I was dumbfounded and got married to a rich man after school.
182: Victim Guilt Theory
As soon as Qi Jingyan's hand touched Shen Sa's skin, she retracted her arm in pain. Seeing that she had rubbed her arm so red, swollen and broken, with blood marks all over it like scraping, he was immediately furious. He said angrily: "Who asked you to rub yourself like this?"
Shen Sa lowered her head and said nothing.
Qi Jingyan was anxious and angry, but he also knew that after going through so many things, Shen Sa was afraid that it would be difficult for Shen Sa to return to her previous state in a short time. So although he was angry that she tortured him like this, he also knew that by losing his temper now, she would definitely Can't listen.
"Don't do it next time." He said patiently, holding Shen Sa in his arms.
Shen Sa was at the mercy of Qi Jingyan like a puppet on strings. Seeing that she didn't want to sleep, Qi Jingyan didn't turn off the bedside lamp and just sat quietly with her, thinking about how to comfort her to cheer her up again.
"Uncle, am I no longer worthy of you?" Shen Sa asked suddenly.
Qi Jingyan asked in surprise: "Why?"
"I've been touched by them." Shen Sa was aggrieved, her voice was crying, and she felt like tears would fall again if she said two words.
Qi Jingyan felt unreasonable for a moment: "You didn't send it here on your own initiative, what does it have to do with you?"
"They said I came to them on my own initiative. They said I deserved it. They said...if I didn't go to the bar, nothing would have happened." Shen Sa shed tears silently and murmured, "They are right, it's all my fault. .”
"Who are they?" Qi Jingyan's face suddenly turned cold.
"People on the Internet." Shen Sa buried her head in Qi Jingyan's arms and sobbed silently.
Qi Jingyan is really convinced by the keyboard warriors on the Internet. What else can he do if he has long hands besides being able to rant without thinking?What right does a guy who doesn't know what's going on have a say? Why should he dictate to others?What about the theory of victim guilt? !
The reason why Shi Yan was asked to help clean up the online videos was because they were afraid that such remarks would be seen by Sa Sa. No matter what the reason was for Sa Sa to go to the bar, they would definitely say "If you go to a bar, you deserve to be raped." Even if Sa Sa was just being raped. They are forced to go to the appointment, but they don't care about this, they will only vent their selfish desires!
Qi Jingyan picked up Shen Sa's phone and flipped through the pages she had just browsed. He was so angry that he wanted to get through the network cable, tear their mouths and smash their hands!
But venting anger is useless now, comforting Sa Sa is the most important thing.
Qi Jingyan thought for a moment and said, "Have you forgotten how you evaluated these people before? You didn't care when they pointed at your nose and said something about you. Why are you now being brainwashed by these idiotic remarks across a network cable? You Why are you going to the bar? Isn’t it because Tao Weiwei asked you out under the guise of Shi Yulan? People on the Internet don’t know this, they only know how to slander people!"
"But I didn't investigate...I didn't even ask Yulan what was going on, so I went there stupidly..." Shen Sa tightened her grip on Qi Jingyan's clothes, she just couldn't get over this hurdle in her heart.
"Who would check if a good friend is her when facing any request? She's not asking you to borrow money, she's just asking you to hang out. This needs to be investigated further, right? I found that you are Really..." Qi Jingyan said helplessly, "I told you not to take a shower too hard, maybe your brain is flooded with water, right?"
"But, but..."
"No buts." Qi Jingyan lifted Shen Sa's face and kissed her lips gently, "Don't say that nothing happened today because you were lucky. Even if you were really hurt by those guys, I wouldn't think so. It's your fault, I won't dislike you, I will only feel sorry for you, understand? So stop saying dirty things, you know I'm not that kind of mentally retarded man."
After saying this, Qi Jingyan hugged her tighter, and Shen Sa held on to the lapel of his clothes, feeling inexplicably comforted. Even if she was deceiving herself, she was willing to believe what her uncle said.
"How is Tao Weiwei?" After a moment, she asked softly.
"What do you think about falling from such a high place?" Qi Jingyan sighed, "What a pity. I originally thought she should be imprisoned for at least ten or twenty years before she dies."
"Then, where are their families?" Shen Sa felt that Tao Weiwei's death was not a pity, but she liked Grandpa Tao very much. Thinking of the white-haired man giving away the black-haired man, she felt pity for the two elders.
