In the age of rebirth, I became popular in the pastoral live broadcast

Song Hongguo had a guess in her mind, but she couldn't take the initiative to speak. She had to pretend to be stupid and ask, "What's wrong with Qiuyue?"

Zhao Yulian's old face turned red and she said with hatred, "She wants to find someone who provides food..."

Song Hongguo smiled calmly, "People walk to higher places, Qiuyue is right to think so."

Zhao Yulian said angrily, "Yes, when people go to higher places, everyone wants to live a good life, but they have to carefully consider their own status first. Why should we pay attention to being well-matched when getting married? No one is a fool. The conditions of both parties are similar. That is called a strong alliance. They can support each other when encountering problems. What is called poverty alleviation when the two sides are too different? When encountering a difficult situation, the weak one can't help, so how can others look after him? What's the point of living a life based on your husband's face? Just because you want to be high on someone else's family, have face, and have no worries about food and clothing, you have to debase yourself?"

The system then popped up, "Your second aunt is still affectionate, but it can't compare to a loving mother's heart..."

Otherwise, he wouldn't have gone to Song Hongguo even though he knew it was wrong and inappropriate.

When you go to Song Hongguo, you definitely don't just want to vent your complaints, but you also want to ask her to help you pull red strings.

Song Hongguo ignored it, looked at Zhao Yulian and said, "You are right, but what about Qiuyue? You must have educated her in this way, can't she listen?"

She has a good sense of Zhao Qiuyue, she is very diligent and sensible, and there is nothing wrong with her words and deeds. Is it possible that she is greedy for vanity deep down?

Zhao Yulian sighed, her expression a little depressed, "I've said it, I've said it more than once. A few years ago, I reminded her not to have any ambitions. There was a girl in the village who married a worker and lived in the city. , her identity changed, and after she came back she kept showing off, and even tried to win over her mother-in-law, letting people know that she was promising, and she was very envious of her. I saw something was wrong, so I beat her up..."

"I told her that it's wrong to be out of the family. Life may look good at the beginning, but it may not be really good in the future. If you marry a worker and the woman is from the countryside, she will naturally bow her head in front of her husband's family. You have to look at their faces and everything. Being a child, you can only swallow your grievances, and you can't stand up and be strong even if you ask for support from your mother's family. Who says the weight of the two ends is different, especially after giving birth to a child, you have to follow the identity of the mother, and you won't be able to eat the food supply. As time goes by, can my husband’s family not become resentful?”

"And once there is resentment, no matter how deep the relationship is, it can't withstand the wear and tear. What will the woman do then? She can't bear the consequences of her children if she gets divorced. If she doesn't divorce, she has to swallow her anger and act like a bully to get rid of her sins. At that time, it's a daily routine Even if you eat delicacies from the mountains and seas, they won’t taste good..."

Song Hongguo nodded frequently as she listened, "You're right, where is Qiuyue? What does she think?"

Zhao Yulian said in a low voice, "She was considered obedient. She listened to it at the time and no longer had such unrealistic dreams. She honestly waited for me to show her my love. But in the past two years, my love has improved a lot." She just doesn't like it. She can always find faults in others. I thought she was young, so I didn't push her. Anyway, Zhensheng hasn't found her yet. She should slowly find out as a younger sister and wait for fate to come. Now, maybe I can get married soon, who knows..."

After a pause, she looked at Song Hongguo with a bit of shame and embarrassment in her eyes, "Who knows, yesterday she saw the dignity of the Huo family when they came to welcome the bride, and saw the splendor of your marriage, and her heart suddenly grew bigger. Yes, I envy you for finding someone as outstanding as Huo Gong. He is handsome, has a good family background, and has a decent job. He still values ​​you so much. Not only did he give us a lot of face in the wedding, but he also put a lot of thought into setting up the banquet. At that time, who Don't you praise me? Especially at our family's banquet, they all say that they have never had such a rich banquet in their lives. They are all envious of you for finding a good and capable partner. A wife is more valuable than a husband... "

Women who want to change their identities and cross social classes can do so through their own efforts, but obviously, that is too difficult. In the current environment, either going to college or recruiting workers into a factory are the only ways to change their household registration. The second is to get married. Compared with the former, this is obviously easier, and if you are lucky, you may be able to cross several levels at once, soar into the sky, and reach a height that you cannot reach in a lifetime of hard work.

Perhaps in the eyes of others, she is a typical representative, and maybe she will be considered a successful case and a leader among them.

Who says she is an orphan? There is no family background at all, and she has two children as a drag. Not to mention a man with good conditions, even an ordinary man has to think twice about marrying her. After all, no matter how good her personal conditions are, there is no one behind her. Having no one also means that there is no help for the man, and he has to raise two more children. Who wants to be taken advantage of?

Like it, like it, when it comes to marriage, most men are realistic. Otherwise, when she first entered the hospital, she would have been pursued by many workers because of her face and status as a college student.

But in fact, there were many admirers, but few acted. She was not stupid, she could understand the enthusiasm in their eyes, but also understood their concerns and hesitations.

When she and Huo Minglou confirmed their relationship, after the news spread, I don’t know how many people didn’t believe it, and some questioned whether Huo Minglou was in love. After all, based on his conditions, he couldn’t find any kind of partner. Why do you think you have to get one with a tow oil bottle?

It is inevitable that some people will speculate that she used some scheming means to take down Huo Minglou and make him surrender.

I even heard that there were women in the factory who imitated her, thinking that if she could win over the superior Huo Minglou, they could also conquer better gay men. So for a while, there was a lot of fun and jokes in the factory. It wasn't until a female employee couldn't bear it and cursed "a toad wants to eat swan meat" after the gay man she was pestering, and the whole place became aware of it. She almost wanted to die out of shame and anger, and this kind of thing gradually became less common.

Countless thoughts were rushing through her mind, but Song Hongguo's expression remained calm, "So, Qiuyue also thinks that my success is all due to marrying Huo Minglou?"

Hearing this, Zhao Yulian quickly waved her hands, "Of course not. If she dares to think that, I will have to slap her to death. If others don't know, how can our family not know? You are a capable person, no worse than Huo Gong. He He is a college student, and so are you. His salary is high, and you are several times higher than your peers. He has contributed to the factory, and you are also valued by the hospital. You are equally matched and evenly matched. There is no one who takes advantage of the other, the only one is us. The lintel here is not as high as the Huo family, but I look at Huo Gong's brother and sister-in-law, and they don't care about this. They value your own abilities more..."

Song Hongguo smiled and said, "That's true, but it's true that most of the scenery yesterday was due to Huo Minglou. Only one-third of the guests who went there were directed at me, and they were all colleagues from the hospital. The importance of the guests from the Huo family is completely incomparable, and I have indeed benefited from him a lot..."

"Hongguo?" Zhao Yulian looked at her in astonishment, "You, how can you say that about yourself?"

Song Hongguo said, "Second aunt, this is a fact, but I don't mind it, nor do I feel inferior or embarrassed. My family background is not as good as that of the Huo family, and this cannot be changed no matter what."

"But, you are very good in your own right, as good as Huo Gong."

"Yes, he is excellent, and I am not bad either, so when I am with him, I can always be confident and confident, and I never have to compromise. Even if I marry him with two children, I don't feel like I owe him anything, because our relationship is right. Wait, no one needs to compromise or give in. He gave me dignity, glory, or status, but I can also give him warmth, companionship, and care. I can be a good helper and help him with his career. In the future, when he is busy with work, I can also take on the important responsibility of taking care of the family. As the daughter-in-law of the Huo family, I will only make the Huo family proud of me! "