Hold the baby in your left hand and the world in your right hand

Thoughts on Women’s Day

Being spoiled is like killing a child. Since I became a mother, although I have occasionally slacked off, I have always worked hard. I remember one day a year, Teacher Bai called me. I was in the Dongsheng Group and was in a state of distress. Teacher Bai said seriously and jokingly: Xiuju Ah, I look at your circle of friends every day. You have been too strict with Chenchen recently. Maybe you go to school by yourself and have always been demanding of yourself, but he is still a child, two or three years old. You are living a life, not working, so It's so boring to be strict and rigid... Being a parent means taking the long term, but you still have to be square on the inside and round on the outside to live a relaxed life... Later, when I started my own business, he and Teacher Tang spoke earnestly and told me to pay attention to my time schedule. Be disciplined, pay attention to the separation of work, study and life, pay attention to your body... This kind of influence of spring breeze and rain is the best education I understand. Over the years, I have read many books and met many famous teachers, but those childhood affections The voices keep coming out. Yesterday, I reported the problem to my children’s class group. I hope that the children will develop in an all-round way morally, intellectually, physically, and mentally, and put moral character first. Some students felt that it was making a mountain out of a molehill. Children at such a young age still don’t understand their rights. Play games, treat guests, give gifts, bribes, etc., but we must always set an example for our children to prevent the slightest change. At least I hope that my child will understand the world but not be worldly, and he will be able to act on the right path. After all, he is only seven or eight years old in the second grade. It's still not too late... I hope that all the efforts and dedication of our Family Promotion Association in the past two years can win a bright future for the children. This may be the humblest intention of us as parents.

"Jane Eyre", "Pride and Prejudice", "The Great Gatsby", "The Red and the Black" and "The Scarlet Letter" are the five books that have the deepest impact on me. From high school to college, from Chinese to English versions, these books have been read over and over again. It’s rotten in our bones, and that’s why everything happened later… We speak for women, but it’s not purely female literature. We want to be the best and strongest, and want to change the world, not because of power or using power for personal gain, but because we hope that those who The darkness is seen and eliminated... Over the years, I have maintained a relatively close relationship with my classmates and teachers in middle and high school. Every year when I go back, we all get together. They always say that when I go back, I call them to greet me. , I went to the world and they saw me off... I was afraid of separation, so I never let them pick me up at the train station or the bus station. They affectionately called me squad leader or Sister Fu. I also did many brave things for this affection, just like the old man. Gao said yesterday that there are very few people like you, a silly elder sister. I still hope you can protect yourself before helping others... Every year we speak out for justice, we offend many people. One year, we offend the local media, etc., my friend. I was advised not to participate in the second half, because the cost of life has occurred, and compromise and reconciliation are not my character... When I reach middle age, I always like to be nostalgic. I have chosen a more difficult path. Compared with working in a business, I am a writer. It may mean illness, insomnia, entanglement and soul torture. You must control your emotions and understand writing theories such as the iceberg principle. Only by practicing again and again can you write something that reveals the magic in the ordinary and the tranquility in the hustle and bustle.

Cherish what you have at the moment.

Her strength! She is a wife, a mother, a daughter, an employee, a partner, a legal person... Even though she has countless identities, the most important thing is that she is still herself! Stick to your ideals, live your life, and wish every independent woman a happy #Women's Day?