Siheyuan: Rebirth 54 years ago, neighbor is stupid

Ding Hui stopped keeping the secret and said with a smile, "If a woman is with a man for material reasons such as money or background, she knows clearly that she is a vassal. Such a woman will often be more obedient, more sensible, and more willing to please the man."

"Because she feels insecure, she can only prevent a man from abandoning her by showing weakness and kindness. She is after material things in the first place, and she is smart not to change her attitude and crawl onto a man just because she is pampered. This is a huge risk for her original purpose."

"To put it another way, if a person wants to get promoted at work without any ability, he or she must curry favor with the leader. Do you think such a person would be arrogant enough to challenge the leader or even teach the leader how to do things? Even if the leader has a special attitude towards you and likes you very much, would you really dare to take the risk and do that?"

Zhao Yuanshan and Li Zhenmin seemed to understand the examples of women in relationships, but when Ding Hui told them about the examples at work, they understood everything at once!

The logic behind both is the same.

At work, will people who want to use abnormal means try to control their leaders just because their leaders like them?

of course not!

No matter how much the leader likes you, no matter how stupid the leader is, no smart person would be stupid enough to control the leader, because the leader is destined to have extraordinary connections.

Leaders will receive more attention both at work and in life. If he himself doesn’t realize it, won’t the people around him who have a vested interest in him remind him?

He usually doesn't realize that when his interests are lost and he feels pain, will he still like you?

Obviously this is uncertain. For subordinates, it is extremely risky to manipulate their leaders. Once something goes wrong, all efforts will be wasted.

Any smart person would not take such unnecessary risks.

This world is not like in the novel, where King Zhou of Shang destroyed his empire for Daji. According to normal logic, Daji was definitely not that stupid. The reason for the final demise of the empire was either that King Zhou of Shang gave up on himself, or that the Zhou Dynasty tampered with history books and deliberately discredited King Zhou of Shang in order to make the world more submissive.

In short, the actual reason is definitely not as foolish as described in the novel.

Moreover, is Hu Yong the King Zhou of Shang? His relative status is obviously not enough. Not many people dared to hinder King Zhou of Shang, but Hu Yong was not the one who had the final say at home. Moreover, Hu Yong was a progressive person. He just valued feelings, but he was not really so stupid that he could not be saved.

Moreover, is Malanlan Daji? Obviously not. Daji seduced King Zhou of Shang everywhere, while Malanlan suppressed Hu Yong everywhere. There is an essential difference.

In addition, everything Malanlan did was completely opposite to what a person who was greedy for money would do, just like a fool.

But Ma Lanlan is not such a stupid person by nature, so under normal circumstances, it is impossible for her to do something to suppress Hu Yong in every way.

Therefore, using this logic, Ma Lanlan is not actually dating Hu Yong because of material wealth!

Maybe this logic is not completely rigorous, but it is basically the same.

Li Zhenmin couldn't help but feel a little nervous. No wonder he always felt something was strange. So this is what was going on. So he asked curiously, "Aunt, so, when Ma Lanlan started dating Xiaoyong, she really thought she liked him, but then she gradually became more demanding?"

Ding Hui shook her head: "It seems so, but I don't think she likes you because she has been dating your brother for almost three years and she has never been to your house. Your house is not far away, so if she wants to see your parents, she can do so anytime."

"Besides, you are the eldest brother and you are still working in the factory. She should also greet you during the holidays. This is the most basic courtesy between people."

"But Malanlan has never done any of these, not even once. This is not something that someone who is spoiled by their husbands would do. Instead, it seems like she doesn't want to marry your brother in her heart, and is afraid that after meeting you two, they will really establish a relationship."

Li Zhenmin nodded without commenting, it was indeed true.

This was also the reason why he felt that something was wrong with Ma Lanlan. He had thought about this aspect as well, but just now he heard Ding Hui say that it was not because of material things, so he asked this question, fearing that he had not thought of this.

After hearing Ding Hui's denial, Li Zhenmin felt more and more uneasy and said, "So, it's not because of feelings or material things. Then Ma Lanlan and Xiaoyong's relationship is not voluntary. It seems that they were arranged and forced to do so."

Considering the investigation into Ma Lanlan's personality and her behavior towards Hu Yong, this conclusion seems reasonable.

Ma Lanlan is proud and is forced to date someone she doesn't like. Children of this age will always show their feelings through daily events. If this is the case, then her attitude towards Hu Yong seems understandable.

Ding Hui nodded: "That's what I think. I don't know what's behind this, but if it was arranged by someone, I'm afraid it was directed at you. Of course, this is just my analysis of her as a woman. You can just refer to it for reference. You have to investigate the specific situation before you can draw a conclusion."

Zhao Yuanshan finally figured out the whole story and agreed with Ding Hui's inference.

So he replied, "Okay, I'll check on that guy named Ma Xiaochuan tomorrow to see if he knows anything about Xiao Caihong's disability, but that's all I can do, and it may not be of any use. If you want to investigate the reasons behind Ma Lanlan's abnormality, you can try to ask Director Zhang for help and see if you can get someone from the National Security Bureau to come forward."

Li Zhenmin understood what Zhao Yuanshan meant.

If Zhao Yuanshan fails to find accurate information about this matter, it is estimated that the person behind the scenes has great power, and in this case the National Security Bureau will have to step in.

If they want Guoan to intervene, unless something really happens to Li Zhenmin, Guoan has no reason to take action unless Li Zhenmin's interests or personal safety are harmed.

So they have to make up a story to give the National Security Bureau a reason. As a senior leader of the Ministry of Health, it would be much more effective if Zhang Huaiyuan made up this story. Regardless of whether it is true or not, the National Security Bureau must try to investigate. Otherwise, if something really happened to Li Zhenmin, they may not be able to take responsibility.

"Well, if Uncle Zhao doesn't get any news from Ma Xiaochuan, I'll go find Uncle Zhang. But if you think there's any problem, stop investigating. Don't get involved. I don't want to disturb your quiet retirement. This is true. Don't think I'm retreating to advance."

Li Zhenmin's final emphasis was very serious.

Zhao Yuanshan waved his hands: "Come on, come on, I know my limits. I don't know who you are. Don't worry, I will stop if something goes wrong. I won't force myself to do something when I know I can't handle it. That would only make things worse."

Li Zhenmin was finally relieved after getting Zhao Yuanshan's answer. If there was something complicated behind this matter and Zhao Yuanshan was involved in it, he would definitely feel embarrassed.

.........

A week passed in a flash.

There has been no follow-up for more than ten days since Li Zhenmin had a fight with the old lady. The old lady has been feeling very nervous these days and is beginning to fear that Li Zhenmin will really be strong enough to force her to apologize on her own initiative.

So she took the initiative to find Li Zhenmin to apologize, otherwise she might offend Li Zhenmin to death for the sake of face, which would not be a good thing for her grandson.