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Chapter 200 Why should you care about other people’s opinions?
"We've finished eating and we'll go over there first."
Guan Miao wiped her mouth with a handkerchief and said.
"Well, let's go and see where we need help. Hurry up and get help. There's not much time left." Qian Xiaoxiao said as he gnawed on the buns.
So a group of boys hugged Guan Miao and went to the villa nearby.
"Teacher, don't you need to go and take a look at the auditorium?"
"Well, I have to go. I'll go over after eating. Don't go out. Just stay at home with Aunt Yueniang. Do you hear me?"
"understood."
This time the wine was placed in the wedding hall in the villa area.
She didn't want so many people coming to the house and making a mess that she had to clean up.
The wedding hall over there has been held several times, and several families got married before the year. Everyone wanted to move into a new house, so they postponed the wedding to the year before.
The entire wedding process actually saves a lot of money.
For example, Nacai: This is the first stage of marriage negotiation. After the man asks a matchmaker to propose marriage, the woman agrees to the marriage proposal. The man prepares a gift and goes to the woman's house to propose. The gift is a goose, and the goose must be alive. Why use geese? Geese are migratory birds, so the symbol is in line with the meaning of yin and yang. Later, a new idea was developed, saying that geese lose their mates and will no longer be in pairs for life, in order to choose their loyalty. However, Shen Yueniang's case is a special situation, so this article is omitted.
Then there is the question of name: after the marriage proposal, the matchmaker is asked to ask the woman her date of birth and name in preparation for the marriage ceremony, not to mention this.
And Najib: It is a ceremony to inform the woman of the good news of the marriage after asking her name, which is also called "contracting". This is the main ritual during the engagement phase. According to ancient customs, geese are used as a token of confirmation that the marriage has been decided. Later, it developed to use rings, jewelry, colored silks, gift cakes, gift incense candles, and even sheep and pigs, etc., so it is also called a fixed appointment or a fixed appointment.
Then there is the betrothal gift: after the alliance is made, the groom's family sends the betrothal gift to the bride's family, which is a ceremony in the marriage stage. This wedding ceremony is also commonly known as the final betrothal or the big betrothal, the excessive gift, etc. Later, this ceremony also adopted the method of return gift, returning part or all of the food in the betrothal gift; or after being hired, the bride's family would give the man's clothes, hats, shoes and socks as a return gift. The amount of the betrothal gift and the name of the item usually have auspicious meanings, and the number should be double rather than single.
The next step is the application period: after sending the betrothal gift, choosing the wedding date, preparing the gift to the bride's family, and the ceremony to obtain consent. In ancient customs, geese are used as usual, and gifts are generally simple. The wedding gift is often combined with the betrothal gift, and the wedding date is determined at the same time as the wedding gift.
All the above points have been omitted.
According to what he means, since they are ready to be together, they won't do any calculations or do anything like wild geese, for fear that Shen Yueniang will think too much.
The last one is to welcome the bride.
It is a ceremony where the man goes to the woman’s home to welcome her together.
This ritual is often regarded as the main procedure of a wedding, while the first five items are regarded as transitional rituals such as marriage proposals and engagements.
Some of these forms are due to the needs of social relationships, such as "adding makeup" at the girl's house, "opening the bow" and "making wedding arrangements" when arriving at the boy's house, etc., which are all rituals for establishing social relationships.
Welcoming the bride is the last step in the wedding, but it is also the first step on the wedding day.
Because the ancients emphasized etiquette and ceremony, the wedding process was also quite complicated.
These include sedans to welcome the bride, worship in the hall, banquets, bridal chamber, wedding ceremony, hair knot and bridal chamber, most of which mean to wish good luck and ward off evil spirits.
But everyone is in the same community, or even the same house.
This kind of situation also exists in the community. Both the son and the daughter have bought into this community, so both parties feel that their character is good and they are a good match, so they got engaged and got married before the year before.
In their case, the groom went to the bride's house to pick her up after going around the neighborhood playing and playing.
Qian Xiaoxiao thought about it and decided that this was all he could do.
The people in the wedding team were found by Chen Sheng, and they would go directly to the Red Ceremony Hall around nine o'clock in the morning.
After she finished breakfast, she told the ladies to stay and entertain them in the villa.
A few of the ladies who are better at it will definitely come to the villa area to see the bride.
She hurriedly changed into her clothes for going out, wrapped herself up tightly, and headed to the Hong Kong Hall.
The snow has stopped now, and the snow on the roads in the community has been shoveled away by security guards.
"What a shame, getting married at this time." Xiaoyao said.
"No, it's so cold. If I get married...ah, who wants to get married? It's so hard to imagine." Qian Xiaoxiao was speechless. What's going on in the past two days, he always felt that he would really do it. It's like getting married.
"Boss Qian, congratulations."
"congratulations."
"Thank you, thank you. Come over for a wedding drink at noon."
Along the way, people kept saying hello to Qian Xiaoxiao.
Almost everyone knows that her family is doing something today.
"My face is almost frozen."
"Is it so cold?"
"I'm laughing so hard."
From a distance, I saw a row of red lanterns hung in the Red Ceremony Hall, which was very festive.
The big red cloth on the front door fluttered in the cold wind.
Qian Xiaoxiao shuddered unconsciously.
"Boss Qian, here you go, come in and warm yourself up." Chen Sheng was already leading the wedding team inside.
"Here you are?" Qian Xiaoxiao walked into the door of the funeral hall angrily.
Because it is a place for weddings, there will be more people, so the door is very large.
Now the door is not closed against the cold.
Instead, a transparent door curtain was installed so that one could see what was going on inside and what was going on outside without affecting the heating inside.
The entire lobby uses floor heating, which is the same as that used in every household.
So as long as someone is doing business, they have to pay the electricity bill for that day, because it consumes too much electricity.
But this small amount of money is nothing to them, and everyone can accept it.
Qian Xiaoxiao took off his gloves and walked inside.
Looking around, the tables and chairs are all made of pink tablecloths and chair covers, and there is a big bow behind the chair.
There is also a T stage in the middle of the lobby, which is connected to the stage in the center of the lobby.
The stage was also decorated as a pink wedding scene, with flower arches, garlands, flower baskets, ribbons, ribbons, streamers, and more.
There are two sets of tables and chairs in the middle, which are made for both parents.
Although there are no elders on either side, formality is still required.
This is just like a modern version of the wedding scene.
This was all arranged by Qian Xiaoxiao.
The conditions here are limited, otherwise she could have decorated it more magnificently.
"I should have changed your color long ago..."
"You want to say that in ancient times, concubines were only pink?"
"You know what?"
"I know, but we can follow what our side says, why do we have to follow what our side says."
"You're not afraid of being said to be disrespectful to the bride, it's up to you."
"Yue Niang wouldn't think like that. As long as she doesn't think about me that way, nothing else matters. We don't live to show everyone. Why should we care so much about other people's opinions and ignore our own feelings?"
"Isn't it normal to care about other people's opinions? People's opinions are terrible."
"Even if it's normal to care about other people's opinions, you have to know that not all people are human. Instead of caring about what others think of you, it's better to manage yourself well, know clearly what you want, and don't think you really If you care so much about what other people say, isn't that just like a pair of underpants? You'll catch on to whatever other people fart."
"It seems to make sense."
"So, people who care too much about what others say usually have two things: either they are tired to death, or they are tortured to death by others. Haven't you noticed that those who live unhappy lives are actually people who particularly care about other people's opinions? ?”
"Yes, yes, yes, everything you said is right, I can't tell you the truth." The little demon surrendered.
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