?

Can we also say that a truly capable man should constantly satisfy his woman's vanity? Should a woman share the joys and sorrows with you, and then kick your wife out when the man becomes rich?

Suffering is never a necessity in life, but some people have to suffer in their lives; similarly, there is nothing wrong with women being vain, but some men are unable to satisfy their women's vanity and then, getting angry and humiliated, ignore their own incompetence and blame the sin on the women.

Influenced by Chinese tradition, women are usually embarrassed to speak directly about their thoughts on marriage. Most of them would say, like Zeng Jingyi just did, "The man should make the decision." In fact, after seeing such a wedding, Zeng Jingyi really wanted to have her own wedding, whether it was lively or simple. She wanted to get married, she wanted to wear a wedding dress, and she wanted the host to ask her if she was willing to marry the man in front of her, and then she could firmly say, "I do."

But what he said was: You decide, I don't care.

At this time, most men would answer like Xia Haoyang: "It seems Jingyi is not in a hurry, so I am not in a hurry either. Let's wait a few more years. It's okay. We are still young."

"It seems Jingyi is not in a hurry either." How can you tell that she is not in a hurry? Did you think about it when you said it?

Hearing Xia Haoyang's answer, Zeng Jingyi wanted to strangle Xia Haoyang to death. She cursed Xia Haoyang, a stupid straight man, more than a thousand times in her heart. She pinched her thumbs with her index fingers, otherwise she was afraid that she would get angry and stand up and slap him twice. But on the surface, she had to remain calm, with a sweet smile on her face, and nodded to Xia Haoyang.

Xia Haoyang also nodded seriously, thinking that the other party had the same thoughts as him.

Fortunately, the only stupid person among the people present was Xia Haoyang himself. Xia's mother, eldest sister-in-law Kuang Yurou, and second sister-in-law Sun Na could see Zeng Jingyi's little thoughts from her face. She wanted to get married so badly that it was reflected on her face. She was just short of shouting "I want to get married, right away!" This was not what Xia Haoyang said, and he was not in a hurry.

So Mother Xia spoke up, gently stroking Zeng Jingyi's hair, to calm her down: "Jingyi has obtained the marriage certificate first, and is also the daughter-in-law that our whole family has recognized. However, our families do have some small rules, one of which is to avoid "conflicting happiness with happiness." "