"It's crazy. I happened to meet them at the police station tonight. Tao Weiwei's father pulled me reluctantly and thought I pushed her down. Later, Shi——" Qi Jingyan was about to say Shi Yulan's father also went, but when he thought that Shen Sa didn't know about Yulan's situation, he suddenly shut up.
"What's the poem? Is Yulan also there?" Shen Sa asked anxiously.
"No, Yulan's family has gone."
"What about Yulan? How is she? I just called her and she didn't answer. I called Tianlin and he didn't answer either." Shen Sa asked with tears in her eyes, "Did something happen to Yulan? ?”
Qi Jingyan hesitated on how to word it. After a moment, he said in a deep voice: "I think they haven't figured out how to face these things yet. Like you, they are not in a calm mood. And for some things, I think the parties concerned have to deal with them. You say it's better. If the person involved doesn't want to talk, it means they don't want you to know. Then Sa Sa, it's better for you not to know. This is respect for them, what do you think?"
The uncle talked about this, and Shen Sa understood that this probably meant that Yulan's situation was much worse than hers.
"I want to go see her."
"Then you have to adjust your mentality first. Otherwise, both of you will be embarrassed and what will happen if you end up together? Especially you. Your situation is much better than hers. You have to positively influence her mentality. Don't think that this matter is very serious and will hit you hard, so what do you want Yulan to do? Do you understand?" Qi Jingyan warned, he also hoped that through these words, Sa Sa could cheer up again.
Shen Sa nodded silently, knowing that her uncle was right.
"That's right. Sa Sa, you are so strong. You have to lead Yulan to make her strong too. Only then can you be a friend. Keep saying I'm sorry to her will only make her feel more wronged."
The uncle is so kind. Shen Sa tightened her arms and was glad that she married a stable adult who could provide her with emotional value, instead of a man who would only blame her when something happened.
That's right, I want to encourage Yulan to cheer up instead of showing that she is sadder than she is. Perhaps in Yulan's eyes, her situation has gotten much better and she really has no right to be negative and sad in front of her.
"I understand. When she calms down in a few days, I will go and see her." Shen Sa kissed Qi Jingyan back, "Thank you, uncle, for enlightening me."
"It should be." Qi Jingyan said with a serious face, "You are a child and I am an adult."
Shen Sa lowered her head and said nothing.
Qi Jingyan was anxious and angry, but he also knew that after going through so many things, Shen Sa was afraid that it would be difficult for Shen Sa to return to her previous state in a short time. So although he was angry that she tortured him like this, he also knew that by losing his temper now, she would definitely Can't listen.
"Don't do it next time." He said patiently, holding Shen Sa in his arms.
Shen Sa was at the mercy of Qi Jingyan like a puppet on strings. Seeing that she didn't want to sleep, Qi Jingyan didn't turn off the bedside lamp and just sat quietly with her, thinking about how to comfort her to cheer her up again.
"Uncle, am I no longer worthy of you?" Shen Sa asked suddenly.
Qi Jingyan asked in surprise: "Why?"
"I've been touched by them." Shen Sa was aggrieved, her voice was crying, and she felt like tears would fall again if she said two words.
Qi Jingyan felt unreasonable for a moment: "You didn't send it here on your own initiative, what does it have to do with you?"
"They said I came to them on my own initiative. They said I deserved it. They said...if I didn't go to the bar, nothing would have happened." Shen Sa shed tears silently and murmured, "They are right, it's all my fault. .”
"Who are they?" Qi Jingyan's face suddenly turned cold.
"People on the Internet." Shen Sa buried her head in Qi Jingyan's arms and sobbed silently.
Qi Jingyan is really convinced by the keyboard warriors on the Internet. What else can he do if he has long hands besides being able to rant without thinking?What right does a guy who doesn't know what's going on have a say? Why should he dictate to others?What about the theory of victim guilt? !
The reason why Shi Yan was asked to help clean up the online videos was because they were afraid that such remarks would be seen by Sa Sa. No matter what the reason was for Sa Sa to go to the bar, they would definitely say "If you go to a bar, you deserve to be raped." Even if Sa Sa was just being raped. They are forced to go to the appointment, but they don't care about this, they will only vent their selfish desires!
Qi Jingyan picked up Shen Sa's phone and flipped through the pages she had just browsed. He was so angry that he wanted to get through the network cable, tear their mouths and smash their hands!
But venting anger is useless now, comforting Sa Sa is the most important thing.
Qi Jingyan thought for a moment and said, "Have you forgotten how you evaluated these people before? You didn't care when they pointed at your nose and said something about you. Why are you now being brainwashed by these idiotic remarks across a network cable? You Why are you going to the bar? Isn’t it because Tao Weiwei asked you out under the guise of Shi Yulan? People on the Internet don’t know this, they only know how to slander people!"
"But I didn't investigate...I didn't even ask Yulan what was going on, so I went there stupidly..." Shen Sa tightened her grip on Qi Jingyan's clothes, she just couldn't get over this hurdle in her heart.
"Who would check if a good friend is her when facing any request? She's not asking you to borrow money, she's just asking you to hang out. This needs to be investigated further, right? I found that you are Really..." Qi Jingyan said helplessly, "I told you not to take a shower too hard, maybe your brain is flooded with water, right?"
"But, but..."
"No buts." Qi Jingyan lifted Shen Sa's face and kissed her lips gently, "Don't say that nothing happened today because you were lucky. Even if you were really hurt by those guys, I wouldn't think so. It's your fault, I won't dislike you, I will only feel sorry for you, understand? So stop saying dirty things, you know I'm not that kind of mentally retarded man."
After saying this, Qi Jingyan hugged her tighter, and Shen Sa held on to the lapel of his clothes, feeling inexplicably comforted. Even if she was deceiving herself, she was willing to believe what her uncle said.
"How is Tao Weiwei?" After a moment, she asked softly.
"What do you think about falling from such a high place?" Qi Jingyan sighed, "What a pity. I originally thought she should be imprisoned for at least ten or twenty years before she dies."
"Then, where are their families?" Shen Sa felt that Tao Weiwei's death was not a pity, but she liked Grandpa Tao very much. Thinking of the white-haired man giving away the black-haired man, she felt pity for the two elders.
"It's crazy. I happened to meet them at the police station tonight. Tao Weiwei's father pulled me reluctantly and thought I pushed her down. Later, Shi——" Qi Jingyan was about to say Shi Yulan's father also went, but when he thought that Shen Sa didn't know about Yulan's situation, he suddenly shut up.
"What's the poem? Is Yulan also there?" Shen Sa asked anxiously.
"No, Yulan's family has gone."
"What about Yulan? How is she? I just called her and she didn't answer. I called Tianlin and he didn't answer either." Shen Sa asked with tears in her eyes, "Did something happen to Yulan? ?”
Qi Jingyan hesitated on how to word it. After a moment, he said in a deep voice: "I think they haven't figured out how to face these things yet. Like you, they are not in a calm mood. And for some things, I think the parties concerned have to deal with them. You say it's better. If the person involved doesn't want to talk, it means they don't want you to know. Then Sa Sa, it's better for you not to know. This is respect for them, what do you think?"
The uncle talked about this, and Shen Sa understood that this probably meant that Yulan's situation was much worse than hers.
"I want to go see her."
"Then you have to adjust your mentality first. Otherwise, both of you will be embarrassed and what will happen if you end up together? Especially you. Your situation is much better than hers. You have to positively influence her mentality. Don't think that this matter is very serious and will hit you hard, so what do you want Yulan to do? Do you understand?" Qi Jingyan warned, he also hoped that through these words, Sa Sa could cheer up again.
Shen Sa nodded silently, knowing that her uncle was right.
"That's right. Sa Sa, you are so strong. You have to lead Yulan to make her strong too. Only then can you be a friend. Keep saying I'm sorry to her will only make her feel more wronged."
The uncle is so kind. Shen Sa tightened her arms and was glad that she married a stable adult who could provide her with emotional value, instead of a man who would only blame her when something happened.
That's right, I want to encourage Yulan to cheer up instead of showing that she is sadder than she is. Perhaps in Yulan's eyes, her situation has gotten much better and she really has no right to be negative and sad in front of her.
"I understand. When she calms down in a few days, I will go and see her." Shen Sa kissed Qi Jingyan back, "Thank you, uncle, for enlightening me."
"It should be." Qi Jingyan said with a serious face, "You are a child and I am an adult."
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